Hello, It's my first post there, but I used to visit this site before. I wanted to share with you my most favorite self bondage technique, and ask a question about that. So I prepare 2 thightings (or very longs socks) for legs, and 2 socks for arms. After putting thighting on my legs I wrap tape around them, forcing my both legs in V letters (something like frogtie). These thightings are used to don't let tape make contact with my skin of course 😁 Then I like to use rope to wrap it around my balls and dick, then connect it to my big toes I also tie together with about 30cm distance, making tranglie there and giving me pain if I move me feet a little. (Gagging myself right after it is also an option 😉 ). Then, after putting a sock on my left hand, making a mitten there, I do the same thing like with legs. Of course bounding my right hand need some weird moves, but after all I'm able to the same. So, when I finish I'm bound in bitchsuit bondage, (google if it you don't know 😋 ). Yet, there is one problem. Even with my mittens it took me about 1 min to operate scissors right and free my right hand. Therefore, I came with question to you people to how to make it much harder and challenging to escape. I have padlock, but unfortunately it's to small to fit into scissors, and I don't have any idea how could I use them. Any other idea would be good too. Waiting for escape is nice, but I find struggling for escape more exiting. I'm looking up for your ideas, and opinion about my pretty simple technique.
I'm so nervous writing this because I've only shared details of my sessions with MadJack, but I thought it was time to give it a try. Unfortunately I never took photos once I started the SB part of my play and these days my wife and I both work from home, but maybe a business trip will come up soon and I'll try to get some more "detailed" photos.
When I used to travel for work regularly, I would always bring a minimum amount of business clothing and stuff my suitcase with a wide variety of pantyhose, leotards, catsuits, heels, corsets, hoods, and bondage devices. I have a large collection that I have acquired over the years so the mix varies considerably, but those who know me on this site know that I'm a long term lycra and latex fetishist and tend to gravitate toward super tight outfits with the highest heels, tightest corsets, large plugs, strict hoods, gags, etc.
A typical session for me starts by filling the hotel room ice bucket with ice for a stocking ice release mechanism and cleaning myself thoroughly inside and out. The pleasant feeling of fullness is always a welcome beginning to a long night of self bondage as is the ritual of shaving. We all know that lycra feels so amazing on freshly shaved skin! Sometimes I carefully apply a bit of makeup before putting on a spandex hood to create the illusion of a decent looking woman looking back at me in the mirror. Next, I put some lube on my cock and balls and forced them into a thick latex sheath. The base of the sheath includes a strong latex band so once it is on, it isn't going anywhere. This is important because I get pretty physical when I play and the latex decreases the sensation enough to make an orgasm difficult, if not impossible. Then I ease my favorite huge plug into my ass that I bought the plug in San Francisco at Mr. S Leather, 5 pounds of solid metal. I love the way it feels from beginning to the end of my sessions, very cold at first, then warm but when I move my body around. It massages my prostate in all the right places. (steel butt-plug). Funny enough, when I bought it, the salesperson offered to help me wear it out of the store! I was actually tempted take him up on the offer, but I had a session scheduled with a local Mistress, but that's a story for another time...
The rest of my dressing goes quickly. First a pair of thick tights, then a bra with large breasts forms, then a turtleneck leotard followed by a gloved / footed shiny lycra catsuit, and heels with ankle straps. I complete the look with a heavy leather corset that crushes my waist from 34" to 28" By the time I'm finished pulling the laces by using the closet doorknob trick, I'm gasping for air. Finally I buckle on a large red ballgag, add my favorite leather hood, and put on leather ankle / wrist cuffs. Removing some ice from the bucket, I fill the end of a stocking and use a small padlock to lock it to one of my wrist cuffs. This was the moment I love... I take another small padlock and lock the other wrist cuff to the improvised ice lock. Now I'm trapped until the ice melts.
At this point, I take some time to enjoy my handiwork. I usually slowly teeter over to the full length mirror in the living room and am greeting with the image of a shiny, fetish doll. My cock strains again its latex sheath and the heft of the buttplug massages my insides. Even if I wanted to push it out, the leotard and tights insure that it isn't going anywhere. Sometimes a moment of panic set in. My jaw is already aching, my calves hurt, the corset is biting into me, the hood makes it hard to breath, but eventually I relax into my predicament. I walk around the room and the plug began to work its magic on my prostate making my cock harder and harder. I try rubbing myself against the arm of the couch, a chair, the bed, anything, and while it is exciting, I know I'm not going to able to cum like this.
Ten minutes into my self imposed torture feels like an hour and my feet are really beginning to ache so I sit down and enjoy the kinky thoughts running through my mind. Sitting pushes the plug into a new and even more enjoyable position and I have already setup my laptop to watch my favorite pantyhose, spandex, latex porn. The ice has barely melted, I'm horny as hell, and it's going to be awhile until I'm "free." Ah, self bondage bliss.
Here are a few photos I did take. Thanks for reading!
I was thinking the other day that there must be a way of achieving a predicament gag..
my idea is..
Fill a water balloon with something nasty... like pee or store sperm, or it this could be a food stuff that you really dislike or just painful like Chilli sauce, Wasabi or castor oil
Obviously need to be liquid..
Put as much into the balloon so that its suitable ball gag sized and tie it off
Place in mouth and hold it there by a simple cord tied to the neck of the balloon and round your head
not the challenge is not to accidentally bite through it or you will have to drink or at least end up with what ever you chose in your mouth
now if you add electro into the mix where yo may flinch or clench... ha ha ha
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At last I felt confident that I wouldn’t be interrupted by the un-announced return of my GF, so it was time to add a proper ‘helplessness’ element to my self-bondage. Bring on the ice-cubes!
Equipment:
x2 Tan pantyhose suit (no hood or gloves)
Gloss tan tights (Aristoc I think)
Body Control mini-dress
Cock cage
Vibrator and digital timer
Corset
Stockings
5inch heels
Long Lycra gloves
Ring gag and ball
Leather wrist and ankle cuffs
Leather collar
Bra and silicon breast forms
Large purple butt-plug
Rope
Chair
Rope ratchet, ice-release bag and ice-cubes
Shackles and chains
The session: A quick text exchange with my GF had innocently (I hope!) revealed she was fully committed to her work for the rest of the day and that gave me the confidence to go for some proper helplessness in my next self-bondage scene.
I love chair ties and have been thinking of ways to improve on how I make the final steps to true helplessness better and less risky – the challenge for me was to move away from a ‘hands-behind’ tie, as these are only comfortable for short times before either my shoulders start to complain or else my upper arms become really painfully pressed against the chair. The solution came from browsing through some older self-bondage pictures posted on Flickr by a person I’ve followed for years, who has some very impressive images of their attire and bondage sessions. By arranging a bar crosswise across the back of the chair I could bind my hands in front of my body, but still be tied to the chair – hopefully this will become clear in the following pictures.
You can see I’ve swopped back to a standard chair, with a strong plastic 50mm pipe lashed to the chair top. I’ve also pre-tied a few bits of rope to use later. I didn’t need to tie the short spreader bar in place, my body-weight would hold that securely, but I did wrap a little rope to stop it sliding side-to-side. What you can’t see is the ice-release which is secured to a substantial piece of furniture with two cubes slowly melting in their bag, the exit and my freedom blocked by a small metal ring. The rope ratchet was fixed to the bag so that I could tighten it up, but only escape when the ice released it.
One again I dressed in my bodysuits and tights as in the MJ-SB02/2019 session – and my ass was well stuffed with my biggest plug. As is almost always the case these days I was also wearing my bra and boobs, over which I’d pulled on the mini-dress/control top, then tightly laced on my corset. A stocking went over my head, a ball in my mouth followed by a second stocking and then my wig. I finished of with my 5inch heels and some leg cuffs.
I was planning to include some stimulation, but wasn’t desperate to cum, so after rolling a condom on my cock I had also encased it in a knee-high before locking it tightly into my cock-cage (I won’t call it a chastity cage as when used like this I can get very, very erect, however it does seem to make it harder to cum) – what I love most about this cage is the strap that goes around my ball sack and is locked onto the main cage. I try to tighten that as much as possible as the feelings it creates are very arousing (at least to me!).
My cock and balls where pulled forward from under my clothing onto the chair seat (one suit was already open-crotch the other and the tights had conveniently developed holes in the appropriate place which I’d opened a little more to allow everything to ‘hang-out’. I added a ring-gag to keep the ball in my mouth and also a leather collar around my neck.
A final touch was to attach the vibrator to my cock – this is an area I often struggle to get right, either failing to get the contact of vibrator to cock correct or else completely messing up the process and finding that the vibrator works off as it buzzes away. Both outcomes are incredibly frustrating and can dampen an otherwise great session (because I’m stuck with my error for at least 30-40mins, which gives me a long time to rue my failure!)
Time to get roping! I hooked my ankles up onto the spreader bar, locking them in place with the shackles through the leg cuffs. Next, I lashed my thighs and waist to the chair – this is an intrinsic element to my helplessness and I find the tightening of rope over my thighs very erotic. I also clipped the rope-ratchet to my collar, to keep it safe and to-hand for later.
The final stages where to pull on gloves, strap a pair of leather wrist cuffs on and reach for the chains. I clipped one end of each chain to a cuff and then joined the two chains in front of me to the free end of the rope ratchet. Next, I worked my elbows behind the bar tied to the top of chair back. All that remained to do was pull on the other end of the rope ratchet to slowly tighten up the chains as they where pulled away from me. Oh how I love that ‘click-click-click’ sound as my fate is slowly sealed.
Now I was trapped by my own devices – the tension on the chain pulled my elbows into the bar and my wrists forwards and away from my body. I couldn’t reach my opposite wrists to unclip the chain or undo the cuffs. My feet where lifted from the floor and my body lashed down to the chair.
As I enjoyed my helplessness the vibrator cut in for the first of it’s 8 cycles. Oh my, I’d forgotten how good it felt to be bound and tormented with no easy escape.
The only cloud on my horizon was a failure to properly secure the vibrator, resulting in a much lighter contact than I’d planned – sweet frustration and damnable torment at the same time!!
As the vibrator reached it’s 5th or possibly 6th cycle (it is easy to lose track when you’re having fun) my frustration proved to great and I manged to work my elbows out from the bar and partially freed myself.
I was disappointed that I’d managed to escape and quickly tried a variation on my bondage. Instead of the chains simply going forwards to be pulled in a sort of ‘U’ shape away from me, I threaded the chain through a D-ring in my collar, forming a more ‘Y’ shape through the collar ring. This proved to be much more effective and when I pulled the ratchet tight, I couldn’t move my elbows to slide them off the end of the bar that trapped me. Much better!
What went well? Just being properly helpless was such a thrill – it had been far too long since I’d last experienced that.
The experiment with using a bar, behind my elbows, as part of a chair tie worked better than I’d expected and the second attempt was a real winner. There was a unexpected bonus that the use of the collar caused my head to be slightly bowed down in a very submissive pose. And it meant that the drool from my gagged mouth dripped onto my cock...
I love having my feet lifted up from the floor, it really does add an element of helplessness – this chair tie is one example, but I’ve also involved this in other ties and it is equally erotic to me.
What could be improved? I missed the dress riding up and that slightly spoilt the aesthetics of what I was striving for – lessons learnt and I will try to avoid any ‘wardrobe malfunctions’ next time!
The vibrator attachment, with subsequent slipping and poor contact against my cock is something I need to sort out – achieving frustration by design is one thing, but being frustrated by a technical failure is not the outcome I’m seeking.
All things considered this was another successful session, despite a couple of mis-fires, and there was more learning to improve future adventures.
Hope you enjoy the show as much as I enjoyed experiencing it for real – with a bit of luck and some free time there should be a video out soon too.
