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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 22. Mud-walking and bodily fluids

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Many-many years ago I’ve read somewhere that men should at least once a year crawl in mud to let go frustration and self-importance.

The Dutch have a hobby – mud-walking (wadlopen) – four hour walking from the mainland of the Netherlands to one of the Frisian Islands, when the tide is low. Another one is crawling in the mud and jumping over canals (with poles and without). In all the cases the result is tiredness, ruined clothes and destroyed model of “normality” in “usual” society (usually you avoid dirt, don’t you?) (See Paraphilias, sexual fetishes, normality, deviations and men vs women)

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The Bondage awards 2012 nomination

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Erection of the day. Red metallic (self-)bondage hooded leotard

After long analysis I figured out that to usual zentai suits, I prefer swimsuits or leotards with hoods. The result should look (and probably feel) more interesting. It may feel better because the sizing can be tuned more precisely.

Then – sleeves with built-in gloves. I love to wear pantyhose on arms, but fingered gloves make that impossible. Fingerless mittens are more suitable, more “bondagy” and easier to make and fit.

Suddenly I stumbled upon this suit on eBay (in this shop). Shiny metallic leotard, closed hood, long sleeves with fingerless mittens (just like in my wish list) and …

… look closely. The sleeves are Continue reading “Erection of the day. Red metallic (self-)bondage hooded leotard”

Interesting gags on eBay. Chastity gag

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Yes! Finally! Someone has admitted that sex can be enjoyed not only genitally, but also using other natural cavities, for example, orally. What means that this “area” must be chastised as well.

Hence this simple device, called “chastity gag“. For both males and females (sounds logical, doesn’t it?)

But what I do not understand, is how this thing can be used to “enforce chastity”: Continue reading “Interesting gags on eBay. Chastity gag”

The adventures of Terri and Jennifer. Chapters 22-27

Chapter 22: Games
Chapter 23: A birthday to remember
Chapter 24: Solo bondage
Chapter 25: The setup
Chapter 26: The bondage game
Chapter 27: The intruder and her friend

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 21. What real bondage and self-bondage are.

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Another point. So, you are all dressed up, bound and gagged. Nice, eh? Agree, a good beginning. But imagine the situation when you can be quickly released at your wish at any moment. For example, not strict and not “timed” selfbondage or also not strict, not tight and “very safeworded” bondage.

Yes, it’s still a huge fun, you can wriggle around, moan in your gag, try to tighten or loosen ropes or push the plugs in or out… But at the first sight of tiredness, boredom or immediately after:”Children! Stop playing! Lunch time!” your bondage and latex (or lycra if you wish) outfit are miraculously undone. Don’t you feel that the orgasm was obviously faked, the weapons and armour were plastic stage props, the black caviar was dyed millet, and generally something was not right?

The actual or real bondage begins when Continue reading “Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 21. What real bondage and self-bondage are.”

Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 20. Bondage, self-bondage, trust and responsibility

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Another point. A very sensitive one. Can you trust your partner? Do you trust your partner? In such extreme sports as mountain climbing, diving, martial arts and bondage your life depends on your partner.

As you may already know, I do not like words like “top” and “bottom”, “master” and “slave” and especially “sado” and “ma[s|z]o”, because they assume inequality. I prefer “tori” and “uke” (see Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 17. B, (D), S&M and sport). In martial arts uke trusts tori that tori will treat uke with respect and control. Otherwise no training is possible. Both tori‘s and uke‘s fault might be lethal. A not well controlled blow may break a neck, a not correctly performed throw or fall may break a spine. Scary, isn’t it?

Unfortunately, lethal cases occur in the bondage scene too. From simple mistakes to ignoring the elementary safety rules. Two cases come to my mind. Continue reading “Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 20. Bondage, self-bondage, trust and responsibility”

Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 19. Fetish, bondage, dogmas and prejudice

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Another point. How often do you hear:

“How can you wear that? Normal men do not do that!”
“How can you do that? Normal people do not do that!”
“Bondage? It hurts! Normal people do not like that!”
“I know what BDSM is! It’s about hurting people, making them suffer and treat them as slaves!”

But if you ask “Have you ever tried that?”, most likely the answer will be “Of course not! Normal people do not do that!”. Prejudice hurts… Yes, there are cases with “the point of no return”, when you obviously should “not try this at home”:

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 18. Gags

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Another point – gags. I can’t imagine bondage without a gag. No gag – no bondage. It does not even matter what for gag I have in my mouth: a short rubber tube, a rubber ball, a condom filled with wrapped up pantyhose, a latex dildo or a cock. It must be something! Or the bondage is ruined, feels fake, cheating, completely wasted. A I mentioned in the Erection of the day form thread – I get instant erection when I imagine that someone is gagging me. It’s so much different when I do it by myself, though I adore it anyway. (see also Waaiiimmmmpppphhhhh…..!!!! Or self-bondage vs bondage. Part III).

Some psychologists say that gags remind us about breast feeding (pacifiers), some say that it’s about cock sucking, some emphasize the submissive effect of not being able to speak clearly. Does anybody care? I simply want my mouth and even throat to be filled in with something rubbery or leathery and I do not care about role plays. But let’s see what the Japanese sensei says in the manga:

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