Business trip. Night 2. Stay bound or suffer

self-bondage selfbondage in latex mummification enemaWhat is your pleasure / (preparation + cleaning) time ratio? Mine is still decreasing. I was going to test something new , so I spent more than 4 hours preparing, 3 hour washing/cleaning and around an hour enjoying. and I haven’t “post processed” pictures and published the description yet. That will gonna take 4 more hours.

That’s crazy…

OK, the idea I was testing is called “suffer or stay bound”. In short: in order to get free you need to get down from a bed and crawl to the knife. But as long as your level gets lower the prepared enema kicks in. When you are on the bed – there is no flow because the levels are the same.

Two possibilities:

1. You are tied to the bed via the ice-locks. So you can’t move until the ice melts.

2. You are NOT tied to the bed. and free to move. But the knife is hanging out of your reach using ice-in-stocking technique. And you do not know if the knife is released. To check it, you need to get down to the floor and crawl to the place the knife is supposed to be. And get the enema. If the knife is not there – suffer for not having patience.

A variation is connecting the enema bag filled with a nasty liquid (piss?) to your gag. Or use two enema bags: one to the gag, one to the butt-plug  🙂

I was testing the 1st method.

I was wearing the following:

  • latex pantyhose with piss condom
  • latex surf-suit
  • latex opera length gloves
  • latex single stocking
  • latex strait-jacket
  • inflatable latex hood with build in inflatable gag with a piss tube connected to the piss condom
  • enema butt-plug

The enema bag was tied to the bed post, and I was tied to the same post via the ice padlock.

I was bound in a very simple way:

  • ankles
  • above and below knees
  • wrists (wrist coil – cinch noose – pulling cord – ice padlock)

Everything worked as expected, however the enema bag should be placed higher, but there was nothing around to hang it from. Also, the street temperature was not low enough, so the ice-padlock opened within 30 min.

See the complete Session 59 here.

Please let me know if you have comments or ideas on how to improve these scenarious.

25 thoughts on “Business trip. Night 2. Stay bound or suffer”

  1. Hi Ra!

    I know this scenario only too well. Often I’ve planned for weeks, spent many hours assembling all the bits and pieces I want to use – only for the session to last an hour or so and then leave me with another 2 hours of cleaning and tidying up. I reckon at best to be 50/50 on pleasure to preperation and at worst (and too often) 10/90.

    Interseted in your comment about the enema height – welcome your ideas on that one and also how to make it run properly (without air-locks).

    love to see the picture – please post soon


    Suffer or stay is a scenario I’ve been trying to perfect for some time. Like you I have often used the enema as a proce for freedom (another option was used in one of my sessions posted in the forum).

  2. hey ra, if this isnt too personal, do you do bondage with your wife?

    A good question for a FAQ 😉

    Yes, I did try several times. But the problem is that I’m very “selfish” in my (self)-bondage. And I assume that my partner will like bondage like I like it in my own way – I like the feelings, no role exchange or dominance. So, our styles are not quite compatible.

    She also helped me to bind the last knot in my self-bondage. But still, I prefer to be alone. Self-bondage for me is like meditation.

    BTW, you might want have a look at these threads:
    Partner involvement in your fetish
    My response to Dea’s Hello

  3. Hi Ra,

    I’ve tried this scene using your two-bag and pump device. I set up a magnetic reed switch to turn on the pump if I crawled off of the bed. I ran a light nylon cord from my bound ankles to a magnet by the reed switch. If I moved too far, the cord pulled the magnet away from the reed switch and started the pump.

    I had to crawl to an outlet across the room to unplug the pump, then crawl to the knife. I set up the rest of the scene pretty much the same as in your photographs.

    It worked.

    I understand and agree with your observation about self-bondage as meditation. While I’m bound or working to release myself, I feel a quiet focus and peace. A scene can also be a huge turn-on. There is also the edgy side — what happens if I can’t get loose or if something else goes wrong.

    But, recently the best element is the peaceful focus. Hard to explain.

  4. I understand and agree with your observation about self-bondage as meditation.

    Another interesting thing. I feel safer when fully encased and bound. The psychoanalytics say that it’s a “referral” to the safe womb in which we have spent some time. Probably. Entirely possible. I do like my latex tight and well lubricated and I do like tubes.

    Anyway, now I need to devise an “iceless” hotel-suitable lock for this method. Probably, I will use no time-locks at all. Just an enema with a long tube and a knife located a bit farther away.

    Want to get free? Crawl and get an enema.
    Confused the direction? Be punished.
    Can’t cut off the ropes quickly enough? Suffer.

  5. >LR wrote: Want to get free? Crawl and get an enema.
    >Confused the direction? Be punished.
    >Can’t cut off the ropes quickly enough? Suffer.

    I like that kind of simple approach most of the time. It’s easier to set up. The scene is just as interesting/exciting. There’s less gear to clean and put away.

    Sometimes it’s fun to engineer an elaborate setup, but that’s mostly about trying to figure out a complicated scene and make it work. It’s harder to relax and focus if the set up is complicated.

    For me, my peaceful, focused scenes are quite simple and the consequences are direct.

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  7. this was a great idea, i tried it myself and added a little somthing (i put the keys to my restraints inside a block of ice that was its self inside a bucket off ice cubes at the bottom next to the hotel bed, so if i didient want to wait for hours i had to role off of the bed and nock the bucket over, the enema started and i still had to wait for the ice to melt) should of put some sheeting on the floor tho lol

  8. not sure if blindly crawling toward a spot where you know a knife could fall anytime is so wise

  9. Of course not. The reason is to provide more events. And probably to make self-bondage look more like real bondage.

  10. hi im new to self bondage was wondering, ra, if u can give me some ideas on self bondage i could do with merely the stuff in an average household?

  11. I am wondering if one can add a pump, so if you did move, the pump would start start the enema. In this way, you could be draging the enema bag, but the pump would still be pumping your goo into you till you get the key/knife

  12. The enema will not stop anyway, because it’s placed high enough. Dragging the bag with is something I would prefer to avoid – everything will be on the carpet 😉 So the bag is fixed in place.

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