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When you were a kid, what did you do when you were alone in the whole house? And what do you do now?
See also:
Home alone fetish and self-bondage adventures and random naughty thoughts
Self-bondage, fetish and children
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Another point. Ever heard this expression:”If you are being raped and you can’t stop it, just relax and try to enjoy”? OK, this is an extreme example, but the problem is, people tend to behave like they are being raped (when they are not) and do their best to resist, instead of relaxing and trying to understand what’s going on.
And they might even like it afterwards 😉
Learnt it the hard way while explaining math to my daughter 😀
Continue reading “Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 30. Bondage and math or relax and enjoy”
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See what happened in this chapter? Kaoru made Nana feel guilty and she surrendered to her fate. I should say that this is a very dangerous and very unfair practice (actually, like all manipulations), especially in a priori unequal relationships.
For example, an adult and a kid. One of the reasons why paedophilia is bad, and one of the reasons why the age of consent exists. Manipulations… A kid can be easily accused for something what might indeed have happened, but the reasoning was completely different, or there was no reason at all. Hey, it’s a kid! Then comes punishment. Then another one. Continue reading “Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 29. Dangerous practice, paedophilia and manipulations”
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Another point. Expectations. Expectations is like prejudice (Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 19. Fetish, bondage, dogmas and prejudice). Very unfair, very painful: “You have not met my expectations”, “I expected more from you”. Did we both agree on the list of your expectations and signed it? No? F@#$%^&* off!
Bad expectations, on one hand, may help to prepare in advance or avoid unwanted events. But on the other, it may scare us off and we may miss unique opportunities.
I bet you all have dozens of real life examples, but let’s have look from a bit other side – from the bondage and self-bondage point of view.
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Another point. Do you know what your partner actually wants? Not what you think what she/he might find exciting (read: what excites you ;-).
Unfortunately we are led by our own fetishes, in most cases mistakenly thinking that our partners have the same addictions. If it is indeed so, you are lucky. I do know a case when a girl used to self-bind herself (pantyhose, latex, lycra cocoons) in front of her boy, because he liked that, and he was with her during these moments, and he was looking at her with excitement in his eyes. I hope she enjoyed it a bit too.
But I also know cases when:
Continue reading “Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 27. What does you partner want?”
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Indeed, neighbourhood is convenient and as I learned later this is what our neighbours thought as well. They were afraid that I would foist my “friendship” on their daughter, e.g, over the balcony 😉 Same age, same school, parallel classes. Later our classes were merged together and we appeared in the same class.
It never “clicked” between us. But once on the way home I was walking behind her and looking at her slender legs in sheer white with very thin black (dark grey?) horizontal stripes pantyhose and was thinking:”And why did we miss such a brilliant opportunity…?”
Yeah, I was always a fetishist 😉
Continue reading “Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 26. Incentives and neighbours”
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Two more points. Given you are a fetishist and you love (self)bondage (since you are on this site ;-), consider you need to learn or do something (e.g. to learn a new language). What would be the best incentives for you?
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Another point. Last years I have to concentrate on what I’m wearing and where. For example, going to martial arts trainings I have to “explicitly” check if I’m not wearing pantyhose and no other underwear. I got used to wear pantyhose always and everywhere, so they become almost a part of my skin.
Have you ever experienced anything like that? Or probably even embarrassing moments?
Continue reading “Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 24. Fetish clothes and embarrassing moments”
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Another point. Indeed some clothes make you look and feel more naked than if there were no clothes at all. Strange feeling…
… 15 years ago a daughter of my boss came to the office. I can’t say we knew each other very good or were close friends, no, but over some time we developed a funny habit to jokingly insult each other at any convenient moment. Not something what you would do with a boss’ kid, but that was me after all 😉
She was wearing a skirt (~6-8cm above her knees) and thin very sheer and slightly shimmering skin colored pantyhose. Continue reading “Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 23. More naked than bare”
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Many-many years ago I’ve read somewhere that men should at least once a year crawl in mud to let go frustration and self-importance.
The Dutch have a hobby – mud-walking (wadlopen) – four hour walking from the mainland of the Netherlands to one of the Frisian Islands, when the tide is low. Another one is crawling in the mud and jumping over canals (with poles and without). In all the cases the result is tiredness, ruined clothes and destroyed model of “normality” in “usual” society (usually you avoid dirt, don’t you?) (See Paraphilias, sexual fetishes, normality, deviations and men vs women)
Continue reading “Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 22. Mud-walking and bodily fluids”