Do you know why some jobs are associated with … mmmm … let’s call it interesting activity not directly related to the direct responsibilities? I found the drawing on the left many years ago and for some reason I think that the girl bound herself up then called her safety person who is supposed to release her from self-bondage.

A couple of hours passed and the door bell rang. She opened the door but instead of the “key-holder” …. surprise!!!! … a pizza delivery man stood in front of the door asking if it’s her who ordered the pizza.

That was a drawing and imagination. But in the video below you will see real men, real zentai and a real pizza delivery man. Would you dare?
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Almost but not far from the title. It’s all in the definitions. You may remember what I wear when the temperature drops below 18°C (see this post). But what to wear when it’s colder than 10? (It was +4 tonight).

I was wearing thin nur Die Hüft 15 (legs), Wolford Perfectly 30 (arms-hands, yes, my hands were totally covered by nylon, no holes), 3mm neoprene Tribord Projohn DG500 wetsuit (long legs, short sleeves, I could not find the long sleeve version in Decathlon, 50€). Only my head was uncovered and this is the only detail what would differ from the title.

Why pantyhose on hands? Several reasons:

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Apparently my idea of fetish gyms was/is so obvious so such dream places begin to appear. Or is it what’s called the thoughts materialization?

I thought that it would be nice to have sport-clubs, language courses, music lessons etc where people must be dressed accordingly. Think of latex, lycra, PVC or even bondage. Yes, there are TV-café’s, gay-clubs, fetish parties, but I’m talking about something different. My idea is to combine something useful (sport, learning) with something pleasurable (fetish).

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Here’s the digest of the recent most popular forum threads:

• Mermaid diving suit and swimming in latex leotard and transparent latex pantyhose.
• Men in pantyhose (photos, updated again)
• Do you want to look like Cher? Check this out.
• Did you like leotards and shiny pantyhose when you were a kid? This story might remind you that time.

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This is what is currently being discussed in the forum:

What clothes is appropriate for men and what is not? Why? Would you dare? See Men in “inappropriate” clothing.

What “stimuli” work for you? Do you need motivation or encouragement? What gives your imagination a “push”? See What gets you in the self-bondage mood.

Where did you see bondage for the first time? When you were a kid? In a book? On the TV? See Bondage in TV-Series.

Latex clothes in usual “vanilla” shops? See Rubber at Top Shop.

Do you have a self-bondage safety person? Can you call anybody to help you out of the self-inflicted predicament should anything go wrong or to check “just in case”? See Mad idea involving the bolero armbinder.

Men in pantyhose/tights? See here.

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While the definition of the word “fetish” is pretty much “standard”, the actual meaning is different and individual for every person. Any object or activity can become a fetish one. It can be shopping, driving, jogging, wearing fur, high heels, latex, collecting stamps, match boxes, vintage cars. But then a strange thing happens. This strange thing is called “public opinion”, or PO.

PO decides what is appropriate and what is not. PO decided, that wool and cotton are appropriate, but latex and leather are not. PO decided that some materials and clothes are appropriate for women and some for men. PO decides what clothes are appropriate for what time and place.

As you can see there is absolutely no logic here. Just as there is mostly no logic in “public opinion” or “morality” (See also the “children pornography” post).

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Posted on Dec 31 @ 16:46:

What are you going to wear tonight? Anything naughty? Anything under your clothes hidden from others? Or something very visible? Let’s Spice it Up! These are my notes from the previous New Year. I hope I will have some time to prepare properly…

Update Jan 01 @ 03:18:

At 23:50, when the guests had already arrived, I rushed into the bathroom, and within three minutes pulled on the following:

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Click on the image to see the review of the Bad Boy prostate massager (aka butt-plug vibrator, aka P-spot stimulator, aka male G-spot activator).

Any ideas on how to hold it in place?

See also Part I.

The second part is dedicated to lockable zippers.

If you are not tightly hogtied or bound to a stationary object by a short rope it’s almost always possible to get on you feet and slowly walk to the keys, knives, scissors or wherever your release is.

The solution is to put on 7-8″ high heel ballet crotch high boots. This is what you can achieve:

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