“Latex is just a material, there is nothing wrong in wearing latex in public“, “Yes, I wear these clothes in public. And to the office too“, “I never get any bad comments about my outfit“, “Nobody will notice anything“.
You’ve heard that before, right? Or possibly it was you who said that? OK, at least I did and do. Usually I ask two questions (but and never get answers, ha-ha…).
The first one is mostly addressed to women:
Would you wear these clothes if you knew that nobody would see you?
The second is definitely for men (we know what happens with our self-bondage or bondage mood when this happens đ ):
Would you wear these clothes in public (or even at home) after you have masturbated?
My answer to the first question is “Yes, absolutely. I do wear fetish stuff alone”.
My answer to the second one is:”Mmmmm…. not sure. Probably pantyhose…”.
What do you say?
Have to ask. Where are the pics from? Where were they taken? Was it in the area of an EVENT? And does it matter? If it makes you HAPPY, and it doesn’t hurt no one, what is the “big whoop”?
Why not show a photo of a woman wearing boxer shorts and a t-shirt and ask the same? Why focus on this?
it’s time to toss out “gender norms” that society imposes upon us. It’s bad enough when a person like me, transsexual, has to face garbage day to day just wearing female jeans and tops. Maybe post something positive saying something instead of asking those questions?
“Vanessa ” wrote:
Internet. These photos are well-known memes.
“Vanessa ” wrote:
On the street. Passers-by are visible.
“Vanessa ” wrote:
Most likely not.
“Vanessa ” wrote:
Aesthetics.
“Vanessa ” wrote:
It’s not about “genders”. You know that I do not care about it. It’s not about crossdressing either. I did not say anything about “wearing clothes generally worn by the opposite gender”, did I?
I’m just wondering how people would answer the questions and why they usually prefer not to ask. As you can see I answered both đ
“Vanessa ” wrote:
See other posts. This is one is clearly labelled “demotivator” đ
When you post stuff like this, LIKE this way, it makes people think people only “do this” to masturbate… or only for kink.
Maybe reword the posting?
I for one am tired of people seeing stuff like this, and think certain ways after seeing it.
I know more who wear these articles and not for a “sexual thrill”
“Vanessa ” wrote:
Some indeed do this for sexual arousing only or to attract attention. And it’s lack of aesthetics and/or pure seeking for sexual or auto-erotic pleasure what mostly make “vanilla” people frown or cringe when they see “these articles”. They say that they feel “used” by “these perverts” to satisfy their fetishistic or exhibitionistic needs.
And this is the point of my post.