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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 33. Fetish and bondage New Year

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Indeed, how are you going to celebrate the New Year? I mean what are you going to wear? Fetish clothes, bondage attributes? Or possibly tightly bound and gagged?

I remember we (me and my wife) almost missed one New Year while walking around in swimsuits, shiny pantyhose and high-heels 😉

Then (last year?) I was late because of the bloody zip in my leotard. My son promptly noticed – “Hey, you’re late because you were pulling the swimsuit up?” I answered “No”. Because it was not the pulling the suit up what caused the delay, but the zip!!! 😉

Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 32. Bondage without DSM

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I’ve already mentioned that from BDSM I’m interested in the “B” only. I do not care about dominance, submissions and can’t play roles. I find role playing too artificial and rather ridiculous.

But apparently such DSM-neglection may offend some “tops” or “masters” (as you may already know, I prefer tori and uke terms here)… The situation depicted in this chapter is very real.
Kaoru finds it disrespectful to the “top” to ask for bondage, to make the ropes tighter, to “just do it”, to “let’s go outside, what’s the problem?”.

Oh, I’m soooooo Tachi in this sense. Hey, we have time, space, ropes, tools, willing persons – let’s play! Just tie me up and stop whining! If you do not know how to do it – let’s think together and try! If you are tired of my speaking, just gag me! Tighter!!! 😀

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 31. Home alone

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When you were a kid, what did you do when you were alone in the whole house? And what do you do now?

Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 30. Bondage and math or relax and enjoy

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Another point. Ever heard this expression:”If you are being raped and you can’t stop it, just relax and try to enjoy”? OK, this is an extreme example, but the problem is, people tend to behave like they are being raped (when they are not) and do their best to resist, instead of relaxing and trying to understand what’s going on.

And they might even like it afterwards 😉

Learnt it the hard way while explaining math to my daughter 😀

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 29. Dangerous practice, paedophilia and manipulations

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See what happened in this chapter? Kaoru made Nana feel guilty and she surrendered to her fate. I should say that this is a very dangerous and very unfair practice (actually, like all manipulations), especially in a priori unequal relationships.

For example, an adult and a kid. One of the reasons why paedophilia is bad, and one of the reasons why the age of consent exists. Manipulations… A kid can be easily accused for something what might indeed have happened, but the reasoning was completely different, or there was no reason at all. Hey, it’s a kid! Then comes punishment. Then another one. Continue reading “Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 29. Dangerous practice, paedophilia and manipulations”

Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 28. Expecting unexpected and randomness in selfbondage and bondage sessions

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Another point. Expectations. Expectations is like prejudice (Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 19. Fetish, bondage, dogmas and prejudice). Very unfair, very painful: “You have not met my expectations”, “I expected more from you”. Did we both agree on the list of your expectations and signed it? No? F@#$%^&* off!

Bad expectations, on one hand, may help to prepare in advance or avoid unwanted events. But on the other, it may scare us off and we may miss unique opportunities.

I bet you all have dozens of real life examples, but let’s have look from a bit other side – from the bondage and self-bondage point of view.

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 27. What does you partner want?

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Another point. Do you know what your partner actually wants? Not what you think what she/he might find exciting (read: what excites you ;-).

Unfortunately we are led by our own fetishes, in most cases mistakenly thinking that our partners have the same addictions. If it is indeed so, you are lucky. I do know a case when a girl used to self-bind herself (pantyhose, latex, lycra cocoons) in front of her boy, because he liked that, and he was with her during these moments, and he was looking at her with excitement in his eyes. I hope she enjoyed it a bit too.

But I also know cases when:

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 26. Incentives and neighbours

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Indeed, neighbourhood is convenient and as I learned later this is what our neighbours thought as well. They were afraid that I would foist my “friendship” on their daughter, e.g, over the balcony 😉 Same age, same school, parallel classes. Later our classes were merged together and we appeared in the same class.

It never “clicked” between us. But once on the way home I was walking behind her and looking at her slender legs in sheer white with very thin black (dark grey?) horizontal stripes pantyhose and was thinking:”And why did we miss such a brilliant opportunity…?”

Yeah, I was always a fetishist 😉

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 25. Incentives, pretexts and excuses

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Two more points. Given you are a fetishist and you love (self)bondage (since you are on this site ;-), consider you need to learn or do something (e.g. to learn a new language). What would be the best incentives for you?

A fetish class where students are punished for making errors (e.g. get bound? plugged? spanked? undressed? inflatable plugs are inflated further? added nipple clamps with weights?)
A fetish class where students are rewarded for correct answers and good performance (e.g. got stimulated with vibrators, get bound, plugged, dressed up, butt-plugs got deflated, bound behind the back arms lowered)
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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 24. Fetish clothes and embarrassing moments

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Another point. Last years I have to concentrate on what I’m wearing and where. For example, going to martial arts trainings I have to “explicitly” check if I’m not wearing pantyhose and no other underwear. I got used to wear pantyhose always and everywhere, so they become almost a part of my skin.

Have you ever experienced anything like that? Or probably even embarrassing moments?

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