Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 17. B, (D), S&M and sport

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Another point. For some reason physical culture, physical education, physical training, or, simply put, gym classes are completely left out in BDSM literature. If I’m wrong, please give me a couple of examples. It would be interesting to know what they recommend. However, the importance of stamina, flexibility, strength or being fit cannot be overestimated.

Kaoru in manga “Nana and Kaoru” says: “In S&M relationships, S must be stronger, than M”. Actually, in the D&S relationships the physical strength plays a lesser role, than the strength of the spirit. I’m not sure if the translation is fully correct here. I thought that BDSM or S&M terms were borrowed from the West. Most likely, in the traditional Japanese bondage culture they use “toriContinue reading “Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 17. B, (D), S&M and sport”

Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 16. Sissyboss

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There’s one good method to overcome the fear of public performances, speaking at a meeting or one-to-ones with your boss: just imagine them wearing only underwear. Here your imagination may vary (YIMV – a new acronym ;-): stockings, bra, pink suspenders, fishnets, shiny pantyhose with strings on top, etc. That greatly relieves the stress and brings a smile on your face (smile, it irritates everybody ;-).

The opposite is also true. Remember various real stories about upper managers visiting professional dominatrices? Where they’re forced to wear baby or feminine clothes, bound and gagged and/or flogged?

Yes, our bosses also need “the breathers”. Back to Why do we like bondage?

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 15. Kids and body awareness

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Another point. I’m not sure if it is correct, but I will use the term “body awareness”. There are several levels or layers of body awareness. From a toddler level:”Hey, I have a foot and I can take it in my mouth!” to a high level of advanced yoga practitioners, who can sit in a pool and suck the water inside their bowels.

This manga touches the sensual, erotic layer. Kids begin to investigate their body while still being in the womb, and naturally progress further, but as soon as they get to their genitalia come the parents with:”Do not touch THIS! IT is dirty”. Or something similar. Oh-oh… “Houston, we have a problem”.

Kids must learn how to deal with their own private parts and how to use them for pleasure (but without active help from adults!). One of the consequences of lacking this experience is shown in the manga. “The body betrays me!!!” How is this possible? Well, you ignored your own body for years, now it ignores you 😀

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 14. Having fun and men vs women again

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In short: who does and enjoys what? The manga shows us the ideal situation: the girl gets tied up and enjoys “the breathers”, attention and (to some extent) sexual pleasure. The boy enjoys the process of tying the girl up, the possibility to touch the girl and play with her a bit, the “general view”, the face expression and capturing the moments with a photo camera.

However, the real life (see Paraphilias, sexual fetishes, normality, deviations and men vs women) skews this ideal picture. Women like attention, not many women like bondage as it is without attracting someone else to their bound bodies. Men like fetish stuff and bondage and, like one popular bondage magazine used to say: “Men like to be tied up too”.

But did you see women who really enjoy tying men up?

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 13. How to keep your partner interested

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Another point. You managed to find a partner who seems to be interested in some of your fetishes. How to keep her interested? Now I’m deliberately saying “her” because women-fetishists are virtually non-existent. Yes, women do wear fetish clothes, and they may even get excited, but the roots of their excitement are different from men’s. See Paraphilias, sexual fetishes, normality, deviations and men vs women.

Most women want to be wanted, they want their men (you see? not every man!) to look at them, to be fascinated by them. This effect can be achieved by wearing fetish clothes, by playing role and bondage games. And men, if they want to keep their partners interested, should follow these rules. Tell your wives, girlfriends, lovers how beautiful they are, how gorgeous they look in latex, fur, stockings, whatever you like, how vulnerable, wanted, erotic they look while bound and gagged.

And you may be rewarded. By the way, saying nice and kind things are always nice and kind 😉

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Latex leotard plus stockings look catsuit from Simon O on eBay

Speed up! This new leotard/stockings-look catsuit from Simon O (see more photos here) is currently on eBay:

Latex Catsuit Simon O

Size: height 165-170cm, 90-68-92
If bought from Simon O shop: 429 euro
Features: lockable zip, 0.4mm latex

I wish the sizes were mine…

Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 12. Fetish, bondage and natural progress

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Another point. Do you remember the first time you put on thin nylon pantyhose?In my case it was instant erection. Or a one piece swimsuit? Instant erection again. A swimsuit with pantyhose? You guessed right. Then came more. Pantyhose on arms, head, bondage, vibrators, latex, plugs, bigger plugs, enema, etc.

As kids we begin to explore our body. It hurts here, it hurts there, but if your do this, this and that, it creates very pleasurable sensation. Some stop there, but some become more curious. Our appetite grows, we need more physical and mental stimulation.

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Shiny metallic hooded swimsuits and bondage clothes

EBay becomes more and more inspiring. Another find: a shiny metallic swimsuits with hoods (found in Venom Vault shop). At first I was thinking about swimming: “Hmmm… I wonder if you can swim with the hood on. Or off…”

Then my wife said:”Just add mini-shorts (and “shiny pantyhose!” I added immediately 😉 and you get a perfect disco or party outfit”. Indeed, one piece (or one-piece 😉 of clothes that makes the look.

Then I thought, that it would be an interesting idea to wear a hooded suit the other way around, with the hood in the front. And look at the photo below – the ideas are flying around 😉

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Ultimate nylon fetish. Ultra-transparent and ultra-shiny blue stockings and pantyhose

You all know my separate fetish for blue coloured fetish stuff and blue pantyhose in particular, don’t you? Yesterday I noticed this stunning (at least it made my breathing stop for half a minute) picture in the eBay ads and followed the link.

What brought me to the eBay shop sanek20 full with the ultimate nylon fetish stuff an pantyhose/stockings fetishist can dream of (if you know a better place, please let me know): ultra-transparent blue stockings with black seams from Cervin and Gio, ultra-shimmery blue and lilac pantyhose from Platino, very shiny and very sheer pantyhose from Charnos, Platino, Pierre Mantoux, Glory, etc, seamless pantyhose from Cecilia de Rafael…

And finally (see photos below), the light blue shiny ultra-sheer fully fashioned (with back seams) stockings from Gio literally made my knees weak… I would not dare to put this ultimate fetish on, I would just caress them, play with the glittering surface, look at my fingers through the filmy fabric. Oh my…. It’s not an erection of the day, but rather collapse of the day…

See also Pantyhose on eBay – interesting finds forum thread.

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Erection of the day. Transparent latex baggy clothes.

And again it’s related to transparent latex, but unlike previous posts I stumbled upon baggy latex clothes in this eBay shop: Grand Universal.

I’ve never worn baggy latex except body bags, but my imagination (hands free erections are mostly related to our imagination, aren’t they?) thinks that it may be an interesting sensation. When you move various parts of the body touches latex at different moments. So does your cock – it will be caressed by latex only when erected (and on the full view).

Some designs can be used in public as rain clothes.

See also:

Erection of the day
Transparent rubber tights and catsuits
Latex on eBay – interesting finds

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