Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 15. Kids and body awareness

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Another point. I’m not sure if it is correct, but I will use the term “body awareness”. There are several levels or layers of body awareness. From a toddler level:”Hey, I have a foot and I can take it in my mouth!” to a high level of advanced yoga practitioners, who can sit in a pool and suck the water inside their bowels.

This manga touches the sensual, erotic layer. Kids begin to investigate their body while still being in the womb, and naturally progress further, but as soon as they get to their genitalia come the parents with:”Do not touch THIS! IT is dirty”. Or something similar. Oh-oh… “Houston, we have a problem”.

Kids must learn how to deal with their own private parts and how to use them for pleasure (but without active help from adults!). One of the consequences of lacking this experience is shown in the manga. “The body betrays me!!!” How is this possible? Well, you ignored your own body for years, now it ignores you 😀

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 14. Having fun and men vs women again

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In short: who does and enjoys what? The manga shows us the ideal situation: the girl gets tied up and enjoys “the breathers”, attention and (to some extent) sexual pleasure. The boy enjoys the process of tying the girl up, the possibility to touch the girl and play with her a bit, the “general view”, the face expression and capturing the moments with a photo camera.

However, the real life (see Paraphilias, sexual fetishes, normality, deviations and men vs women) skews this ideal picture. Women like attention, not many women like bondage as it is without attracting someone else to their bound bodies. Men like fetish stuff and bondage and, like one popular bondage magazine used to say: “Men like to be tied up too”.

But did you see women who really enjoy tying men up?

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 13. How to keep your partner interested

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Another point. You managed to find a partner who seems to be interested in some of your fetishes. How to keep her interested? Now I’m deliberately saying “her” because women-fetishists are virtually non-existent. Yes, women do wear fetish clothes, and they may even get excited, but the roots of their excitement are different from men’s. See Paraphilias, sexual fetishes, normality, deviations and men vs women.

Most women want to be wanted, they want their men (you see? not every man!) to look at them, to be fascinated by them. This effect can be achieved by wearing fetish clothes, by playing role and bondage games. And men, if they want to keep their partners interested, should follow these rules. Tell your wives, girlfriends, lovers how beautiful they are, how gorgeous they look in latex, fur, stockings, whatever you like, how vulnerable, wanted, erotic they look while bound and gagged.

And you may be rewarded. By the way, saying nice and kind things are always nice and kind 😉

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 5. Strong wishes do materialize and kids’ fetish dreams

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Now to the second point. One of my favourite sayings is “Beware of your own desires, because they come true”. Yes, they do. If you correctly wish something it will eventually happen. Under correctly I mean your intention, visualization and preparations (in advance).

Kaoru not only dreamed about or visualized Nana in bondage, he bought a suit that should fit Nana perfectly. And suddenly she appeared inside that suit! I would say, that the suit captured and brought Nana to Kaoru (pan intended 😉

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Bondage art by Ah-Gu. Part VI. Kid’s thoughts

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When I was a kid (I do not remember the age – between 6 and 12), I had several bondage dream-scenarios:

  • I was bound and gagged by someone I can’t see (just arms, hands and props)
  • I was bound by an old and nice man but without a single touch – by magic ropes and magic fetish clothes (in my bed for the night)
  • I was routinely bound by my (or someone else’s) grandmother and grandfather (during a day at home or outside, without paying much attention to me, like a usual everyday chore, speaking with each other about something completely different and unrelated)

No pain, just a pleasure and always a good will. This is the only difference between my thoughts and dreams and what the artist (Ah-Gu) creates. I would leave the clothes, bondage, props, arms, big invisible men but lessen the degree of fear and violence. The rest is perfect.

See 18 drawings below and Self-bondage, fetish and children forum thread.

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Vintage bondage and vintage fetish. Sean Harper. Part I. First Internet access

My first access to the Internet I got in the early nineties. Very slow, very unreliable and only in the office. As for many it was a revelation:”Hey! I’m not the only one who loves to wear pantyhose!”, “Hey, I’m not the only one who loves to be tied up!”, “Hey! I’m not the only one who loves bondage while wearing pantyhose, swimsuits, etc!”. Familiar, isn’t it?

I was spending hours a (business) day searching for various fetish and bondage materials on the Internet. ASCII mail lists, USENET groups, FTP servers – I was thoroughly checking almost everything (except FIDO). I could not part with some images and after everybody had disappeared I would print out dozens of pics and stories on a black&white laser printer. I still have several kilos of old printouts, I simply can’t throw them away! They became part of my life. They remind me of the time (hey! almost 20 years ago), of the excitement, of the wishes (I only started collecting fetish and bondage stuff)… And Hey! I was 20 years younger! ;-P

See 20 photos by Sean Harper below.

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Transparent latex and new Simon O collection on eBay

Updated on Oct 12, 2012 @01:05:Just in case – all items have both English and German descriptions and can be shipped worldwide.

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Posted on Oct 11, 2012 @ 03:06: Yes, Simon O designed a new collection of latex clothes which is available (just one more day!) in their eBay store. The prices are still lower than in the regular shop. So, hurry up!

A couple of words about the new design. The most interesting thing is the new latex catsuit line. A one-piece catsuit replaces a swimsuit (or a leotard), back-seamed stockings, suspenders and transparent latex pantyhose “worn underneath”. Nice, eh? All-in-one what looks like ideally matched latex separates. And in many colours. (See 30 photos below). Also check the latex pantyhose with “integrated” full-fashioned stockings and strings.

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If not Speedo s2000 or Mizuno, then Realise. Shiny swimsuits.

Shiny swimsuit leotard Realise (17)Updated on Jun 27, 2012 @ 02:30: Added a video (see below).

Updated on May 19, 2012 @ 19:40:
See Strappado’s review of the Realize swimsuit he’s just received! I think I will be the next. And my birthday is not that far away…

Posted on Jan 5, 2012 @ 16:41:
Neither Speedo s2000 nor Mizuno shiny closed-back swimsuits are produced anymore. These suits are very special and very expensive, they were created for specific purposes (very tight and slippery when wet to prevent grabbing and with low drag for speed), they were not available in usual sport shops and there will be no mass customers from outside of sport clubs. Since the sport industry never cared about us fetishists, the models were discontinued and now can be found only on eBay with ridiculously high price tags (see, for example, Mizuno and Speedo s2000 Latex wetlook shiny Swimsuits on eBay)

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Double-pantyhosed and swimsuited wing-walker and shiny neoprene catsuits

Culmor posted one photo in the Candid pantyhose forum thread. I made some investigation, found the whole set and discovered, that:

  • Her name is Peggy
  • The sport (sport?) is called wing-walking
  • There are no Active Water (or similar looking) swimsuits on the web-site of Aqua Sphere
  • Aqua Sphere makes very interesting 0.5-1mm shiny neoprene swimsuits and catsuits, that can be used as latex swimsuit/catsuit replacements.

    The prices are quite steep (does it say anything about the quality?) but you can find some interesting offers on eBay:

Speaking of Peggy’s clothes, I would definitely use neoprene (because it’s wind-proof) and several layers of shiny skin-coloured pantyhose (for the swimsuit-only look, for the warmth reason and I like moire 😉

See 14 hi-rez photos below

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Family, Kids and fetish moments. Where’s my swimsuit?

Daughter: Does anybody know where my swimsuit is?
Me (jokingly): Do you think I’m wearing it?
Daughter: Nah, can’t be. It’s not a one-piece suit I’m looking for, so you wouldn’t wear it. You do not like separates. He-he…

Very true.

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