Another thing is curiosity. Even if it’s embarrassing, uncomfortable, strange, weird, curiosity pushes us forward. “Blue or red pill?” Oh, I’ve seen what’s back there, show me something new!
That reminds me of one photo session I had with a colleague of mine. “When you pulled out that latex dress, fishnet pantyhose, gags, latex stockings, plugs, ropes and other stuff, how could I stop? Of course, I wanted you to continue! Of course, I was very curious!”
But I always try to be gentle.