Flag-holder-bondage-butt-plug for DIY (self-)bondage devices

20130520_155156-flag-holderI never stop looking for anything that can possibly be related to bondage or selfbondage. Today we’ve been to Hornbach (NL, BE, DE DIY hardware shop) and I spotted this (cast?) iron flag holder. Now tell me, what was your first thought when you noticed this photo?

Anyway,you know my perverted mind. I’m thinking about using this erected iron cock as a bondage butt-plug (see the post title). It can be bolted to a wall or a vertically fixed pole exactly at such a level that the bottom of the holder is at the same height as your “rear entry” when you stand on the floor (or plus high heels if you want). So after you sit on it (you will have to use a small stool) you will not be able to go anywhere unless the stool is within your reach. Add some basic bondage, proper fetish clothes, do not forget to fix you body to the pole/wall to prevent accidental falling and voila!

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Erotic Fine Art gallery on eBay

fetish-bondage-art-01I noticed that more “fetish and bondage” artists place their works on eBay. Indeed, very convenient for both parties. “Plain brown paper” and “no questions asked” from one side and ability to dig out something worthy, matching you furniture or just matching your fetish preferences to stir up your fantasy and imagination.

See below 40 minimalistic drawings from Erotic Fine Art eBay gallery.

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Erection of the day or FetLife, fetishes and what now?

like_ra_fetlife_fetishes-05Many years ago I joined FetLife, but never used it since then. Recently, thanks to Vanessa the subject reappeared (see What is your FetLife ID? forum thread), and I decided to have a look at this social network again.

Despite what Vanessa said, I always thought that FetLife is more a dating site than a community one. Probably I’m wrong so let’s have a look at it from all other sides except the dating one.

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 55. Sometimes you need to speak to someone

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Were you ever in such situation when you had to speak to someone, you are not quite familiar with, to finally stop the spiraling down? No, I’m not talking about doctors or professional psychoanalytics. Just more or less ordinary people like in the manga?

Did (do) you use the Internet (e.g. forums) or do you prefer a live person? Or probably it was/is you who helped lost guys/gals to find themselves?

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 54. What are your breathers?

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Indeed… I always work. I always do something. I do not know what “spare time” is. “Spare” from what? If I’m not doing anything, that means I’m sleeping. And if I need to add something to my list, the task with the lowest priority goes off my list. I want too much. I need to do more. I can’t keep up. 24 hours is not enough. I’m close to panic. I’m close to break down and burn out.

The only “way out” for me is sport. Regardless anything, 4-5 times a week I must be in the dojo. Sport clears my head.

And periodically I must be tightly “coated” by latex, tightly plugged, tightly gagged and tightly bound.

Ohh… I desperately need THAT kind of a breather ….

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 53. Crossdressed and bound for the stage

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Ohhh, I love this chapter… Many reasons.

First of all, it reminds me this post: Associations, triggers, crossdressing and forced feminization

Then, lots of my fetishes are fully “exploited” in this episode )pantyhose, bondage, swimsuit, public crossdressing, public bondage, forced feminization, etc.)

And finally it reminds me how I met my wife. It was a New Year improvised show for kids, where four guys (I was one of them) were dressed in kinda women’s clothes and were playing Santa helpers. My (future) wife put make-up on me. I was not wearing anything fetishy (no pantyhose, swimsuits or anything).

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