Category: Bondage

State of the art butt-plugs and dildos. Part VI. Lockable expanders

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Unlike the previous versions these lockable models look more promising:

1- The Steel Anal Lock

Size: Measures approx. 5.63 inch overall length, 2.25 inch long expandable bulb, Collapsed Bulb has 1.8 inch max insertable diameter (5.5″ in circumference), Expanded Bulb has 2.58 inch max insertable diameter (8″ in circumference)
Material: Steel, Rubber

2- Deluxe Chastity Anal Plug

Size: 5.3 inches in total length, 4 inches insertable, 1.6 inches in diameter at widest point when closed, expands to approximately 2.75 inches in diameter when fully opened.
Material: Steel

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 30. Bondage and math or relax and enjoy

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Another point. Ever heard this expression:”If you are being raped and you can’t stop it, just relax and try to enjoy”? OK, this is an extreme example, but the problem is, people tend to behave like they are being raped (when they are not) and do their best to resist, instead of relaxing and trying to understand what’s going on.

And they might even like it afterwards 😉

Learnt it the hard way while explaining math to my daughter 😀

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 29. Dangerous practice, paedophilia and manipulations

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See what happened in this chapter? Kaoru made Nana feel guilty and she surrendered to her fate. I should say that this is a very dangerous and very unfair practice (actually, like all manipulations), especially in a priori unequal relationships.

For example, an adult and a kid. One of the reasons why paedophilia is bad, and one of the reasons why the age of consent exists. Manipulations… A kid can be easily accused for something what might indeed have happened, but the reasoning was completely different, or there was no reason at all. Hey, it’s a kid! Then comes punishment. Then another one. Continue reading “Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 29. Dangerous practice, paedophilia and manipulations”

What can you do with 3D printers? Self-bondage rope lock!

Since the first “public appearance” of 3D printers I’ve been thinking about using them in any fetish/(self)bondage activity. But nothing except dildos or any other insertables comes to my mind. And even in this area my imagination can not compete with what’s already available in silicone, latex, plastic or even glass.

Fortunately we have more creative persons around! Remember the self-bondage leotard? Petrolio designed and printed the rope lock! See a couple of photos below and check this forum thread for more information: Self-bondage unitard.

Any other ideas?

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 28. Expecting unexpected and randomness in selfbondage and bondage sessions

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Another point. Expectations. Expectations is like prejudice (Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 19. Fetish, bondage, dogmas and prejudice). Very unfair, very painful: “You have not met my expectations”, “I expected more from you”. Did we both agree on the list of your expectations and signed it? No? F@#$%^&* off!

Bad expectations, on one hand, may help to prepare in advance or avoid unwanted events. But on the other, it may scare us off and we may miss unique opportunities.

I bet you all have dozens of real life examples, but let’s have look from a bit other side – from the bondage and self-bondage point of view.

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New latex Simon O collection on eBay. Anything for Christmas?

Updated on Dec 04, 2012 @ 19:55: One day left!

Posted on Nov 30, 2012 @ 01:55: I bet you guessed why my eBay post activity has become more active 😉 Christmas is approaching! I’m looking for a present for myself. My wife also wants to find me something fetishy, but she does not know what I would like to get exactly. The problem is that I do not know either 😉

And here’s a new opportunity: new Simon O collection on eBay!

Simon O is my favourite latex manufacturer and they never stop surprising me with new latex designs. This time it’s the unique catsuit (see the featured photo) with built-in full-fashioned stockings (transparent latex) and a leotard that looks differently from the rear or front. Also notice how it changes the silhouette. Quite amazing… BTW, it’s a prototype, the suit is not in production (yet?).

Another interesting item is the male bondage hooded strait-jacket-leotard. If the catsuit is too small for me, I may try to win this leotard. Not sure if I can use it alone, though. TTD, you there? What an ideal bondage addition to Continue reading “New latex Simon O collection on eBay. Anything for Christmas?”

Simple bondage. Part VIII

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Simple neither means nor equals easy. Neither for those who binds, not for those who are being (and later stay) bound, not for the photographers to make it look pretty, simple and easy, yet real, intense and exciting.

And again – naked is boring 😉

See 12 photos below

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 27. What does you partner want?

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Another point. Do you know what your partner actually wants? Not what you think what she/he might find exciting (read: what excites you ;-).

Unfortunately we are led by our own fetishes, in most cases mistakenly thinking that our partners have the same addictions. If it is indeed so, you are lucky. I do know a case when a girl used to self-bind herself (pantyhose, latex, lycra cocoons) in front of her boy, because he liked that, and he was with her during these moments, and he was looking at her with excitement in his eyes. I hope she enjoyed it a bit too.

But I also know cases when:

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 25. Incentives, pretexts and excuses

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Two more points. Given you are a fetishist and you love (self)bondage (since you are on this site ;-), consider you need to learn or do something (e.g. to learn a new language). What would be the best incentives for you?

  • A fetish class where students are punished for making errors (e.g. get bound? plugged? spanked? undressed? inflatable plugs are inflated further? added nipple clamps with weights?)
  • A fetish class where students are rewarded for correct answers and good performance (e.g. got stimulated with vibrators, get bound, plugged, dressed up, butt-plugs got deflated, bound behind the back arms lowered)
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