Category: Life

Winter vs Fetish

I can easily imagine winter fetish clothes. Girls in sheep skin coats, sheer shiny pantyhose and uggs, for example. Gleaming eyes, shiny lipstick, snowflakes on their long curly hair… Beautiful, exciting, promising…

Yes, my imagination still works but the reality is “counter productive”. Overly sensitive skin, dry air and static electricity inside, frost, wind, mud, salt, slush and absence of snow outside make me think of a warm blanket and a cup of hot tea with chocolate. I have energy only to sleep or read something interesting and then sleep.

Pantyhose is not a fetish anymore but a piece of clothes which can help you to fight the cold. Tight lycra irritates the skin. And forget about latex… Brrrr …

Dworkin on sexuality and culture
or fetish, self-bondage and children

Morality and America, America and sexuality, sexuality and children, children and morality. The vicious circle. This is what Dworkin’s post is about. You noticed that your kids are interested in something what’s publicly considered as “fetish” or self-bondage or any other sexual activity. What would you do? Join the “Self-bondage, fetish and children” topic.

Breath control art, plastic bags or thin transparent film. Part III
Opaque masks vs Transparent hoods

asphyxiation-36See Part I and Part II

I think I’ve just understood the “psychological idea” behind transparent latex and plastic bags. It is, actually, pretty obvious – you can see a “real life” live person inside the transparent material.

But the real magic happens when you replace the transparent latex or transparent plastic with opaque material. Suddenly, your partner disappears. It can be anybody or anything. (See this post about a psychological “zentai” experiment). Your mind and your imagination are the only boundaries. You can imagine yourself with a bound celebrity or a comics character. Continue reading “Breath control art, plastic bags or thin transparent film. Part III
Opaque masks vs Transparent hoods”

Where is Like Ra?

Still here 😉 But apparently I’ve a bit overworked in November. The last two weeks (during which I could not even sleep properly) were especially tiresome. Hence the silence and absence of updates.

With some help of “doing nothing”, sleeping, reading/watching Harry Potter and training in my new extra tight neoprene suit (hey, it’s freezing outside!) I’m slowly recovering.

Thanks everybody for your comments! And special thanks for test and ideas (Strappado!), reports (MadJack!), eloquent posts (Dworkin!), pictures (Culmor) and mails (Hugo! That was a fantastic one! Simply imagination-blowing!) Did I forget anybody?

Anyway, looks like I’m back 😉

Pants with hood (suckpants) and bondage dreams.
Something you absolutely can’t do alone

suck pants latex-pants-with-hood-05Long time ago when I discovered this “device” on the Internet, I thought that it would be fun to try it. And forgot for many years.

But recently Dworkin wrote about his experience with this garment here. And it all began again…

As I mentioned in that thread, I would prefer to wear the hood, and I would like to have a man in the pants, and I would like to be bound. I would like to feel how (at the beginning) a soft flaccid member, which neither looks nor feels like a danger or anything threatening, becomes more powerful. It elongates and enters my mouth, filling it completely, but does not stop at that point. It grows and grows and almost gags me, but I have no other choice but to accept it. I can’t move away, I can’t protect myself with my hands, because they are tightly and inescapably bound behind my back…

I’m completely encased in catsuit made out of smoky transparent latex. Despite the built-in hood is also transparent, my vision is
Continue reading “Pants with hood (suckpants) and bondage dreams.
Something you absolutely can’t do alone”

Family vacations and fetish moments

Back-seamed black pantyhose from a supermarket -IMG_7559Yes, that was the reason for my disappearing. Vacation. One week off kept me from appearing here for fortnight. Sorry guys for not letting you know, for not answering mail and for not updating the site – was busy. Really busy.

OK, back to the subject. Family vacations are fun, no doubts. Especially if spent in exotic places. But perverted mind is constantly looking for something … mmm .. else…

It could be as barely noticeable as a couple of centimetres of a nyloned ankle, or something black and very shiny like here.

Let’s count the “fetish moments” of the last week.

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We, our fetishes and our partners

3xl and Latex KittyYes, another cry for help. See this post. What can you do if your partner is indifferent for your fetishes you can’t live without? In some cases simple rules (see this thread) can help. Sometimes…

Here’s some real cases.

Patrick Andraste from RubberBound.

Take the Kink Spectrum test and compare the result with Patrick’s. (Funny that he’s just published his list of fetishes he does not “understand”) Then ask your partner to take the test. It sounds funny or stupid, but as I mentioned earlier the test makes, for example, me and Patrick quite incompatible. He’s way too “advanced”, and I in comparison look like an innocent 12yo girl.

But still, these things happen even Continue reading “We, our fetishes and our partners”

Beautiful legs do exist!

Those “who understand” know that beautiful legs (as, actually, any “state-of-the-art” things) are very rare. Whatever you see on the streets, TV, in magazines can be (or are) nice, pretty, sexy, funny but only few of them you can call beautiful.

I’ve just had such an experience. My wife and I were in a supermarket “Jumbo” (Utrecht), when I notice Her: tall (about 180-185cm), short grey skirt (~30cm above the knees), high grey boots (~20cm below the knees) on low heels (~4-5cm), graphite (the colour that is) glass-shiny(!) ~20den pantyhose and gorgeous legs (ideal shape with narrow knees).

I immediately showed her to my wife (an expert in human proportions) and she confirmed 😉 The ankles could not be seen, but we decided:”Let them be also perfect”.

Unfortunately I did not have a photo camera with me, but under low light I don’t think the photos would turn out good. Anyway, she made my day.

Pantyhose and patents

Can anybody decipher?

A girdle for tights or pantyhose, in which the regions that constitute the panty and the initial portions of the stretch hose are constituted by a tuck-stitch mesh, formed starting from a plain background mesh so as to obtain, by combining and knitting in three dimensions particular conventional threads and elastic threads which are conveniently woven together, a mesh having alternating undulations which are considerably in relief with respect to the plain mesh, such as to generate an adequate compression and thus a massaging and tonic action in the regions of the body contained in the girdle.

Source: United States Patent 6119491

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