Tag: Life

Breath control art, plastic bags or thin transparent film. Part III
Opaque masks vs Transparent hoods

asphyxiation-36See Part I and Part II

I think I’ve just understood the “psychological idea” behind transparent latex and plastic bags. It is, actually, pretty obvious – you can see a “real life” live person inside the transparent material.

But the real magic happens when you replace the transparent latex or transparent plastic with opaque material. Suddenly, your partner disappears. It can be anybody or anything. (See this post about a psychological “zentai” experiment). Your mind and your imagination are the only boundaries. You can imagine yourself with a bound celebrity or a comics character. Continue reading “Breath control art, plastic bags or thin transparent film. Part III
Opaque masks vs Transparent hoods”

Where is Like Ra?

Still here 😉 But apparently I’ve a bit overworked in November. The last two weeks (during which I could not even sleep properly) were especially tiresome. Hence the silence and absence of updates.

With some help of “doing nothing”, sleeping, reading/watching Harry Potter and training in my new extra tight neoprene suit (hey, it’s freezing outside!) I’m slowly recovering.

Thanks everybody for your comments! And special thanks for test and ideas (Strappado!), reports (MadJack!), eloquent posts (Dworkin!), pictures (Culmor) and mails (Hugo! That was a fantastic one! Simply imagination-blowing!) Did I forget anybody?

Anyway, looks like I’m back 😉

We, our fetishes and our partners

3xl and Latex KittyYes, another cry for help. See this post. What can you do if your partner is indifferent for your fetishes you can’t live without? In some cases simple rules (see this thread) can help. Sometimes…

Here’s some real cases.

Patrick Andraste from RubberBound.

Take the Kink Spectrum test and compare the result with Patrick’s. (Funny that he’s just published his list of fetishes he does not “understand”) Then ask your partner to take the test. It sounds funny or stupid, but as I mentioned earlier the test makes, for example, me and Patrick quite incompatible. He’s way too “advanced”, and I in comparison look like an innocent 12yo girl.

But still, these things happen even Continue reading “We, our fetishes and our partners”

Recovering the site

$#$%^&  happens…

Probably more often than we would like it (“like” is not a good word here) to happen.

Update 19 Jul, 2009 @ 19:48

It’s nice to find the site suspended when you’ve just come back from a busy vacation… Instead of taking simple troubleshooting steps, the providers decided (again) to simply suspend the account. Next time I will have to find another provider (again). The reason is: overusing the system resources. The actual reason is unknown. Denial of service? Possibly. Can be easily detected by the provider. They even have a specific paragraph in their services list.

OK, anyway, the site has almost disappeared from Google (again) and lost “reputation points”. I’ve become a “phobia” person. I’m afraid of losing stuff. Losing time, energy, money, information, privacy, health, etc… I make backups at least twice a day, I check processes every 5 minutes. Unfortunately you can’t backup/clone everything. But unfortunately you can backup/clone problems.

Jeez.. I love that… Not …

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Death of David Carradine and self-bondage safety

David_Carradine-01Made one wrong movement, too much aroused, a bit overwhelmed, not though out properly, overestimated own abilities, a rope around the neck… The result?

Autoerotic asphyxiation

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Everyday life Bondage but without Dominance, Submission and Masochism

Girl with bound elbowsIs it possible, you might ask? I’ve already mentioned, that from BDSM I accept only the “B”. I do not like pain, I do not want to be humiliated, punished or dominated, I do not like role playing. Just comfortable sensual bondage and fetish clothes.

Bondage or fetish clothing in public? Yes! Not because I’m an exhibitionist, but because of the same reason – I like it. If there was nobody outside my home I would go out bound and gagged, clad in latex, zentai and high-heels. Just what I sometimes wear at home, where nobody can see me.
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Crash happens

And it indeed happened. Right after I paid for the next 6 month and additional traffic (it’s huge!). It took the hosting company almost two days to recover the service and took me a day to recover the site. The unavoidable stream of gloomy thoughts:

– Why do I still spend my time, efforts and money on all that stuff (yeah, that crappy feeling again)? Apart from the educational part of it?
– Do not rely upon the provider, back up frequently (fortunately I had a backup)
– Isn’t it the time to change the hoster (ha! right after I have extended the contract?)
– Dynamic database based super ultra CMS driven fully automatic everything’s included website is still not as reliable and predictable as plain file based every-change-takes-half-an-hour one. One glitch in the database or in the software (WordPress is not that brilliant as it looks on their website) and you’re stuck with garbled pages.
– OK, back to tracing, troubleshooting, tweaking, profiling, in short all the not supposed to be visible to a normal user stuff.
– Hey, where’s the promised fun? It’s a fetish site to begin with!
– When I was composing the post the server stopped working again… Pissed off…

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Bugs, glitches, spooky features, illnesses…

Usually these things happen simultaneously.  Regardless of their predictability.

  1. Suddenly it happened again.  Something broke. Just like the last time. But unlike last time the blog completely disappeared from Internet Explorer.
  2. My son caught a virus. High temperature, etc.
  3. The blog admin panel stopped responding.
  4. It was the time to upgrade the operating system on my home server. But the upgrade program refused to upgrade it with an absolutely idiotic error.
  5. Got rid of the error and upgraded the server. But the graphical interface (along with the rest of my home network) gone with the wind.
  6. 3 days and nights later after I tried almost everything I decided to downgrade the system. But just when I was ready to start the downgrading I discovered (thanks to the developers blog) that it is a feature of the new system and there is a simple workaround.
  7. The server was back, most of the annoying bugs were fixed, but the blog was still not working.
  8. 2 days later the blog started to work again. I did nothing. Apparently it was something wrong with the hoster ‘s webserer (broken redirecting).
  9. My son looks OK.
  10. Still tired… And the new working week is about to begin in 5 hours.
  11. Tea? Coffee? Anybody?
  12. %-&