I am a dominant sadistic Mistress looking for male slaves. And that is slave as in being owned and not just something you like to do 5 minutes a day.
Boys, if you are not sure this is probably not for you. I am pretty strict, so if you don't like the idea of having no freedom, move along. What do I want from you is obedience, submission, your crys, your begging, your whining. I am going to take all that. When you write me don't just say hello. Write about yourself and why you would like to be a slave. Be respectful. It is not that hard to do. Be humble, but still present your talents.
Kik! GoddessMagda
Describe yourself and what are you looking for, guys with picture will receive an answer first.
Climbing the hill in stilettos, video
Been working on this idea for a while. Had several test runs and I’ve post some of those runs so I was ready for the real thing. I still wanted to keep it short and have several methods out. The basic plans calls for a long walk, outside, up a hill, to a pair of scissors, dressed in my favoite attire, and connected to a drag rope to make things difficult. I put scissors at the half way point and one on the top of the hill. When I put them out I was wearing dark clothes and noticed that the site is a little more exposed than I would like but I blended into the enviroment. I went back up and put out some of my white clothes on tree branches and went down the parking lot. You could definitely see them. Oh well, it wasn’t the first time I’ve been in public in my favorite dress. This time would be a little different since I going to be bound and wearing mask and wig. Dressed in all white, on the side of a hill that was all green I was going to stand out but I decided to go for it. Setup one camera, pointed it up hill, got dressed, tied my self up, and started up thehill. Wasn’t too bad made it to the half way point, looked around and decided that going to the top would not be good as I was exposed and could hear people walking the trails. I started back down. Walking down was as difficult as going up. After a rest I decide to increase the load with several rocks. It turned out to be too much. Only make it part way up, out of breath, legs hurting, I turned around and headed back down. All in all a good session, but need to find a better location. As for the bound part, the escape was scissors at several locations. I had a release on the drag rope in case it got hung up. In my test sessioins I discovered that I needed that release.
I didn’t think the video would be any good, but using filmora and zooming in as I got further away didn’t turn out that bad. I’ve got a DJI Mavic Pro drone that I’m starting to use for things like this. It has the follow me feature but it can draw a lot of attention and the follow me feature struggles on the side of a steep hill.
DBF
So I’ve gone through this site for years now and have enjoyed the ideas that people come up with. I’ve grown tired of the standard hogties and spread eagle and want to try something a little more unique. I also tend to get bored easily while in selfbondage and once I cum just want to get out of it. Any ideas are welcomed and willing to send pictures as long my face doesn’t to show.
Items
Multitude of pantyhose and bodysuits
Ballet boots
5” heels
Wand vibrator and smaller egg vibrator
Locking wrists/high heels cuffs
Locking harness gag 2” ball
Tall neck collar
Blindfold
Waist trainer and body corset
Kitchen safe
Plenty of small and two big locks
Plenty of rope
Handcuffs
Feel free to message me or post ideas here for others to also see. Look forward to what you guys come up with.
Has anyone found anyone making lycra / spandex socks? (shiny, matte, etc.)
Best I've come across so far are the WetSox folks, but their offerings are pretty limited and knee-high only. I'd really love to have shorter options...
I discovered a new item that triggers my senses: Ponchos (not rain ponchos, no pvc etc.), preferably with hood, necessarily covering the arms. Something like this:
or even like this:
Perhaps it is the cross dresser in me, I am not really sure. But also the silhouettes appeal to me a lot, and these models are cute...
It is a bit odd, because so far, I would never have thought, that such fabrics could be of any interest to my fetish world.
I enjoyed the first model (poncho only) a lot this winter. It is cosy, warm and adds a bit of kink to whatever I do while wearing it. Of course, it is not suited for intense self-bondage sessions.
For various reasons, I like heavy rainwear, meaning the stuff, that is not labelled "outdoor" and has no high-tech membranes, but the plain old-style rainwear, that exists for about 50 years now, and never really completely vanished. Is it a fetish? Well, not only but also. I am living in northern Germany and rainwear is just the right thing to have, even though many people prefer to get wet or lose their umbrellas (and also get wet). The classical hooded rubbery raincoat has actually been revived recently. There are european based companies like Stutterheim, Tretorn, Ilse Jacobsen, Schmuddelwedda, MBYM, Ichi, Derbe, Rains, and many more. Some of them are now present on the internet, on ebay, amazon, and even in off-line shops, others sell through dealers. There was one extra reason to start this thread: When looking for rainwear online, you hardly ever get sufficient information, be it sizing, texture, shape or even the base material and coating. So, buying online is really trial and error. I want to share some knowledge about the stuff that I have. And I would appreciate, if others post their knowledge here too - as well as their thoughts, experiences etc. Simply join the discussion!
Let's have a few examples, three different coats I own, and wear in public, without nasty looks upon me (unless the sun is shining too hard). All of the just above knee length, and officially tailored for women:
Tretorn "Erna", size XL blue (www.tretorn.com)
The outside is PU-coated polyester, a bit stiff, very soft surface, shiny.
Inside, it is lined in an off-white fabric, probably polyester too, it feels almost like cotton.
The general shape is almost straight, on the slimmer side, I think, it gets continuously wider from armpits to bottom.
Hood size is fairly small, the shape is good for my head, I can use in on the bicycle.
As the name "Erna" implies, this is a model for women, but I think, it is fine for slim men too. I usually wear men's size M, but when it comes to sleeve length, I often need L. This coat has fairly wide shoulders, and XL is perfect on my chest and the sleeves are almost long enough (they are hardly ever long enough on ANY coat, no matter how large). The lining doesn't yet make it a winter coat, and a normal pullover is the thickest, I should wear underneath. XL should be considered L, I think.
MBYM "Festa Festival", size M/L, black (https://mbym-shop.com)
This is a PU-coated polyester fabric again, a bit thinner than the one from Tretorn, but still a bit stiiffer than the material from Rains.
Similar outside finish, soft, dense and shiny. The inside is rough, typical polyester fabric, no lining.
Shape is straight, but it comes with a belt. It is "oversized fit", which results in a perfect sleeve length for me, it even passes the "zombie-test" - arms straight forward. The hood is slightly larger than the one from "Erna", should be just okay for riding my bicycle though. It won't fit over a helmet!
The waist line is a bit high for me, just at the lower endof the rib-cage. But it looks okay, and unless I tie the belt too tight, it also feels fine. By the way, M/L is probably woman-friendly sizing, it is plain L or even larger, I'd say (well, it is also oversized, so perhaps exactly L).
I added a drawstring on the bottom, because I could, the hem is open. It gives it a slightly nicer overall shape, I think - drawstring not pulled tight, just gathering the hem ever so slightly.
Ilse Jacobsen "Rubber Coated Polyester" (actually, that seems to be the model name), size M, blue (www.ilsejacobsen.com)
The most femine-shaped coats of mine. Fairly narrow shoulders, a bit tighter on the waist, skirt gets wider to the bottom. And there are short shaping seams at the chest. A special feature: The arm cuffs can be opened almost up to the elbows and are closed with four shiny metal poppers. This reminds me of older army coats, just without the additional strap. The cuffs can be folder back over the upper arms, and they are lined with the rubberised surface too, while the upper sleeves aren't. It was probably a useful feature of the coat, that Ilse Jacobsen used for inspiration. I suppose, this could be handy during some tasks. Obviously, the cuffs are fairly wide.
The hood is the smallest of all three coats, perfect for biking.
The outside is not as shiny as the other coats, naturally, because it is rubber coated. I am tempted to try silicon oil, but I will wait. I consider this coat to be suited for public wearing, and too much shine might do no good then. The inside is interesting for me as a rubber lover: The front is lined with the outside material, the back is uncoated. The hood is coated inside too. Because of the rubber coating and less shiny poppers, the overall apperance is nicely rough, perhaps an allusion to the traditional sailor wear. The other two coats are more "urban".
This coat is slightly too small on the shoulders, but I saw it for 30€ only (usually over 100 €), and it is brand new, so I had to try it. It is actually fine, if I don't raise my arms. Once I raise my arms, the sleeves get too short and the chest is too tight. I am interested to see this coat in size L, it should be perfect.
From these coats, when worn in public, I feel best with the Tretorn coat. Cut-wise the MBYM coat is unisex, but wearing a belt on a coat is new to me, so it is third. Second comes the Ilse Jacobsen coat, even though it is the most feminine. I don't think, people can really tell, that I am wearing women's coats, unless they look at the poppers and know, that poppers (or buttons) on the right side can only be found on women's clothes. I have also checked in the mirror, and I don't think, it looks any unusual, wrong or inappropriate for a man. It is a bit like skirts, except, that skirts are "officially" considered women only, while most people don't even think about raincoats.
Well, what do I do with these coats? First of all, I like to wear hooded raincoats instead of these ordinary chest-length "standard jackets". I also have an affection for rubber-like material, which I can discretely follow in public with raincoats. So, I do wear these coats, whenever suitable. I sometimes wear then, when sitting at my computer. And I have worn them in bed too. Well, not for sleeping, they are too warm for that 😉. To me, these coats are both, regular clothing and fetish item.
Concerning the public apperance of me wearing these coats: I got compliments in the Tretorn coat. I haven't got any reaction on the MBYM coat yet. A woman gave me a nice smile, when I was walking by in the Ilse Jacobsen coat, but I don't know, if that was because of the coat, despite the coat or whatever. Probably not because of my shoes though... In Hamburg, no such coats are commonly worn by men. You can see quite a few raincoats, especially the expensive ones from Schmuddelwedda and Derbe in the city and in the "better" quarters, but worn by women. Over the last frew years, I spottet about 4 men in rainjackets, and, a few days ago, one in a raincoat.
OK, so much about raincoats for the moment. One of the next posts might be about other forms of rainwear. I am not sure, if anyone is interested in this, but I suppose so. There are complete forums dedicated only to the rainwear fetish, and this thread is about even more, it is also about actually wearing rainwear as normal clothing!
This thread was inspired by @"The Inspector"'s response in this thread. I get that some people have had genuinely unpleasant encounters regarding their sexual fetishes which would make them, understandably, hesitant to ever bring up the topic to a loved one again. However, maybe some of us kinky people are just being overly worried about something that's not that big of a deal. I would like to share some of my experiences in life in hopes that I might help others to find strength in their own honesty.
I used to be paranoid about people finding out about my desires. I was around 19 - 20 years old at the time, and decently straight-laced in public. I was not new to dating, but I was experimenting with being in a relationship with a man at the time. We worked together, at a television station. I was a broadcast engineer and he was (still is) a tv weatherman. He was always wanting to party and be social in general, so we had a lot of parties at our house. Despite the fact that he and I were in a kinky relationship, he would still wing-man for me to find girls to have fun with. Honestly it was an awesome time in my life and would definitely do it all again. I didn't realize what he was telling these college girls to see if they were interested but I happened to be in our kitchen one evening where we were all tipsy and he told this gorgeous brunette about my bondage gear collection. When he did that, I was petrified. I thought, "ohh great, I'll be the town freak now; a social pariah. No one will ever want to hang out with me because I'm weird", but no, that's not what happened. This cute brunette looked at me with a sly grin and said, "I loooove me some handcuffs" while, sort of, miming having her wrists bound together in front of her. I'm sure my jaw must've hit the floor at that point. Not only had I realized that this lovely young lady was possibly a willing participant in my mad world of bondage, but I also realized that other people's reactions (in the room) were somewhere between completely neutral to slightly intrigued by what she said. For the most part, no one really cared one way or the other and certainly no one got angry or scared and ran away. Since that happened, I've been open about my kinks to everyone I've been in a relationship with and almost all of my friends. Where I usually draw the line is telling people at work, but I have made exceptions to this rule. Even then I will still use my brain to try and determine the way people might react if I did tell them. The last time I was unsure about telling someone at work about my kinks, I started off with something almost any man could understand, regardless of kinky preference.
I used to work with a dude at a machine shop that I was becoming decently good friends with. Good friendship equals in depth shop banter about many subjects, including girls, etc. I decided to test a method of letting someone know I'm kinky without seeming too weird. One day we were working and chatting (like any other normal day) and we ended up on the subject of hot chicks, which is totally normal conversation between two guys in a machine shop. I figured I could sneak a little of my fetish in to gauge his reaction. We were talking about some hot girls and I said something like, "I bet a tight, shiny rubber suit would look great on her", or something similar (paraphrasing). He paused a bit and kinda repeated the question back to me as if to inquire whether I really said that out loud. I said something like "yeah, I know I'm weird, but how can you not like a hot chick with an amazing body wearing tight, shiny clothes. You gotta admit that's sexy as fuck, right?". He just kinda chuckled a little at what I said and said something like, "Yeah I can get that. So you like chicks in tight clothes?" I said, "No dude... I like girls in tight, shiny clothes... like rubber. Also, it makes finding porn easier since these ladies are mostly, completely covered in their photos and videos; so you can even find them on youtube." He said, "Awww yeah! that makes a lot of sense... Cool!"
The conversation he and I had was totally unnecessary as part of our friendship, but served as a proof of concept that I can basically tell almost anyone that I'm kinky, to some degree, and not be worried about it having any negative repercussions later. If I had wanted to continue to tell my work friend about my proclivities; hypothetically, I could have said something like, "Ohh wow, I'd let her keep me locked up in her basement for a few days" while discussing a photo of a random hot girl he may have found. If you say things with a smile or a giggle, it seems to cut down on the severity of whatever you're saying and lightens the mood. Really, it's all about reading the people you're with and building rapport. I feel like most people have a threshold for being weirded out and if you "turn up" the weird stimuli really slowly, you can effectively raise people's thresholds until they are ultimately unaffected by whatever it is you eventually want to tell them. If I had told my co-worker that I tie myself to my bed for hours on end while wearing full latex and having a vibrator strapped to me, he probably wouldn't have wanted to speak with me very much after that... that would be too, much too fast and any rapport we built would likely be lost for an extended, perhaps even permanent, period.
Regarding telling my significant others that I've had in my life, I usually mention my desires very early on in dating. For my most recent, and still current, relationship (going on 6 years now), I actually flirted with her online by jokingly alluding to kinky behavior. If I remember correctly, she said she would not be available the next day, for voice chat, at the normal time we had been chatting. She said she was going to be tied up the next day doing stuff with her family. When she said that phrase, it caught my attention so I responded with, "tied up, huh?" (Imagine me saying this to her on skype voice, not video, with a sly grin on my face and one eyebrow raised.) She said something like, "Uhhhhh, ummm <clears throat sarcastically>... that's -not- what I meant when I said that." I quipped back with, "Yeahhhhh, surrreeee", and then we both giggled about it for a few minutes. That one moment in our history broke the ice and sparked a wonderful relationship that I wouldn't trade for anything else right now. If it hadn't happened, she and I might not have gotten together. If she had responded negatively to that exchange, I likely would not have pursued a relationship with her any further. My fetishes are too strong to conceive of me trying to live in a relationship where I don't get to exercise my kinky side at all.
I really could go on and on about my experiences with letting people get to know the real me. My mom knows I'm kinky, she's seen me wearing a latex leotard I made. She even gave me some pointers how how to make the pattern. A few years ago, when my dad was moving, he asked me if I wanted his giant garbage bag of institutional restraints... of course I wanted them. All of these experiences add up to one conclusion in -my- life; that, for the most part, people don't care what you do as long as the participants are willing and reasonably safe about it. Even people who were initially puzzled by my motivations to be honest about my kinky life, have totally warmed up to the idea of me being publicly open about this subject.
There are lines I try not to cross, however. I don't talk about these things with kids. That's just not appropriate. Additionally, I wouldn't openly discuss these topics in my current job. For one, my job mostly involves office work and secondly, the few co-workers I have are overtly religious and so I don't want to even try and see if they would be offended by my openness. However, if any of them were to ask me about my penchant for kink, I would give them a carefully phrased/worded, yet truthful, answer.
I would like to read anyone else's experiences in this matter, both positive and negative. Hopefully we can share some wisdom that will help others alleviate misplaced fears.
I've got 1-2 hours free on Friday when I''ll be undisturbed.
I've historically enjoyed private cross dressing, chastity, butt plugs etc. But I find I don't usually have the self-control to stop myself just getting excited and then cumming.
I've never done self-bondage, I've always been a bit intimidated I guess. I don't currently own hand cuffs but can easily get some ahead of thee session.
All the releases have lots of conditions and problems with them and am worried that I'll not be able to escape.
I'd quite like full crossdressing, chastity, maybe forced / repeat orgasms (never done) to be a part of it.
Very tempted to get some stuff from aliexpress. What’s the packaging like from them? Is it discreet? I only ask as I have most things delivered to my work address, ( so I can sneak them in when the wife is out ), and they are signed for by someone else where I work.
Don’t want any awkward questions being asked that could jeopardise my job.
I have only been to one abroad along time ago and feel it would be great for me to get out with people that have similar quirks to me. Would certainly help me be a bit more open publicly than I am, (I’m very private currently, not even my wife knows even half the stuff I do or fantasise about!)
