I want to lose some weight,
and thought I'd do this BDSM style.
did some searching and found THE WEIGHT LOSS CHALLENGE on the gerdare site, but lacks certain bdsm/fetish.
example would be sports in a PVC sweat suit outside walking or cycling in a wet suit (but with budplug) anyone have any ideas?
fist setup ( look at my site latexslaafboy.nl for more) :
CHALLENGE 2023 -
With a special challenge for latex slave boy
By the age of 50 my body is getting out of shape, and my weight is now 91 kg, where target weight is 82 , so we have to do something about that. From July 24, 2023, I must work to avoid punishment and earn reward by earning points:
Earn points by:
* 3 points = 30 minutes of walking or more in 1 day
* 5 points = a running session of at least 30 minutes
* 10 points = Cycling with wetsuit, plug, collar
* 10 points = Walking in sauna suit with collar, plug and prick boxer
* xx points =
I may be able to accumulate up to 40 points per week, making sure I have some rest days and don't get burnt out the first week.
Every Sunday is a weigh-in moment, then proof naked on scale with chaste and collar.
From July 24, 2023 I have 12 weeks (and some extra days). Which means he can get a maximum of 480 points. Now let's set some goals to work towards:
But what if he doesn't reach the 430-point goal? Then xxxx punishment
I've created a public google spreadsheet that anyone can access here (CLICK). He will update it daily. You can also write comments in the sheet! Feel free to.
Also, I will post an update from time to time, but certainly not daily. Use the spreadsheet if you want to track his progress!
DAILY QUESTIONS:
1. How many steps did you walk today? (1 point deducted for every 500 steps you don't walk below 5,000 steps.)
2. Did you drink at least 8 glasses of water today (must be just water, no artificial additives)? (1 point deducted for every glass you don't drink among the 8 glasses of water.)
3. How long did you exercise today? (1 point deducted for every 5 minutes you exercise for less than 45 minutes.)
4. Did you sleep at least 7 hours last night? (1 point deducted for every 30 minutes you slept for no less than 7 hours.)
5. Did you stay within the limits of your meal plan today? (1 point deducted if you didn't stay within your meal plan limits today, unless it's a cheat day.)
6. If it's Sunday, how much weight have you lost this week? (1 point deducted for every ½ pound (or ¼ kilogram) below your goal weight for the week which is 1 kg.)
7. If it's Sunday, have you taken a selfie picture of yourself today? (5 points deducted if you didn't take your selfie on Sunday.)
PENALTY:
Punish weeks
• no 20 points = 90 minutes with king plug in
• no 30 points = 90 minutes with penalty plug in
• no 40 points = 1 day out of gear
Reward
• more than 45 points =
• more than 50 points =
• more than 55 points =
• more than 60 points =
I wanted to raise the topic of haptics and hypnosis. I'm noticing an emerging trend of combing wireless toys with hypnosis and have found this can be amazing, particularly when combined with chastity. I've a lovense hush plug and have had some great experiences with a number of Shibby files, just sort her stuff for the tag haptics. They do stray toward more experiential but can work really well. What I haven't seen yet is the vibration made into an actual trigger. I.e. vibration = sleep or something. I thinki there is lots of potential.
You can also link the vibrations simply to audio or make your own custom vibration scripts, which I think a dedicated person could like up to any file after its release.
A very delayed posting of a fun session some years ago, so please forgive me if my memory is vague on some points
Equipment: 40den closed crotch, full nylon bodysuit with gloves, hood and sheath Condom knee-highs Butt plug Bra and silicon breasts Lycra body Ball gag Vibrator and timer Rope Corset short and long spreader bar high-heeled boots D-shackles leather ankle and wrist cuffs Rope-ratchet Ice cubes! various collars/straps Chair!
The session: I recall this being later in my 'home-alone' adventure, and feeling a little tired after all the earlier fun, so this session was intended to be more relaxing than some of the others. I also intended to use the vibrator and timer to bring about a nice, semi-uncontrolled, HFO
The video will tell most of the story (and you can guess where the butt plug went!) but I'll paint a bit of picture too; the long spreader bar was fastened to the back of the chair, at a hight that allowed me to fix my head in place and tether my wrists above my head. The short spreader bar was fixed to the back of the chair seat, acting as a quick and easy (but effective) fixing point for my ankle cuffs. The rope-ratchet and ice-release were tied off to a heavy set of drawers (out of picture), with the pulling and pulled ropes (if you see what I mean) passing under the chair and, ultimately, up through the top ring of the long spreader bar - hopefully the video will make the set-up clearer.
I did edit out the 5 minutes I wasted tying the vibrator in place (see 'What could be improved') and speeded up a section where all I could do was fidget a bit! I also omitted the 'escape' when I managed to cheat the melting ice release.
What went well? The basics of the session worked very well; my bondage was nice and helpless, the position very comfortable and one I could have maintained for longer than it took me to get free. I had set up multiple angles and a timed 'still' camera, but I appear to have mislaid the files somewhere. Must look for them.
What could be improved? Why oh why did I persist with that huge massager? It never stayed where I wanted it to, was way too powerful (nearly instant orgasm if touching me in the right place) and generally failed to do what I'd planned. I finally brought a replacement, just last week (in 2023!) and it's aeady proving so much better. The cuffs need locking on; If my wrists are together I can, with a bit of fiddling, just about undo the buckles (no escape that way if my wrists are apart) I think a simple small padlock on each buckle will do the job - will test the theory soon, I hope!
More belts/straps; I'm a huge fan of rope bondage, but found the straps and collars really quick and easy to apply, and most importantly, very effective at holding myself in position. Does anyone have experience with the sets you can buy from eBay? Are they just the usual cheap 'mock-leather' rubbish? Would I be better raiding the local charity shops for real leather belts?
Well, it seems like forever since I last posted a session, but the recent flurry from @Anne has inspired me to visit my back-catalogue and I've discovered more adventures that I thought - so here we go:
MJSB-01/2022 - Strappado!
I have been experimenting with new ideas and different approaches to both my self-bondage and what I would wear in those sessions.
I've surprised myself in how I've drifted into more serious cross-dressing (I guess this is a natural progression from my original pantyhose/tights fetish?) and also how I capture images of my sessions - all of which has influenced my approach.
Equipment: Lycra full body suit
Tights Ponytail hood
Ring-gag Silicon breast forms & bra High-heeled lace-up ankle boots 30cm (12”) long butt-plug Rope and chain Spreader bar and ankle cuffs Clip D-Links and shackles Clover Nipple clamps Posture Collar
Corset Pully and wooden bar
6Kg weight
The Session: I'd never attempted a strappado style scene before, but it had bene on my 'to-do' list and the time was right to give it a go.
Dressing was simple enough; the long plug was slid inside me (it's remarkably comfortable once inside) with a pair of tights to hold it in place. I didn't do anything more than slide a condom over my cock, to prevent any accidental leakage into my clothing! Next went the bra and boobs, before I pulled on the Lycra suit, which is fully footed and gloved, before lacing on my boots and fitting the ankle cuffs, then adding my hood.
I'll let the video cover the rest (please forgive the adverts, but finding a site to host videos like this is a challenge and for reasons I do not understand all attempts to get myself 'validated' on sites using 'Yoti' have failed)
What went well?:
In short, everything! I was amazed at how effective a 6Kg weight would be in challenging me to escape, though I'm not sure if it was by luck or judgement that I got the weight and rope length right.
The short leg spreader and heels made the session even more fun, without risking my ankles!
What could be improved?:
You may have spotted that I became slightly obsessed by the chain from my nipple clamps (no pain/feeling as they were on my false boobs) and trying to get it to either catch a fitting on my spreader bar (so I would be held in a bent forwards position... well, sort of) or else flip between my legs and to my hands (so I could rub it across my crotch). As both ideas failed (fun trying though!) I would like to try them again, but with a little more planning and higher chances of success.
I might also be tempted to omit the false boobs and apply the clamps direct to my nipples - but I need to re-learn my pain thresholds first!
Adding a rope ratchet and ice-release to make the strappado inescapable has an appeal, but again I need to test my limits before committing myself to something like that.
A heavier weight on the strappado rope is another option (as an alternative to the ratchet approach) so that the escape becomes harder.
Wider spreader bar or higher heels could also be an option, but I don't want to fall or injure myself, so some testing is needed.
I hope you enjoyed my session and the video
MJ
Ps @Like Ra I can't seem to get the video to embed - any suggestions or help?
Really love this community. This is my first time posting.
I am looking for two Gracie files - 1) Manhood Eraser 2)Pink Paradise. I'm wondering if anyone in the community could help me locate them. I do have the majority of her files and would be more than happy to share any with the community. Hope to hear back!
xoxoxo
Janelle
This was more of a try-out. I'm pretty sure this one can be done inescapably, but since I'm still testing, I gave myself some slack. The wrist coils were not as tight as they should be on purpose and I did not pull the hogtie too tight, just enough I wouldn't be able to get on my feet and hop away. Happy with the result. No electronic time locks this time but an ice lock.
I did this the same evening as this session after the storm passed, had to put up the big solar umbrella because the neighbors got home and the vibrator noise might attract some attention. It was quite fun and felt good but the battery died with about 5 minutes to go so that sucked. All black clothing this time with a ball gag under the spandex hood.
Silicone breasts, 2 big pairs of hip padding and a bit for my butt. It was sunny outside so I went for colour, although it did rain a bit once I was tied up. A padded hood with penis gag and high heels, shiny everything.
This time I did not make a "directors cut" of the video as sometimes I get remarks to keep bits in next time so here is the whole thing, might make a cut later. Only minutes after I got out rain started pouring down including hail stones for a few minutes, that would have been an interesting experience. Although one of my fantasies is being tied in the rain wearing a swimsuit, but preferably a mild summer storm, not ice cold rain and hail stones.
Nous avons acheté une machine à fesser pour que les célibataires (ou les couples) qui viennent au fetish house puissent s'amuser. C'EST BIEN!
Je dis que c'est génial parce que nous l'avons testé (logiquement) et qu'il offre plein de possibilités.
Se fesser penché en avant
Fesser en position couchée sur le ventre
Self CBT
Possibilité de punir à distance en contrôlant par visio/cam.
Jeux de fessée entre couples avec jeu de dés.
Nos aventures et expériences personnelles 100% réelles :
Pour commencer, après le test, nous avons décidé de faire une petite vidéo pour annoncer notre chambre d'hôtes fétiche. (nous avons besoin de quelques clients et d'argent pour faire fonctionner la chambre d'hôtes)
Une fois la vidéo enregistrée, ma femme et moi avons continué à jouer au jeu de la fessée. Comme elle était très excitée, je lui ai proposé d'aller lui chercher un vibromasseur pour qu'elle puisse se masturber tout en jouant avec la machine. Je ne voulais pas qu'elle soit gênée, alors je l'ai laissée jouer seule (pas une bonne idée).
RÉSULTAT : elle s'est fait exploser les fesses lorsqu'elle a atteint le sous-espace. Elle ne pouvait pas s'arrêter et a redémarré la machine plusieurs fois. J'ai dû la soigner / la désinfecter / la panser !
Cela m'a donné envie d'y jouer et de le tester moi-même.
Alors je l'ai testé moi-même. Je me suis allongé sur le lit dans la chambre LOVE et j'ai mis un canne sur la machine. Petit à petit j'ai augmenté la puissance jusqu'à atteindre mes limites. Cela m'a donné envie de le refaire, mais en mode auto-bondage car la machine peut être programmée. Je ne sais pas encore quand, mais je vais le faire.
SELF CBT ?
Le lendemain, j'ai eu l'idée de remplacer la tige par quelque chose de plus doux pour faire du CBT. J'ai pris une tapette à mouches parce que c'est plus doux.
Nu et les jambes écartées, je me suis allongé sur le dos face à la machine à fesser. Je mettrais la tapette à mouche et le mode 1 pour les débutants 😇 . (Attention) Comme c'était trop mou, j'ai recommencé en mode 3. Ça commençait à devenir bon. Je suis passé en mode 5 et c'est là que j'ai vraiment commencé à ressentir le CBT ! Je n'ai pas augmenté la puissance, juste la durée. Je finis par jouir d'une simple caresse de mon sexe. 😋
Je pense qu'avec la CBT pour l'autobondage, c'est possible de venir assez vite si on ne monte pas trop haut la machine. Je ne sais pas encore quand mais je pense que je le ferai un jour.
La vidéo de présentation de la machine est sur youtube ici
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(Ceci et dans le classeur pour le gîte fétiche des célibataires)
Au préalable, laissez les clés des menottes au fond du jardin.
Enfilez un collier large, (SANS LE SERRER) le câble du treuil passera entre votre cou et le collier. Le but est de t'empêcher de tomber en avant (pas de te pendre LOL).
Attachez 20 mètres de ficelle à la télécommande du treuil puis l'autre extrémité de la corde à vos menottes.
Abaissez le crochet du treuil au niveau de vos fesses.
Faites une corde ou une chaîne et verrouillez-la devant votre corps. Verrouillez les menottes derrière votre dos dans la « ficelle » du string. Option ajouter ce que vous voulez en anal.
1°) Faites un bondage de boules ou de sexe et laissez dépasser environ 50 centimètres de chaîne ou de corde, que vous devrez attacher au crochet du treuil.
- Si vous souhaitez ajouter une couche, c'est le moment.
- Possibilité d'ajouter des pinces à seins
2°) Passez la corde ou la chaîne de vos boules ou sex bondage entre vos jambes et attachez-la au crochet du treuil.
3°) Prenez la télécommande du treuil et verrouillez-la contre vous, devant ou derrière.
4°) Enfilez le collier SANS LE SERRER en faisant passer le câble dans le collier. Le but est de vous empêcher de tomber en avant. Rappelez-vous, ne le serrez pas.
5°) Relevez le treuil de manière à être sur la pointe des pieds, puis abaissez doucement la télécommande au sol et lâchez la ficelle. Fermez les menottes à vos poignets
RÉSULTAT
Vous serez presque suspendu par votre sexe. Si vous avez quelque chose dans les fesses, vous serez pénétré profondément.
Si vous avez des pinces à poitrine, il ne sera pas possible de les retirer car vos menottes sont bloquées dans le string.
Être sur vos orteils deviendra épuisant, vous finirez donc par les baisser et tirer sur votre sexe. Si vous l'avez fait dur, vous aurez un peu mal, n'est-ce pas le but ?
LIBÉRER
- Saisissez la télécommande en faisant glisser la ficelle entre vos mains enchaînées.
- Abaissez le crochet et décrochez l'attache de vos couilles ou de votre bondage sexuel.
- Soulevez le crochet du treuil pour qu'il passe entre votre cou et le collier. (Voir danger ci-dessous)
- Allez chercher les clés des menottes que vous avez posées au fond du jardin, un peu de marche vous fera du bien.
OÙ EST LE DANGER ?
Le danger est que si vous avez trop serré le collier, lorsque vous le relâchez, la dorure s'y prend et essaie de vous pendre en montant. Dans ce cas, abaissez le treuil, asseyez-vous au sol et attendez que quelqu'un vous secoure. A la fetish house, si on ne te voit pas après X heures, on viendra voir si tout va bien et puis... (Le sauvetage coûte un café ou un apéro laugh 😁 )
eady proving so much better.
