Time, computers, hobbies, fetishes, kids and life

Time, time, time, time…. Time is ticking away, time is money, I’m running short of time, I have no time, you can’t stop the time, everything takes time… You hear that everyday, don’t you? But do you know how much time you actually spend on your hobbies, your fetishes, surfing Internet, etc?

Usually, I run several profiled browsers (Firefox) on several virtual screens. One for my work, one for general browsing and technical forums I closely follow, one for XXX browsing and one dedicated to this site. But the old and outdated OS had a memory leak somewhere, so after a week everything grinds to a halt. One temporary solution is to reboot the server, another is to kill one of the big processes. Aka Firefox. The first one to go is the XXX one, the second – the one I use to maintain this site.

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“Bound for the night” self-bondage scenarios. Part II. The basics

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Your bondage or self-bondage ideas, techniques and sessions can be very complex, but you always have to start with something. Usually it’s a soft rope and a knife. For the overnight self-bondage scenarios one extra necessary element is added – a bed. And if you want inescapability – an ice-lock.

But let’s go step by step.

Step 1. The simplest self-bondage
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“Bound for the night” self-bondage scenarios. Part I. The general idea.

There are many reasons why you may want to be bound during the night, but I particular like this one – I love to wake up in bondage. Sometimes I have bondage dreams and the dreams continue in reality, sometimes I wake up and to my surprise I discover that I’m tightly bound, and I do not remember, when, where and how. Considering I’m always blindfolded (while in bondage), getting answers to these questions can be tricky.

As stated quite often, it’s difficult to fall asleep while wearing tight fetish clothes, various stimulators, let alone bound. However, as always, it’s just a matter of a habit. If you do it every night, sooner or later you get used to it.

So, let’s outline the main requirements:

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Bondage art by Ah-Gu. Part V. Childhood dreams

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Dark, exaggerated, out of time, scary, out of place, unreal, telling stores, doll-looking Ah-Gu‘s art feels a bit uncomfortable, but also very erotic and … real.

Real (for me), because I can easily see (imagine) myself on the pictures. As I mentioned in the Self-bondage, fetish and children forum thread, when I was a 7-10 year old kid I dreamed about being painlessly(!) and pleasurably bound and gagged in this kind of clothes – tight and shiny, silky and rubbery.

So welcome to my childhood dreams 😉 See 16 drawings below.

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The future of (self-)bondage-fetish-wear. Will it ever exist? Part II

The idea of bondage clothes, while sounds very obvious, is not very popular among bondage and fetish artists. Is it because more “special” (technical?) imagination is needed?

Even the suit on the left picture leaves much to desire. No doubts, looks very erotic, you can imagine yourself being locked inside and waiting. What are you going to be used for? As a living sculpture? As a human toilet? As a sex doll?

But using screws is not practical for suits, it’s rather for a long term stationary bondage with a separate latex catsuit, steel construction and a corset. And where is a hood? Considering the pose, the strange double-dildo “strap-on” is not functional and more for a decoration.

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Ray Caesar, strange worlds, own realities and fetishism

Everybody lives in his or her own world or, if you want, reality. To give you an example. A friend of us lives across the road. She claims that since xxx months ago there were no sunny days here, and almost everyday rains. Something we can’t confirm, based on our experience 😉

Fetishists definitely live in their own parallel worlds, which do not get noticed by non-fetishists or even fetishists but with different (“orthogonal” 😉 ) orientation. Think of school-uniform, white blouses, pantyhose, mohair, gloves. Can you imagine, that lots of people around do not even notice pantyhose? And some associate latex with household activities? Some parents believe that kids in school uniform with white nylon pantyhose or knee-highs is something about school or church special events, but high-heels must be burnt in hell? And leotards or swimsuits with pantyhose is about boring ballet classes?

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Short self-bondage scenarios. Part I. The general idea

The idea to come up with a bunch of short and simple self-bondage scenarios naturally and logically appeared from the following:

  • In the nearest future might have a house just for myself for several weeks
  • Long serious “heavy loaded” self-bondage sessions require a lot of time and energy to prepare, implement and then clean up
  • Simple, short sessions (10-20min) can be enjoyed several times during the day
  • Such sessions can be combined with other activities
  • Sometimes you have the house/room/hotel/office only for a couple of hours

Some requirements:
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“Nana to Kaoru” figures. Part I. Bound Nana for you living room

From the description of bound Nana on eBay:

From Amazume Ryuuta’s manga about two high school students who share a fetish for S&M play. It’s Nana to Kaoru‘s Nana and this time she seems to be in a bit of a…compromising…position. Originally sold exclusively in Japan through Native’s Online Shop, Nana is clad in her school mizugi and lying on her side while she engages in some rope play! And as to be expected from Native’s high level of craftsmanship, you can see just about every detail of Nana’s 1/6 scale body. This impressive work is thanks to YOSHI, who is no Continue reading ““Nana to Kaoru” figures. Part I. Bound Nana for you living room”