Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 46. Anal/oral play and doctors

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Gags, plugs, deep-throating dildos and other (self-)bondage and fetish (e.g. wearing fetish clothes in public) activity has an interesting positive side effect – you get used to various “interventions” in awkward positions and stop being overly shy.

Here’s a couple of examples:

Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 45. Anal play and toilet etiquette

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Another point. I use anal play for pleasure only. I like the feeling of having something “significant” yet flexible up my ass preferably moving or vibrating. Or streaming (I mean water, not Internet radio :). )See also Prostate orgasm forum thread).

But the author of the manga or author of the text the manga quotes (Mr. Freud?) does have a point I touched in Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 22. Mud-walking and bodily fluids. Just compare what I wrote there and what the manga says:

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 44. Buying presents. Part II

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OK, you bought a present. Now Part II – how to present you present to the goal of your present. And where. And what to tell not to destroy the evening and not to ruin your relationships.

This is where common fetishes would help! What concerns me, I’m grateful for any present, presented in any non-harming way. Whether it’s a pair of pantyhose, a big black dildo, money or a piece of chocolate. Virtually anything except living creatures and dangerous stuff.

It was a hint, by the way 😉

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 43. Buying presents. Part I

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I have no problems with presents for myself. I have wish-lists in all categories. Fetish and non-fetish related. All I need is money. But buying a present for someone else… This is the area I’m not quite good at. And sometimes you want to cross the line between standard/usual/vanilla present and more intimate, more erotic oriented, more …

Hey, and there was a sale in stockings department! How could I miss such an opportunity to buy these beautiful pantyhose! And there is no sex between the lines. I would like to see your legs adorned in glossy deep red or dark blue nylon. And what about these with patterns made with metallic silver thread? Or these snake-skin-like? Or yes, I love pantyhose…

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 42. Clothes you can not put on.

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If you can’t take a certain piece of clothes off, we call it “lockable clothes“, right? But what if you can put a certain piece of clothes on? E.g. panties, like in this part of “Nana to Kaoru”?

I remember a story, told me by a girl who was wearing just a long t-shirt and slippers at home (no panties). Unexpected visitors (just friends, no aliens or abductors) suddenly took her for a short walk outside (she did not have time to “fix” her clothes), but then they suggested to visit someone else, etc., etc.

Finally she returned back home only many hours later after walking, travelling across the whole city and visiting various friends and shops, wearing just a t-shirt an a pair of slippers. Fun? 😉

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Self-bondage art. Part XX. Sketches

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A funny set of selfbondage sketches apparently drawn by someone who’s not much into bondage (I’ve no idea who the artist is). Arms bound in the front! Ankle tie is not cinched between the legs! No proper clothes! Oh… What a shame…

But on the other hand I like “the struggling” (if you can struggle much in such bondage 😉 and rolling around. Anyway, see 5 drawings below.

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 41. Bondage can be useful

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Yes, bondage can be useful in the usual life. I bet no bondage practitioner will forget to cinch the rope if they bind, say, pipes, poles or logs together. Knowing knots is also handy. And rope harness can be used to … hmmm… to hold malfunctioned clothes together. Just like in the manga 😉

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 40. Beauty, fetishism and psychological types

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Beauty… Everybody defines beauty on his or her own way (tastes differ, don’t they?) and everybody behaves differently when they see a beauty. There are 16 psychological types after all, so we have 16 types of different reactions and 16 types of different expectations.

For example, when my daughter dresses to impress, she does not expect “WOW!!!! COOOOL!!!” from her boyfriend (like what I would absolutely frankly and sincerely say with big eyes), she can tell if he likes her outfit by subtle reactions and barely noticeable mimics. But for some that would not be enough, because they expect an explosion of compliments.

And then we have a group who would stand petrified or keep a distance with fear in their eyes, because they think that they do not deserve such a treasure. I bet for some types this behaviour will be the highest prise, and for some an utter disappointment. Go figure…

See also:

What is your philia? Part II Beauty as a fetish. Omorphophilia?
Beauty. Is it a fetish or a mind-state-changer?

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 39. Do you speak to each other?

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Do you speak to speak other? No, not like about shopping, politics, news. But frankly and sincere? With no Internet, TV or anybody else around? Curling on sofa? About your secret wishes, hidden feelings, wrong “movements” and correct “steps”?

Who knows, probably you both were always willing the same. Or something different. But were too polite or shy to say it. Who knows, probably you’ve already wasted sooo much time on something less important or not needed at all. Just talk to each other. And listen.

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 38. How close are bondage and sex?

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The discussion in Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 32. Bondage without DSM made a sudden turn. Bondage and sex. How close are they? Bondage (see? no DSM! only bondage) is quite an intimate activity.

Can bondage partners/friends be just friends? Can two heterosexual men be bondage (only!) friends? Can a men be bound by or bind women and stay away from any sexual activity, jealousy and hence adultery?

There are some example for “yes” to all questions. Professional dominatrix services usually do not mean any sex at all. And what can be more intimate than, say, proctology, dentistry or gynecology. And neither men nor women feel jealous if their partners visit such doctors.

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