Just noticed that these two images from different posts have something in common:
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Tag: Bondage
Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 10. Inner bondage and finding a partner
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Another point – having the “right” partner is crucial. It’s never an easy task, but what makes it more difficult is a couple of added ingredients: fetish and bondage.
“How do I tell her/him that I like … ?” When I was a kid I thought that I was a hopeless pervert. Hey, who can call a person normal if he likes to be tied and gagged in pantyhose and swimsuit? I could not imagine that I would ever tell that to anybody! But now quite a few people know about my “little secrets” and I suppose they do not think of me as of a danger to the society 😉
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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 9. Breaking through the inner bondage. Wearing pantyhose in public
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… I was thinking about taking a bus to the city center, so I would not have a chance to hide my legs in pantyhose. It’s quite easy to jump in on an empty bus stop and spend the whole trip unnoticed. But then you have to get out, get to another stop, wait for the bus, get in. And all on the full view! Very self-bondage like, when there is no way back…
No, I never dared. My next big step was during our summer vacation. I put on very transparent suntan pantyhose, shorts, sneakers, a t-shirt and we (my wife and I) went for a short walk. It was twilight, the pantyhose were almost invisible, but when I noticed someone walking behind me, I pretended that I was busy with my shoe-lace. Yeah, chicken… But next evening I was more brave.
Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 8. Breaking through the inner bondage. Wearing pantyhose in public
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You can’t get rid off the outer bondage without conflicts with the society or even with the law. You can only change it. By changing the society, geographical location, the club or your partner. Again, see Paraphilias, sexual fetishes, normality, deviations and men vs women. But you can diminish the influence of the inner one, but this is not an easy task.
Just like it’s not easy to do a back flip when you can do a simple somersault. Or relax when all your life you have been learning (actually taught) how to tense and strain. It’s a long step-for-step process.
It took me years to dare to wear pantyhose with shorts publicly. Continue reading “Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 8. Breaking through the inner bondage. Wearing pantyhose in public”
Self-bondage art. Part XIX. 3D Poser pictures.
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Some thoughts and ideas about this Poser series:
- Being naked is booooooooooooooooooring…
- You can’t trust software
- You can’t trust hardware
- Combining (self-)bondage and sport can be fun (see also Fetish gyms)
- It would be very interesting to have public selfbondage rooms with all restricting devices, time-locks, programmable toys, remote controls, supervision, video and photocameras. Some controls can be given to the public or club members. The club members should have their own toys with common interface (standard mounts and a USB connector).
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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 7. Inner bondage vs outer bondage
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The inner bondage can be (and usually is) stricter than the outer one. A couple of examples.
A typical example is:”What will they say?” or “Nobody does this!”.
“I can’t wear it! What will my friends say?”, “I can’t pull up my jeans, everybody wear them under buttocks”, “I can’t wear these watches to the office. They are too expensive. What will others say?”
“I can’t wear these tight briefs (e.g. so called “speedos”) to the beach. Everybody wears wet buggy shorts sticking to legs and full with sand. What will other say?” Let alone wearing a one-piece swimsuit to the beach or pantyhose in public ….
The outer bondage does not prevent you from doing this. Most likely nobody notices or cares. But your inner bondage is always on guard. “I can’t go to the supermarket without make-up!”… Oh my…
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Self-mummification tutorial. Sticky sheet.
There are several ways of mummifying yourself. The one described in the pictures below looks seems quite self-explaining and easy to do, but … wait a bit. Let’s have a closer look at it.
What are you going to wear?
This is a very important question. Sweat makes the tape glue weaker (unless it’s a water-proof sticky tape) and the tape loses the ability to stick. This feature can be used to escape from the cocoon. I would not recommend to be naked even if you are totally epilated – the tape and the glue irritate the skin and may even damage it (think of you sensitive areas).
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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 6. Inner and outer bondage
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Third point – breaking out of bondage. Not literally in this case. We are born as absolutely free creatures. Kids have virtually no limits or restrictions, they are immortal. But with time the parents, the relatives and society do their work of limiting the freedom:
“Do not shout”, “stop crying”, “do not touch yourself there”, “you must/must not wear these clothes”, “boys do not do this”, “you must …”, “you must not …”, “you are not allowed to …”, “you are too young to …”, etc. Some of them are necessary to successfully co-exist and survive, some are unreasonable, some are simply ridiculous. And as a whole they create the “outer bondage”.
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“Invisible Rubber” story and Transparent latex bags
Several things happened almost simultaneously.
1. I published Transparent latex and new Simon O collection article where I mentioned my transparent swimsuit dream (since when I was ~7yo).
2. I stumbled upon transparent latex bags/sleepsacks on eBay (in Sveta’s world of latex shop) and thought that transparent bags are much more interesting than usual black latex sacks. You can’t see what’s going on inside. You can’t see what the person in the bag is wearing or how he or she is bound.
Have a look, for example, at this picture from “Breath control art, plastic bags or thin transparent film. Part IV Opaque bodybags vs Transparent ones” post. I have two black latex bodybags, so…
But, of course, if you want to hide something…
3. Culmor sent me a link to a story called “Invisible Rubber”. See below:
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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 5. Strong wishes do materialize and kids’ fetish dreams
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Now to the second point. One of my favourite sayings is “Beware of your own desires, because they come true”. Yes, they do. If you correctly wish something it will eventually happen. Under correctly I mean your intention, visualization and preparations (in advance).
Kaoru not only dreamed about or visualized Nana in bondage, he bought a suit that should fit Nana perfectly. And suddenly she appeared inside that suit! I would say, that the suit captured and brought Nana to Kaoru (pan intended 😉
When I was a 6-7yo kid I was dreaming about Continue reading “Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 5. Strong wishes do materialize and kids’ fetish dreams”