Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 35. Why are they looking at me?

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Another point. Ever felt that people around consciously or subconsciously do notice your state? They may stare at you, swear at you, move away from you, ask something, look at you with interest, try to bull you, etc? Most often it happens with women. Probably they are more open about their inner feelings or simply more vulnerable then men.

It does not depend on the clothes you are wearing (you may wear the same clothes, but get different reactions), but clothes do affect our feelings and emotions. Especially if it’s something special, erotic, kinky, unusual or inappropriate. Even invisible, like hidden bondage or toys. Nobody sees anything, but you feel them and transmit your energy, modulated with your emotions. You body-language and your “micro-behaviour” may also betray you.

On the other hand, you may attract people tuned to the same wave ๐Ÿ˜‰

See also:
Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 11. We, our fetishes and our partners (and links in that post)
Men in “inappropriate” clothing and men’s fashion extended forum thread

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 34. Hidden bondage and self-bondage or Spice-it-up

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Travelling, shopping, staying in lines, waiting for someone or something, doing home chores… Boring, heh? Adding toys, kinky outfit (for example, as underwear outside, or full fetish attire at home), bondage elements can definitely spice these things up.

Once I went to the office completely dressed in latex (and plugged) under my normal clothes. Must confess there were not many people at that time, so nobody noticed that, but I usually dress not to impress people around, but to enjoy myself.

What is your experience?

See also:

Spice it up articles
How to spice up your daily chores forum thread
Lockable clothes

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State of the art butt-plugs and dildos. Part VII. The Intimidator Anal Plug and self-bondage scenarios

butt-plug-02-intimidatorLet’s start with the technical parameters of The Intimidator Anal Plug:

  • Size: 11″ (28cm) in length, tapers to 3.75″ (9.5cm) in width
  • Material: Silagel
  • This product is anti-bacterial, non-toxic, latex and cadmium-free
  • Specially designed for advanced anal play users

One thing is clear – there’s no way you can get it completely in (unless your name is Patrick Andraste ;-), but you can insert at least the first 10-12cm.

My idea is a selfbondage scenario where you have two choices: either very uncomfortably stand with your knees bent (a rope between your waist and ankles should do the trick), or sit on this monster. Or (ideally) the choices are: this plug anally or another one orally (I mean deep-throating).

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 33. Fetish and bondage New Year

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Indeed, how are you going to celebrate the New Year? I mean what are you going to wear? Fetish clothes, bondage attributes? Or possibly tightly bound and gagged?

I remember we (me and my wife) almost missed one New Year while walking around in swimsuits, shiny pantyhose and high-heels ๐Ÿ˜‰

Then (last year?) I was late because of the bloody zip in my leotard. My son promptly noticed – “Hey, you’re late because you were pulling the swimsuit up?” I answered “No”. Because it was not the pulling the suit up what caused the delay, but the zip!!! ๐Ÿ˜‰

See also:

What was your New Year outfit (2008)
What are your New Year party clothes? Updated (again) (2009, 2010, 2011)
Family, friends, colleagues and fetish moments or Home together

Yeah, that outfit from 2010 was fun ๐Ÿ˜‰

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 32. Bondage without DSM

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I’ve already mentioned that from BDSM I’m interested in the “B” only. I do not care about dominance, submissions and can’t play roles. I find role playing too artificial and rather ridiculous.

But apparently such DSM-neglection may offend some “tops” or “masters” (as you may already know, I prefer tori and uke terms here)… The situation depicted in this chapter is very real.
Kaoru finds it disrespectful to the “top” to ask for bondage, to make the ropes tighter, to “just do it”, to “let’s go outside, what’s the problem?”.

Oh, I’m soooooo Tachi in this sense. Hey, we have time, space, ropes, tools, willing persons – let’s play! Just tie me up and stop whining! If you do not know how to do it – let’s think together and try! If you are tired of my speaking, just gag me! Tighter!!! ๐Ÿ˜€

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 31. Home alone

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When you were a kid, what did you do when you were alone in the whole house? And what do you do now?

See also:

Home alone fetish and self-bondage adventures and random naughty thoughts
Self-bondage, fetish and children

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Red shiny ball gag. Fetish or Bondage?

ball-gag-01-redNow I’m not sure if a ball (or bit) gag is a fetish or a bondage attribute. It does not do much for bondage: you can push or roll it out and you can speak (unless you pull it very-very tight, but virtually anything can become a bondage item if you make it “very-very tight ;-).

The photo on the left is about pure fetish, no bondage at all.

BTW, see Lipstick fetish forum thread.