Fetish events

[The inspector]

Any decent fetish events in the UK?

I have only been to one abroad along time ago and feel it would be great for me to get out with people that have similar quirks to me. Would certainly help me be a bit more open publicly than I am, (I’m very private currently, not even my wife knows even half the stuff I do or fantasise about!)

[Like Ra]

Have a look at this page: http://kfsmagazine.com/global-events/

[The inspector]

Nice one! I’ll take a look!

[vanessa_fetish]

You can also try FetLife.

If you put your actual location in (instead of Antarctica as some do) then events near you will show up on event page.

[The inspector]

Thanks for that! I am on Fetlife but hardly use it!

[Like Ra]

I am on Fetlife but hardly use it!

Yep, #metoo. Great original idea, but extremely unmanageable, unmanaged, and unstructured. The original dating part of matching people by fetishes is good, but since nobody looks at the existing fetishes and everybody tries to invent their own - it does not work properly either. There is some good info and there are good posts and photos, but they are impossible to find. As I said many times, it's mostly a dating site, with random forum capabilities.

[The inspector]

I completely agree. There is no easy way of seeing new stuff. I get the occasional email saying someone has posted something. But even by clicking the link I can never find the post again to add another comment. It really is all over!

[vanessa_fetish]

I use it mostly as a tool now. Once upon a time I was a greeter for a few years at the start, so when I left the team they gave me lifetime status which means I see a bit more than regular. Now just a tool, for events mostly and community groups (since I'm involved in the local community)