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Random thoughts on chastity devices

Boy in white stockings in bondage and chastity deviceWhy are we so aroused by getting ourselves (or even thinking about this) into chastity devices? Shouldn’t it be exactly the opposite?

Random thoughts on crossdressing and bondage

A crossdresser in a French maid outfit, black pantyhose and a chastity beltTo get excited we dress in something interesting. Think of sheer back-seamed stockings, shiny pantyhose, tight swimsuits or leotards, latex catsuits, high heels, you named it. (Not many males consider such things “normal” clothes, that do not pump blood into the proper places). But then we add chastity devices, tightly bind ourselves (or someone put you in an inescapable bondage, if you are lucky), to prevent masturbation.

Hm… Yes, OK, sounds logical…

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Demotivators of the day. Homophobia: The Fear That…

homophobia-01“Homophobia – the fear that gay men will treat you the way you treat women”

This picture made my day. We definitely need more of them for every stupid social phenomenon. YEs, I know that the image does not cover all cases, but it’s a good beginning.

Source: Cheezburger

Family planning advice

rear-entry-01Hmmm.. Indeed…

Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 61. Over the top and secret desires

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If you push yourself to the limits and out of your comfort zone, two things can happen: magic or breakage.

If your secret desire has finally come true, also two things can happen: happiness and relief or disappointment and vacuum.

What happens if you combine both? If you push yourself to the limits to make your wish come true?

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 58. Curiosity

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Another thing is curiosity. Even if it’s embarrassing, uncomfortable, strange, weird, curiosity pushes us forward. “Blue or red pill?” Oh, I’ve seen what’s back there, show me something new!

That reminds me of one photo session I had with a colleague of mine. “When you pulled out that latex dress, fishnet pantyhose, gags, latex stockings, plugs, ropes and other stuff, how could I stop? Of course, I wanted you to continue! Of course, I was very curious!”

But I always try to be gentle.

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 57. Anticipations vs Expectations

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Anticipation and expectation are synonyms, but what a huge difference in the “results”! Anticipation can “increase the pleasure. Moreover, you are getting pleasure in advance by anticipating something. But expectations can ruin everything. Expectations can even be used as punishment:”You did not meet my expectations“. One of the biggest “managerial bullshit sayings”… Disgusting…

You can anticipate something, and not expect anything at the same time. Having anticipation puts a smile on our faces, not having expectations protects us from disappointments.

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 56. Self-bondage and testing, DSM and inferiority complexes

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Two good points:

1. Before “applying” a new tool on your partner you always must try it by yourself. So selfbondage comes handy here.

2. Can BDSM (mostly DSM) relationships be used during normal family life with your partner? Or do they exclude equal roles that normal, stable, long-term-oriented partnership “should” have? Or are they intended to compensate deficiencies and various (e.g. inferiority) complexes?

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Would you wear the same fetish clothes in public if… Demotivators of the day

men-in-pantyhose-404Latex is just a material, there is nothing wrong in wearing latex in public“, “Yes, I wear these clothes in public. And to the office too“, “I never get any bad comments about my outfit“, “Nobody will notice anything“.

You’ve heard that before, right? Or possibly it was you who said that? OK, at least I did and do. Usually I ask two questions (but and never get answers, ha-ha…).

The first one is mostly addressed to women:

Would you wear these clothes if you knew that nobody would see you?

The second is definitely for men (we know what happens with our self-bondage or bondage mood when this happens :D ):
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