Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 8. Breaking through the inner bondage. Wearing pantyhose in public

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You can’t get rid off the outer bondage without conflicts with the society or even with the law. You can only change it. By changing the society, geographical location, the club or your partner. Again, see Paraphilias, sexual fetishes, normality, deviations and men vs women. But you can diminish the influence of the inner one, but this is not an easy task.

Just like it’s not easy to do a back flip when you can do a simple somersault. Or relax when all your life you have been learning (actually taught) how to tense and strain. It’s a long step-for-step process.

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Self-bondage art. Part XIX. 3D Poser pictures.

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Some thoughts and ideas about this Poser series:

  • Being naked is booooooooooooooooooring…
  • You can’t trust software
  • You can’t trust hardware
  • Combining (self-)bondage and sport can be fun (see also Fetish gyms)
  • It would be very interesting to have public selfbondage rooms with all restricting devices, time-locks, programmable toys, remote controls, supervision, video and photocameras. Some controls can be given to the public or club members. The club members should have their own toys with common interface (standard mounts and a USB connector).

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 7. Inner bondage vs outer bondage

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The inner bondage can be (and usually is) stricter than the outer one. A couple of examples.

A typical example is:”What will they say?” or “Nobody does this!”.

“I can’t wear it! What will my friends say?”, “I can’t pull up my jeans, everybody wear them under buttocks”, “I can’t wear these watches to the office. They are too expensive. What will others say?”

“I can’t wear these tight briefs (e.g. so called “speedos”) to the beach. Everybody wears wet buggy shorts sticking to legs and full with sand. What will other say?” Let alone wearing a one-piece swimsuit to the beach or pantyhose in public ….

The outer bondage does not prevent you from doing this. Most likely nobody notices or cares. But your inner bondage is always on guard. “I can’t go to the supermarket without make-up!”… Oh my…

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Self-mummification tutorial. Sticky sheet.

There are several ways of mummifying yourself. The one described in the pictures below looks seems quite self-explaining and easy to do, but … wait a bit. Let’s have a closer look at it.

What are you going to wear?

This is a very important question. Sweat makes the tape glue weaker (unless it’s a water-proof sticky tape) and the tape loses the ability to stick. This feature can be used to escape from the cocoon. I would not recommend to be naked even if you are totally epilated – the tape and the glue irritate the skin and may even damage it (think of you sensitive areas).

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 6. Inner and outer bondage

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Third point – breaking out of bondage. Not literally in this case. We are born as absolutely free creatures. Kids have virtually no limits or restrictions, they are immortal. But with time the parents, the relatives and society do their work of limiting the freedom:

“Do not shout”, “stop crying”, “do not touch yourself there”, “you must/must not wear these clothes”, “boys do not do this”, “you must …”, “you must not …”, “you are not allowed to …”, “you are too young to …”, etc. Some of them are necessary to successfully co-exist and survive, some are unreasonable, some are simply ridiculous. And as a whole they create the “outer bondage”.

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 5. Strong wishes do materialize and kids’ fetish dreams

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Now to the second point. One of my favourite sayings is “Beware of your own desires, because they come true”. Yes, they do. If you correctly wish something it will eventually happen. Under correctly I mean your intention, visualization and preparations (in advance).

Kaoru not only dreamed about or visualized Nana in bondage, he bought a suit that should fit Nana perfectly. And suddenly she appeared inside that suit! I would say, that the suit captured and brought Nana to Kaoru (pan intended 😉

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 4. Why do we like bondage?

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This mange has many very valid points. Why do we like bondage? Even if nothing happens when we are bound? If it were about pure excitement and getting relief, some good hentai and masturbation would do the trick, but no, we make it complex.

We did touch the subject many times. The most voiced reasons are: to switch the brain off, to get free, to feel secure and protected, to relax, to allow yourself something you would never do while not bound and gagged. Strange indeed. We want to be bound to get free. Bondage liberates. An oxymoron, but it is so.

And many mention that semi-meditating state (or subspace) they achieve while tightly plugged and tied up.

Any more reasons?

See also Self-bondage, fetish and children

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Nana to Kaoru. Chapter 1

Nana to Kaoru” manga is way too related to this site to not to publish it here. from the description:

Kaoru is a 17-year-old virgin who has an SM fetish. He secretly dreams about an SM relationship with his childhood friend Nana. One day Kaoru’s mom asks Nana to hide all his SM toys so he’ll study for a change. However, Nana finds the leather one-piece that Kaoru bought and tries it on, but she accidentally locks it and doesn’t have the key! The beginning of super strange relationship.

So, let the long fetish and bondage journey begin! See Chapter #1 below.

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