And again back to the strange paradox of bondage and BDSM in total. For some strange reasons it brings freedom to both parties, indeed. Role and power exchange can lead to emotional and psychological collapse that may heal or … destroy.
That reminds me of one quote:
Don’t… tempt me Frodo! I dare not take it. Not even to keep it safe. Understand, Frodo. I would use this ring from a desire to do good… But through me, it would wield a power too great and terrible to imagine.
So, safety (in all senses) first, OK?