Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 11. We, our fetishes and our partners

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Being free from the inner bondage and being open have several important side effects.

If everybody (or at least your partner, relatives, friends) knows about your “features” (it should not be “all” your fetishes, should it?), you have nothing to hide, you do not have to make up stories about found rubber slips or shiny pantyhose, you do not have to remember what you told and to whom about it, how to order new stuff “in plain brown paper” and how to get it delivered, you do not have to quickly change your clothes should someone unexpectedly return home.

It is really a great feeling. I can openly wear pantyhose and swimsuits with my kids around (see Family, friends, colleagues and fetish moments or Home together), my kids Continue reading “Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 11. We, our fetishes and our partners”

Erection of the day. Transparent latex dress

And there are reasons why.

It’s a long and tight latex (hobble?) dress. Even if you stand still you will feel the silky smooth latex with your whole body. When you walk, with every step your legs will overcome elastic resistance of the tightly hugging rubber grip. Very gentle and soft, but very noticeable bondage.

And moreover, transparent latex will hide neither bulge nor full size erection. But just in case your arms will be bound behind your back. Why to destroy such a nice view?

See also:

Erection of the day
Transparent rubber tights and catsuits
Latex on eBay – interesting finds

Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 10. Inner bondage and finding a partner

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Another point – having the “right” partner is crucial. It’s never an easy task, but what makes it more difficult is a couple of added ingredients: fetish and bondage.

“How do I tell her/him that I like … ?” When I was a kid I thought that I was a hopeless pervert. Hey, who can call a person normal if he likes to be tied and gagged in pantyhose and swimsuit? I could not imagine that I would ever tell that to anybody! But now quite a few people know about my “little secrets” and I suppose they do not think of me as of a danger to the society 😉

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Erection of the day. Pink latex dress and stockings

When I stumbled upon this photo my first reaction was: I do not like such stockings, I do not like the open top of the dress, I do not like finger-less gloves, I do not like bare skin … mmm … rather no…

But then I imagined myself dressed in these clothes… With no underwear, with arms bound behind my back, on high heels… In public or in a crowded club…

Instant erection. I almost “touched” the silky creamy pink latex with my cock. Yes, mostly it was my imagination, what “extrapolated” the image further (of course, “later” I “added” a big dildo, a gag, deep-throating, etc), but the starting point was the photo.

And that gave me an idea of keeping all “instant erections” in one place. If something gave you an erection (it does not matter if you’re a boy or a girl), please post the “reason” in the “Erection of the day” forum thread. Whether it is a photo, a drawing, a story, something from your daily life, post it there.

Via Sarah Wilkinson (Google+)

Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 9. Breaking through the inner bondage. Wearing pantyhose in public

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… I was thinking about taking a bus to the city center, so I would not have a chance to hide my legs in pantyhose. It’s quite easy to jump in on an empty bus stop and spend the whole trip unnoticed. But then you have to get out, get to another stop, wait for the bus, get in. And all on the full view! Very self-bondage like, when there is no way back…

No, I never dared. My next big step was during our summer vacation. I put on very transparent suntan pantyhose, shorts, sneakers, a t-shirt and we (my wife and I) went for a short walk. It was twilight, the pantyhose were almost invisible, but when I noticed someone walking behind me, I pretended that I was busy with my shoe-lace. Yeah, chicken… But next evening I was more brave.

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What is squeaking there in the corner? “Durex” condom commercial (also with bloopers)

Kids, smartphones and Internet is a dangerous mix 😉 This is what my son showed me yesterday.

A funny kamasutrish (kamasutrean? kamasutral? kamasutristic? ) commercial by Süperfad team. Get yourself a pack of condoms and be creative. He-he… 😀

Official video:

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 8. Breaking through the inner bondage. Wearing pantyhose in public

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You can’t get rid off the outer bondage without conflicts with the society or even with the law. You can only change it. By changing the society, geographical location, the club or your partner. Again, see Paraphilias, sexual fetishes, normality, deviations and men vs women. But you can diminish the influence of the inner one, but this is not an easy task.

Just like it’s not easy to do a back flip when you can do a simple somersault. Or relax when all your life you have been learning (actually taught) how to tense and strain. It’s a long step-for-step process.

It took me years to dare to wear pantyhose with shorts publicly. Continue reading “Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 8. Breaking through the inner bondage. Wearing pantyhose in public”

Self-bondage art. Part XIX. 3D Poser pictures.

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Some thoughts and ideas about this Poser series:

  • Being naked is booooooooooooooooooring…
  • You can’t trust software
  • You can’t trust hardware
  • Combining (self-)bondage and sport can be fun (see also Fetish gyms)
  • It would be very interesting to have public selfbondage rooms with all restricting devices, time-locks, programmable toys, remote controls, supervision, video and photocameras. Some controls can be given to the public or club members. The club members should have their own toys with common interface (standard mounts and a USB connector).

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 7. Inner bondage vs outer bondage

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The inner bondage can be (and usually is) stricter than the outer one. A couple of examples.

A typical example is:”What will they say?” or “Nobody does this!”.

“I can’t wear it! What will my friends say?”, “I can’t pull up my jeans, everybody wear them under buttocks”, “I can’t wear these watches to the office. They are too expensive. What will others say?”

“I can’t wear these tight briefs (e.g. so called “speedos”) to the beach. Everybody wears wet buggy shorts sticking to legs and full with sand. What will other say?” Let alone wearing a one-piece swimsuit to the beach or pantyhose in public ….

The outer bondage does not prevent you from doing this. Most likely nobody notices or cares. But your inner bondage is always on guard. “I can’t go to the supermarket without make-up!”… Oh my…

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