Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 34. Hidden bondage and self-bondage or Spice-it-up

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Travelling, shopping, staying in lines, waiting for someone or something, doing home chores… Boring, heh? Adding toys, kinky outfit (for example, as underwear outside, or full fetish attire at home), bondage elements can definitely spice these things up.

Once I went to the office completely dressed in latex (and plugged) under my normal clothes. Must confess there were not many people at that time, so nobody noticed that, but I usually dress not to impress people around, but to enjoy myself.

What is your experience?

See also:

Spice it up articles
How to spice up your daily chores forum thread
Lockable clothes

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Stockings. Part IV. Art and manga and Erection of the day

stockings-art-31-latexLast couple of weeks I was looking for photos or drawings that would produce some twitching sensations in the area tightly squeezed by my shiny pantyhose. Ironically it was a drawing depicting latex stockings. “The area” found the image very exciting πŸ˜€

But if “your areas” do not agree, I added 15 more pictures below. Please let me know which one works for you πŸ˜‰

See also:

Stockings. Part IV. Art and manga
Erection of the day forum thread

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 33. Fetish and bondage New Year

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Indeed, how are you going to celebrate the New Year? I mean what are you going to wear? Fetish clothes, bondage attributes? Or possibly tightly bound and gagged?

I remember we (me and my wife) almost missed one New Year while walking around in swimsuits, shiny pantyhose and high-heels πŸ˜‰

Then (last year?) I was late because of the bloody zip in my leotard. My son promptly noticed – “Hey, you’re late because you were pulling the swimsuit up?” I answered “No”. Because it was not the pulling the suit up what caused the delay, but the zip!!! πŸ˜‰

See also:

What was your New Year outfit (2008)
What are your New Year party clothes? Updated (again) (2009, 2010, 2011)
Family, friends, colleagues and fetish moments or Home together

Yeah, that outfit from 2010 was fun πŸ˜‰

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 32. Bondage without DSM

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I’ve already mentioned that from BDSM I’m interested in the “B” only. I do not care about dominance, submissions and can’t play roles. I find role playing too artificial and rather ridiculous.

But apparently such DSM-neglection may offend some “tops” or “masters” (as you may already know, I prefer tori and uke terms here)… The situation depicted in this chapter is very real.
Kaoru finds it disrespectful to the “top” to ask for bondage, to make the ropes tighter, to “just do it”, to “let’s go outside, what’s the problem?”.

Oh, I’m soooooo Tachi in this sense. Hey, we have time, space, ropes, tools, willing persons – let’s play! Just tie me up and stop whining! If you do not know how to do it – let’s think together and try! If you are tired of my speaking, just gag me! Tighter!!! πŸ˜€

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 31. Home alone

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When you were a kid, what did you do when you were alone in the whole house? And what do you do now?

See also:

Home alone fetish and self-bondage adventures and random naughty thoughts
Self-bondage, fetish and children

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 30. Bondage and math or relax and enjoy

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Another point. Ever heard this expression:”If you are being raped and you can’t stop it, just relax and try to enjoy”? OK, this is an extreme example, but the problem is, people tend to behave like they are being raped (when they are not) and do their best to resist, instead of relaxing and trying to understand what’s going on.

And they might even like it afterwards πŸ˜‰

Learnt it the hard way while explaining math to my daughter πŸ˜€

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 29. Dangerous practice, paedophilia and manipulations

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See what happened in this chapter? Kaoru made Nana feel guilty and she surrendered to her fate. I should say that this is a very dangerous and very unfair practice (actually, like all manipulations), especially in a priori unequal relationships.

For example, an adult and a kid. One of the reasons why paedophilia is bad, and one of the reasons why the age of consent exists. Manipulations… A kid can be easily accused for something what might indeed have happened, but the reasoning was completely different, or there was no reason at all. Hey, it’s a kid! Then comes punishment. Then another one. Continue reading “Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 29. Dangerous practice, paedophilia and manipulations”

What can you do with 3D printers? Self-bondage rope lock!

Since the first “public appearance” of 3D printers I’ve been thinking about using them in any fetish/(self)bondage activity. But nothing except dildos or any other insertables comes to my mind. And even in this area my imagination can not compete with what’s already available in silicone, latex, plastic or even glass.

Fortunately we have more creative persons around! Remember the self-bondage leotard? Petrolio designed and printed the rope lock! See a couple of photos below and check this forum thread for more information: Self-bondage unitard.

Any other ideas?

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 28. Expecting unexpected and randomness in selfbondage and bondage sessions

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Another point. Expectations. Expectations is like prejudice (Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 19. Fetish, bondage, dogmas and prejudice). Very unfair, very painful: “You have not met my expectations”, “I expected more from you”. Did we both agree on the list of your expectations and signed it? No? F@#$%^&* off!

Bad expectations, on one hand, may help to prepare in advance or avoid unwanted events. But on the other, it may scare us off and we may miss unique opportunities.

I bet you all have dozens of real life examples, but let’s have look from a bit other side – from the bondage and self-bondage point of view.

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 27. What does you partner want?

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Another point. Do you know what your partner actually wants? Not what you think what she/he might find exciting (read: what excites you ;-).

Unfortunately we are led by our own fetishes, in most cases mistakenly thinking that our partners have the same addictions. If it is indeed so, you are lucky. I do know a case when a girl used to self-bind herself (pantyhose, latex, lycra cocoons) in front of her boy, because he liked that, and he was with her during these moments, and he was looking at her with excitement in his eyes. I hope she enjoyed it a bit too.

But I also know cases when:

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