Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 33. Fetish and bondage New Year

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Indeed, how are you going to celebrate the New Year? I mean what are you going to wear? Fetish clothes, bondage attributes? Or possibly tightly bound and gagged?

I remember we (me and my wife) almost missed one New Year while walking around in swimsuits, shiny pantyhose and high-heels 😉

Then (last year?) I was late because of the bloody zip in my leotard. My son promptly noticed – “Hey, you’re late because you were pulling the swimsuit up?” I answered “No”. Because it was not the pulling the suit up what caused the delay, but the zip!!! 😉

See also:

What was your New Year outfit (2008)
What are your New Year party clothes? Updated (again) (2009, 2010, 2011)
Family, friends, colleagues and fetish moments or Home together

Yeah, that outfit from 2010 was fun 😉

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Vintage bondage and vintage fetish. Sean Harper. Part III. Fetish and bondage stories

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Apart from fetish and bondage pictures there were fetish and bondage stories and novels. As I mentioned, back in 90’s I did not have Internet access at home and had to print out found materials (it was always very difficult, because we have one public printer for our office) to enjoy them on the way home or when I had a spare minute (e.g. laying in the bath).

I still remember several stories. One was about Catwoman and Batgirl. This theme is very popular, so I cannot find THAT one. I remember one moment, when Batgirl received a package with a leotard. When she put it on and zipped it up, the magnets in the sleeves tightly locked her arms behind her back like a single-glove. Then the padded collar of the leotard moved forward, gagged the poor girl and tightened. And finally the whole construction began to bend down.

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 22. Mud-walking and bodily fluids

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Many-many years ago I’ve read somewhere that men should at least once a year crawl in mud to let go frustration and self-importance.

The Dutch have a hobby – mud-walking (wadlopen) – four hour walking from the mainland of the Netherlands to one of the Frisian Islands, when the tide is low. Another one is crawling in the mud and jumping over canals (with poles and without). In all the cases the result is tiredness, ruined clothes and destroyed model of “normality” in “usual” society (usually you avoid dirt, don’t you?) (See Paraphilias, sexual fetishes, normality, deviations and men vs women)

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Erection of the day. Red metallic (self-)bondage hooded leotard

After long analysis I figured out that to usual zentai suits, I prefer swimsuits or leotards with hoods. The result should look (and probably feel) more interesting. It may feel better because the sizing can be tuned more precisely.

Then – sleeves with built-in gloves. I love to wear pantyhose on arms, but fingered gloves make that impossible. Fingerless mittens are more suitable, more “bondagy” and easier to make and fit.

Suddenly I stumbled upon this suit on eBay (in this shop). Shiny metallic leotard, closed hood, long sleeves with fingerless mittens (just like in my wish list) and …

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 21. What real bondage and self-bondage are.

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Another point. So, you are all dressed up, bound and gagged. Nice, eh? Agree, a good beginning. But imagine the situation when you can be quickly released at your wish at any moment. For example, not strict and not “timed” selfbondage or also not strict, not tight and “very safeworded” bondage.

Yes, it’s still a huge fun, you can wriggle around, moan in your gag, try to tighten or loosen ropes or push the plugs in or out… But at the first sight of tiredness, boredom or immediately after:”Children! Stop playing! Lunch time!” your bondage and latex (or lycra if you wish) outfit are miraculously undone. Don’t you feel that the orgasm was obviously faked, the weapons and armour were plastic stage props, the black caviar was dyed millet, and generally something was not right?

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Red latex swimsuit, something to look at and swimsuit designs

I stumbled upon this eBay ad a couple of weeks ago and all this time the eBay page with the photo was open in a corner of my screen.

Nothing really special: a red latex Latexa swimsuit (found in ProLatex shop), black fishnet pantyhose and black latex gloves, but the photo was haunting for my attention (unlike the other two from the same ad). Even my wife commended the photo.

I wonder what the suit looks like in the “real life”. Probably it’s good only on Susan Wayland? 😉 There is another “secret” reason for the post – I do not have a simple one-piece latex swimsuit, I want one (for this Christmas?) but I’m not sure about the design. I would like to have it with a high neck and closed back, just like the Speedo water-polo hydrasuit, but I can’t find one.

Another (simpler) solution is to go for a usual swimsuit but already chlorinated (e.g. made by Fetisso). On other hand I can easily chlorinate latex by myself. Any suggestions?

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 20. Bondage, self-bondage, trust and responsibility

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Another point. A very sensitive one. Can you trust your partner? Do you trust your partner? In such extreme sports as mountain climbing, diving, martial arts and bondage your life depends on your partner.

As you may already know, I do not like words like “top” and “bottom”, “master” and “slave” and especially “sado” and “ma[s|z]o”, because they assume inequality. I prefer “tori” and “uke” (see Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 17. B, (D), S&M and sport). In martial arts uke trusts tori that tori will treat uke with respect and control. Otherwise no training is possible. Both tori‘s and uke‘s fault might be lethal. A not well controlled blow may break a neck, a not correctly performed throw or fall may break a spine. Scary, isn’t it?

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 19. Fetish, bondage, dogmas and prejudice

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Another point. How often do you hear:

“How can you wear that? Normal men do not do that!”
“How can you do that? Normal people do not do that!”
“Bondage? It hurts! Normal people do not like that!”
“I know what BDSM is! It’s about hurting people, making them suffer and treat them as slaves!”

But if you ask “Have you ever tried that?”, most likely the answer will be “Of course not! Normal people do not do that!”. Prejudice hurts… Yes, there are cases with “the point of no return”, when you obviously should “not try this at home”:

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 15. Kids and body awareness

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Another point. I’m not sure if it is correct, but I will use the term “body awareness”. There are several levels or layers of body awareness. From a toddler level:”Hey, I have a foot and I can take it in my mouth!” to a high level of advanced yoga practitioners, who can sit in a pool and suck the water inside their bowels.

This manga touches the sensual, erotic layer. Kids begin to investigate their body while still being in the womb, and naturally progress further, but as soon as they get to their genitalia come the parents with:”Do not touch THIS! IT is dirty”. Or something similar. Oh-oh… “Houston, we have a problem”.

Kids must learn how to deal with their own private parts and how to use them for pleasure (but without active help from adults!). One of the consequences of lacking this experience is shown in the manga. “The body betrays me!!!” How is this possible? Well, you ignored your own body for years, now it ignores you 😀

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 14. Having fun and men vs women again

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In short: who does and enjoys what? The manga shows us the ideal situation: the girl gets tied up and enjoys “the breathers”, attention and (to some extent) sexual pleasure. The boy enjoys the process of tying the girl up, the possibility to touch the girl and play with her a bit, the “general view”, the face expression and capturing the moments with a photo camera.

However, the real life (see Paraphilias, sexual fetishes, normality, deviations and men vs women) skews this ideal picture. Women like attention, not many women like bondage as it is without attracting someone else to their bound bodies. Men like fetish stuff and bondage and, like one popular bondage magazine used to say: “Men like to be tied up too”.

But did you see women who really enjoy tying men up?

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