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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 42. Clothes you can not put on.

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If you can’t take a certain piece of clothes off, we call it “lockable clothes“, right? But what if you can put a certain piece of clothes on? E.g. panties, like in this part of “Nana to Kaoru”?

I remember a story, told me by a girl who was wearing just a long t-shirt and slippers at home (no panties). Unexpected visitors (just friends, no aliens or abductors) suddenly took her for a short walk outside (she did not have time to “fix” her clothes), but then they suggested to visit someone else, etc., etc.

Finally she returned back home only many hours later after walking, travelling across the whole city and visiting various friends and shops, wearing just a t-shirt an a pair of slippers. Fun? 😉

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 40. Beauty, fetishism and psychological types

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Beauty… Everybody defines beauty on his or her own way (tastes differ, don’t they?) and everybody behaves differently when they see a beauty. There are 16 psychological types after all, so we have 16 types of different reactions and 16 types of different expectations.

For example, when my daughter dresses to impress, she does not expect “WOW!!!! COOOOL!!!” from her boyfriend (like what I would absolutely frankly and sincerely say with big eyes), she can tell if he likes her outfit by subtle reactions and barely noticeable mimics. But for some that would not be enough, because they expect an explosion of compliments.

And then we have a group who would stand petrified or keep a distance with fear in their eyes, because they think that they do not deserve such a treasure. I bet for some types this behaviour will be the highest prise, and for some an utter disappointment. Go figure…

Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 39. Do you speak to each other?

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Do you speak to speak other? No, not like about shopping, politics, news. But frankly and sincere? With no Internet, TV or anybody else around? Curling on sofa? About your secret wishes, hidden feelings, wrong “movements” and correct “steps”?

Who knows, probably you both were always willing the same. Or something different. But were too polite or shy to say it. Who knows, probably you’ve already wasted sooo much time on something less important or not needed at all. Just talk to each other. And listen.

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 38. How close are bondage and sex?

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The discussion in Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 32. Bondage without DSM made a sudden turn. Bondage and sex. How close are they? Bondage (see? no DSM! only bondage) is quite an intimate activity.

Can bondage partners/friends be just friends? Can two heterosexual men be bondage (only!) friends? Can a men be bound by or bind women and stay away from any sexual activity, jealousy and hence adultery?

There are some example for “yes” to all questions. Professional dominatrix services usually do not mean any sex at all. And what can be more intimate than, say, proctology, dentistry or gynecology. And neither men nor women feel jealous if their partners visit such doctors.

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 37. Did you have to quickly hide your fetish/bondage toys/clothes?

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Do you remember any cases when you had to quickly hide the traces of your fetish/bondage activity? For example, pull on “normal” clothes on top of latex and plugs and stay like that longer than planned? Or cover a pile of dildos/gags/enema gear with a bedspread/blanket and stay afraid that someone will sit on it and discover? Or when circumstances made you stay in public in pain (overly tight karada or pantyhose? too big butt-plug?), just like in the manga?

Do we need a separate forum thread for that?

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 33. Fetish and bondage New Year

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Indeed, how are you going to celebrate the New Year? I mean what are you going to wear? Fetish clothes, bondage attributes? Or possibly tightly bound and gagged?

I remember we (me and my wife) almost missed one New Year while walking around in swimsuits, shiny pantyhose and high-heels 😉

Then (last year?) I was late because of the bloody zip in my leotard. My son promptly noticed – “Hey, you’re late because you were pulling the swimsuit up?” I answered “No”. Because it was not the pulling the suit up what caused the delay, but the zip!!! 😉

Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 31. Home alone

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When you were a kid, what did you do when you were alone in the whole house? And what do you do now?

Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 29. Dangerous practice, paedophilia and manipulations

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See what happened in this chapter? Kaoru made Nana feel guilty and she surrendered to her fate. I should say that this is a very dangerous and very unfair practice (actually, like all manipulations), especially in a priori unequal relationships.

For example, an adult and a kid. One of the reasons why paedophilia is bad, and one of the reasons why the age of consent exists. Manipulations… A kid can be easily accused for something what might indeed have happened, but the reasoning was completely different, or there was no reason at all. Hey, it’s a kid! Then comes punishment. Then another one. Continue reading “Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 29. Dangerous practice, paedophilia and manipulations”

Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 28. Expecting unexpected and randomness in selfbondage and bondage sessions

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Another point. Expectations. Expectations is like prejudice (Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 19. Fetish, bondage, dogmas and prejudice). Very unfair, very painful: “You have not met my expectations”, “I expected more from you”. Did we both agree on the list of your expectations and signed it? No? F@#$%^&* off!

Bad expectations, on one hand, may help to prepare in advance or avoid unwanted events. But on the other, it may scare us off and we may miss unique opportunities.

I bet you all have dozens of real life examples, but let’s have look from a bit other side – from the bondage and self-bondage point of view.

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 27. What does you partner want?

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Another point. Do you know what your partner actually wants? Not what you think what she/he might find exciting (read: what excites you ;-).

Unfortunately we are led by our own fetishes, in most cases mistakenly thinking that our partners have the same addictions. If it is indeed so, you are lucky. I do know a case when a girl used to self-bind herself (pantyhose, latex, lycra cocoons) in front of her boy, because he liked that, and he was with her during these moments, and he was looking at her with excitement in his eyes. I hope she enjoyed it a bit too.

But I also know cases when:

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