Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 43. Buying presents. Part I

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I have no problems with presents for myself. I have wish-lists in all categories. Fetish and non-fetish related. All I need is money. But buying a present for someone else… This is the area I’m not quite good at. And sometimes you want to cross the line between standard/usual/vanilla present and more intimate, more erotic oriented, more …

Hey, and there was a sale in stockings department! How could I miss such an opportunity to buy these beautiful pantyhose! And there is no sex between the lines. I would like to see your legs adorned in glossy deep red or dark blue nylon. And what about these with patterns made with metallic silver thread? Or these snake-skin-like? Or yes, I love pantyhose…

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 42. Clothes you can not put on.

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If you can’t take a certain piece of clothes off, we call it “lockable clothes“, right? But what if you can put a certain piece of clothes on? E.g. panties, like in this part of “Nana to Kaoru”?

I remember a story, told me by a girl who was wearing just a long t-shirt and slippers at home (no panties). Unexpected visitors (just friends, no aliens or abductors) suddenly took her for a short walk outside (she did not have time to “fix” her clothes), but then they suggested to visit someone else, etc., etc.

Finally she returned back home only many hours later after walking, travelling across the whole city and visiting various friends and shops, wearing just a t-shirt an a pair of slippers. Fun? 😉

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Self-bondage art. Part XX. Sketches

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A funny set of selfbondage sketches apparently drawn by someone who’s not much into bondage (I’ve no idea who the artist is). Arms bound in the front! Ankle tie is not cinched between the legs! No proper clothes! Oh… What a shame…

But on the other hand I like “the struggling” (if you can struggle much in such bondage 😉 and rolling around. Anyway, see 5 drawings below.

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 41. Bondage can be useful

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Yes, bondage can be useful in the usual life. I bet no bondage practitioner will forget to cinch the rope if they bind, say, pipes, poles or logs together. Knowing knots is also handy. And rope harness can be used to … hmmm… to hold malfunctioned clothes together. Just like in the manga 😉

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 40. Beauty, fetishism and psychological types

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Beauty… Everybody defines beauty on his or her own way (tastes differ, don’t they?) and everybody behaves differently when they see a beauty. There are 16 psychological types after all, so we have 16 types of different reactions and 16 types of different expectations.

For example, when my daughter dresses to impress, she does not expect “WOW!!!! COOOOL!!!” from her boyfriend (like what I would absolutely frankly and sincerely say with big eyes), she can tell if he likes her outfit by subtle reactions and barely noticeable mimics. But for some that would not be enough, because they expect an explosion of compliments.

And then we have a group who would stand petrified or keep a distance with fear in their eyes, because they think that they do not deserve such a treasure. I bet for some types this behaviour will be the highest prise, and for some an utter disappointment. Go figure…

See also:

What is your philia? Part II Beauty as a fetish. Omorphophilia?
Beauty. Is it a fetish or a mind-state-changer?

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 39. Do you speak to each other?

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Do you speak to speak other? No, not like about shopping, politics, news. But frankly and sincere? With no Internet, TV or anybody else around? Curling on sofa? About your secret wishes, hidden feelings, wrong “movements” and correct “steps”?

Who knows, probably you both were always willing the same. Or something different. But were too polite or shy to say it. Who knows, probably you’ve already wasted sooo much time on something less important or not needed at all. Just talk to each other. And listen.

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 38. How close are bondage and sex?

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The discussion in Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 32. Bondage without DSM made a sudden turn. Bondage and sex. How close are they? Bondage (see? no DSM! only bondage) is quite an intimate activity.

Can bondage partners/friends be just friends? Can two heterosexual men be bondage (only!) friends? Can a men be bound by or bind women and stay away from any sexual activity, jealousy and hence adultery?

There are some example for “yes” to all questions. Professional dominatrix services usually do not mean any sex at all. And what can be more intimate than, say, proctology, dentistry or gynecology. And neither men nor women feel jealous if their partners visit such doctors.

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 37. Did you have to quickly hide your fetish/bondage toys/clothes?

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Do you remember any cases when you had to quickly hide the traces of your fetish/bondage activity? For example, pull on “normal” clothes on top of latex and plugs and stay like that longer than planned? Or cover a pile of dildos/gags/enema gear with a bedspread/blanket and stay afraid that someone will sit on it and discover? Or when circumstances made you stay in public in pain (overly tight karada or pantyhose? too big butt-plug?), just like in the manga?

Do we need a separate forum thread for that?

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 36. Bondage and self-bondage friends

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It’s very convenient to have a reliable, trustworthy bondage partner who can tie you up, etc (see Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 20. Bondage, self-bondage, trust and responsibility). If you have experienced and interested partners with similar interests (read fetishes), the sky is the limit. You can’t achieve that in self-bondage.

But friends with similar interests can be very helpful in self-bondage too. Not only for a good advice, but also for the safety reason. Just in case if something goes wrong and you do not have a backup release method, or that method fails, or if you stuck in a new suit (see, for example, My first shiny blue metallic zentai suit – I was barely able to get out, and it was pretty much hot outside).

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 35. Why are they looking at me?

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Another point. Ever felt that people around consciously or subconsciously do notice your state? They may stare at you, swear at you, move away from you, ask something, look at you with interest, try to bull you, etc? Most often it happens with women. Probably they are more open about their inner feelings or simply more vulnerable then men.

It does not depend on the clothes you are wearing (you may wear the same clothes, but get different reactions), but clothes do affect our feelings and emotions. Especially if it’s something special, erotic, kinky, unusual or inappropriate. Even invisible, like hidden bondage or toys. Nobody sees anything, but you feel them and transmit your energy, modulated with your emotions. You body-language and your “micro-behaviour” may also betray you.

On the other hand, you may attract people tuned to the same wave 😉

See also:
Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 11. We, our fetishes and our partners (and links in that post)
Men in “inappropriate” clothing and men’s fashion extended forum thread

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