Rubberist.Net (IAHR) is for sale

AtaraxiaIn short: Ataraxia (the owner) is selling Rubberist.net again. This includes all forum content, the “Rubberist.NET/.ORG/.INFO/CO.UK” domains and the (non-expiring) license to the vBulletin software.

I remember he already tried to sell the site about 8-10 years ago, but was convinced to postpone his decision. Apparently now Ataraxia (65) is indeed going to retire. He did not lose the interest, but all the things not directly related to fetish and bondage take way too much time, energy and money. And after many years you suddenly realise that it’s not fun anymore. Yes, I know the feelings…

This is what he wrote here: Continue reading “Rubberist.Net (IAHR) is for sale”

Erection of the day. Encased in transparent latex zentai and locked

patrick-andraste-20-transparent-latex-catsuit-bondageAnother “moody” photo by Patrick Andraste, that “works” and “makes me feel”. Apparently it’s the same suit as here: Your mind, imagination and fetishism. Patrick Andraste. But with added bondage and laying in a corner. So erotic…

What I miss here is a transparent (hollow?) gag and transparent (also hollow?) dildo/plugs, like on these photos (Erection of the day).

Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 46. Anal/oral play and doctors

Nana to Kaoru v06 c47 - 003See all chapters and related articles here or see all bondage and self-bondage stories.

Gags, plugs, deep-throating dildos and other (self-)bondage and fetish (e.g. wearing fetish clothes in public) activity has an interesting positive side effect – you get used to various “interventions” in awkward positions and stop being overly shy.

Here’s a couple of examples:

Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 44. Buying presents. Part II

13See all chapters and related articles here or see all bondage and self-bondage stories.

OK, you bought a present. Now Part II – how to present you present to the goal of your present. And where. And what to tell not to destroy the evening and not to ruin your relationships.

This is where common fetishes would help! What concerns me, I’m grateful for any present, presented in any non-harming way. Whether it’s a pair of pantyhose, a big black dildo, money or a piece of chocolate. Virtually anything except living creatures and dangerous stuff.

It was a hint, by the way 😉

Continue reading “Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 44. Buying presents. Part II”

Simple bondage. Part IX

simple-bondage-81-latexSee other simple bondage posts.

See 10 photos below. Some of them can be used for self-bondage scenarios. For example the one with a ballerina. Not quite a suspension, but has quite a few advantages.

Or the girl chained to the ceiling. Note that her ankles are not bound together, so she can maintain her balance.

Any other ideas?

Continue reading “Simple bondage. Part IX”

Vintage bondage and vintage fetish. Sean Harper. Part IV. The story of Mr. T and The Weatherman

sh-00386See other parts.

Thanks much to Anon who helped me to find the most erotic fetish and bondage stories that I’ve ever read – The Perils of Batgirl (see the full list here). (To make them perfect from my point of view, I would remove the deathly context, though).

How I wish the special self-bondage suits did exist! And all those stimulating machines. Or the sensilatex zentai? Oh, The word zentai did not exist in the western vocabulary in the 90’s.

When I was reformatting the stories to publish them here, from time to time I would read a couple of paragraphs. Some scenes reminded me of Jim Weathers’ photo and video sessions. Suddenly all pieces snapped in place. Continue reading “Vintage bondage and vintage fetish. Sean Harper. Part IV. The story of Mr. T and The Weatherman”

Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 40. Beauty, fetishism and psychological types

Nana to Kaoru v06 c44 - 004See all chapters and related articles here or see all bondage and self-bondage stories.

Beauty… Everybody defines beauty on his or her own way (tastes differ, don’t they?) and everybody behaves differently when they see a beauty. There are 16 psychological types after all, so we have 16 types of different reactions and 16 types of different expectations.

For example, when my daughter dresses to impress, she does not expect “WOW!!!! COOOOL!!!” from her boyfriend (like what I would absolutely frankly and sincerely say with big eyes), she can tell if he likes her outfit by subtle reactions and barely noticeable mimics. But for some that would not be enough, because they expect an explosion of compliments.

And then we have a group who would stand petrified or keep a distance with fear in their eyes, because they think that they do not deserve such a treasure. I bet for some types this behaviour will be the highest prise, and for some an utter disappointment. Go figure…

See also:

What is your philia? Part II Beauty as a fetish. Omorphophilia?
Beauty. Is it a fetish or a mind-state-changer?

Continue reading “Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 40. Beauty, fetishism and psychological types”

Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 39. Do you speak to each other?

Nana to Kaoru v06 c43 - 014-015See all chapters and related articles here or see all bondage and self-bondage stories.

Do you speak to speak other? No, not like about shopping, politics, news. But frankly and sincere? With no Internet, TV or anybody else around? Curling on sofa? About your secret wishes, hidden feelings, wrong “movements” and correct “steps”?

Who knows, probably you both were always willing the same. Or something different. But were too polite or shy to say it. Who knows, probably you’ve already wasted sooo much time on something less important or not needed at all. Just talk to each other. And listen.

Continue reading “Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 39. Do you speak to each other?”