Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 57. Anticipations vs Expectations

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Anticipation and expectation are synonyms, but what a huge difference in the “results”! Anticipation can “increase the pleasure. Moreover, you are getting pleasure in advance by anticipating something. But expectations can ruin everything. Expectations can even be used as punishment:”You did not meet my expectations“. One of the biggest “managerial bullshit sayings”… Disgusting…

You can anticipate something, and not expect anything at the same time. Having anticipation puts a smile on our faces, not having expectations protects us from disappointments.

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 56. Self-bondage and testing, DSM and inferiority complexes

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Two good points:

1. Before “applying” a new tool on your partner you always must try it by yourself. So selfbondage comes handy here.

2. Can BDSM (mostly DSM) relationships be used during normal family life with your partner? Or do they exclude equal roles that normal, stable, long-term-oriented partnership “should” have? Or are they intended to compensate deficiencies and various (e.g. inferiority) complexes?

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Pantyhose, stockings and black and white fetish photography. Part XIV

pantyhose-stockings-black-and-white-236See previous parts here.

More close-ups and “partial views” today. Which one is your favourite this time?

See 12 photos below.

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Would you wear the same fetish clothes in public if… Demotivators of the day

men-in-pantyhose-404“Latex is just a material, there is nothing wrong in wearing latex in public“, “Yes, I wear these clothes in public. And to the office too“, “I never get any bad comments about my outfit“, “Nobody will notice anything“.

You’ve heard that before, right? Or possibly it was you who said that? OK, at least I did and do. Usually I ask two questions (but and never get answers, ha-ha…).

The first one is mostly addressed to women:

Would you wear these clothes if you knew that nobody would see you?

The second is definitely for men (we know what happens with our self-bondage or bondage mood when this happens šŸ˜€ ):
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Erection of the day. Girls and condoms

condom-and-girl-01Condoms is one of my old fetishes (since I bought my first pack ;P ) Thin filmy slippery glistening transparent latex mini-stockings… Oh…

Now let’s just add a pair of lips…

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Flag-holder-bondage-butt-plug for DIY (self-)bondage devices

20130520_155156-flag-holderI never stop looking for anything that can possibly be related to bondage or selfbondage. Today we’ve been to Hornbach (NL, BE, DE DIY hardware shop) and I spotted this (cast?) iron flag holder. Now tell me, what was your first thought when you noticed this photo?

Anyway,you know my perverted mind. I’m thinking about using this erected iron cock as a bondage butt-plug (see the post title). It can be bolted to a wall or a vertically fixed pole exactly at such a level that the bottom of the holder is at the same height as your “rear entry” when you stand on the floor (or plus high heels if you want). So after you sit on it (you will have to use a small stool) you will not be able to go anywhere unless the stool is within your reach. Add some basic bondage, proper fetish clothes, do not forget to fix you body to the pole/wall to prevent accidental falling and voila!

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Erotic Fine Art gallery on eBay

fetish-bondage-art-01I noticed that more “fetish and bondage” artists place their works on eBay. Indeed, very convenient for both parties. “Plain brown paper” and “no questions asked” from one side and ability to dig out something worthy, matching you furniture or just matching your fetish preferences to stir up your fantasy and imagination.

See below 40 minimalistic drawings from Erotic Fine Art eBay gallery.

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Thong leotard with pantyhose-look catsuits for men on eBay

catsuit-for-men-04“Officially” these catsuits are called “sport thermal underwear”. Yes, “officially”. But let’s count “familiar” details and create a short check list:

  • 84% polyamide, 16% lycra
  • catsuit
  • shiny
  • tight
  • “footed” (“built-in” tights)
  • high-neck thong swimsuit pattern (“built-in” high-cut leotard)
  • swimsuit with shiny pantyhose look (for men!!!)
  • crotch zip
  • built for “package”

What’s not to love? I would add gloves (or rather thumbless mittens, think of pantyhose on arms) and a hood. But to be honest, the existing design is more practical. Oh yeah, these suits disappear from eBay rather quickly, so check SkinCov shop periodically.

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