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Simple bondage. Part X

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The simple bondage series is a good illustration (or reference material? ;) to MadJack’s poll “How do you like to be tied? – Up or To?” and what bondage is about.

Also it’s a good starting point for simple self-bondage session. With the exception of single-glove photos. While Strappado proved that single-gloves can be used in selfbondage (see Single-gloves in self-bondage – Strap Securing thread), the technique is pretty much advanced.

See 12 photos below.

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 58. Curiosity

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Another thing is curiosity. Even if it’s embarrassing, uncomfortable, strange, weird, curiosity pushes us forward. “Blue or red pill?” Oh, I’ve seen what’s back there, show me something new!

That reminds me of one photo session I had with a colleague of mine. “When you pulled out that latex dress, fishnet pantyhose, gags, latex stockings, plugs, ropes and other stuff, how could I stop? Of course, I wanted you to continue! Of course, I was very curious!”

But I always try to be gentle.

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Erection of the day. Bound elbows

bondage-art-59I used to keep this picture in the browser for several months as a “mood changer”. While quite minimalistic, it’s got everything to press the right buttons:

  • Bound elbows. Just reading or hearing this expression explodes my imagination. Simple bondage yet so powerful!
  • Gag. I bet there is something inside! Not just an over the mouth scarf.
  • Latex gloves
  • Sheer black stockings

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 57. Anticipations vs Expectations

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Anticipation and expectation are synonyms, but what a huge difference in the “results”! Anticipation can “increase the pleasure. Moreover, you are getting pleasure in advance by anticipating something. But expectations can ruin everything. Expectations can even be used as punishment:”You did not meet my expectations“. One of the biggest “managerial bullshit sayings”… Disgusting…

You can anticipate something, and not expect anything at the same time. Having anticipation puts a smile on our faces, not having expectations protects us from disappointments.

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 56. Self-bondage and testing, DSM and inferiority complexes

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Two good points:

1. Before “applying” a new tool on your partner you always must try it by yourself. So selfbondage comes handy here.

2. Can BDSM (mostly DSM) relationships be used during normal family life with your partner? Or do they exclude equal roles that normal, stable, long-term-oriented partnership “should” have? Or are they intended to compensate deficiencies and various (e.g. inferiority) complexes?

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Adventures in Rubber. Chapter 7

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Part 16
Part 17

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Flag-holder-bondage-butt-plug for DIY (self-)bondage devices

20130520_155156-flag-holderI never stop looking for anything that can possibly be related to bondage or selfbondage. Today we’ve been to Hornbach (NL, BE, DE DIY hardware shop) and I spotted this (cast?) iron flag holder. Now tell me, what was your first thought when you noticed this photo?

Anyway,you know my perverted mind. I’m thinking about using this erected iron cock as a bondage butt-plug (see the post title). It can be bolted to a wall or a vertically fixed pole exactly at such a level that the bottom of the holder is at the same height as your “rear entry” when you stand on the floor (or plus high heels if you want). So after you sit on it (you will have to use a small stool) you will not be able to go anywhere unless the stool is within your reach. Add some basic bondage, proper fetish clothes, do not forget to fix you body to the pole/wall to prevent accidental falling and voila!

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Adventures in Rubber. Chapter 6

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Part 14
Part 15

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Erotic Fine Art gallery on eBay

fetish-bondage-art-01I noticed that more “fetish and bondage” artists place their works on eBay. Indeed, very convenient for both parties. “Plain brown paper” and “no questions asked” from one side and ability to dig out something worthy, matching you furniture or just matching your fetish preferences to stir up your fantasy and imagination.

See below 40 minimalistic drawings from Erotic Fine Art eBay gallery.

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Erection of the day or FetLife, fetishes and what now?

like_ra_fetlife_fetishes-05Many years ago I joined FetLife, but never used it since then. Recently, thanks to Vanessa the subject reappeared (see What is your FetLife ID? forum thread), and I decided to have a look at this social network again.

Despite what Vanessa said, I always thought that FetLife is more a dating site than a community one. Probably I’m wrong so let’s have a look at it from all other sides except the dating one.

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