does anybody know any kind of effective selfbondage i can do? i would especially like to do something that confines me such as mummification. i dont have materials like handcuffs, rope, or restraints, but more household objects like blankets and clothes. if anybody has ideas that would be great.
thanks!
Ok, today I pushed the limit. Got all dressed up, put on some street clothes over my dress up and went to the park. Sat down on the bench and started to removed my street clothes. First the shoes, then the jeans. Under my jeans were 4 pairs of panty hose. Next took off my jacket. Under my jacket was a shirt with a white vinyl skirt pull up around my chest. Stood up and adjusted my skirt. Sat down and put my heels on. My heart was pounding so hard my hands shacking to the point I could not buckle my stilettos properly. Got my ipad out and started to read. The bench I had chosen was set so you could only walk behind me so I was protected some what. You can hear the kids in the background, and see some people in the background. After awhile I decided to walk back to the hotel. There weren't many people around not. The walk is maybe a hundred yards across a walking bridge over the highway. I got the camera out again when I got to the bridge and started shooting pictures. That when I ran into people. A couple, coming from where I had come up the steps. Quickly I turned around and head the other way fast. I had a few choice words, cover your ears. Got the camera under control and put it away, then another couple coming up the steps right in front of me. They both looked me in the eyes and said something, both taking at the same time as I heard something like "nice or good xxxx" not sure about the rest, but they kept walking. and so did I
Got to a safe spot and put on my jeans and shoes.
I was so scared, heart just pounding. Now that I look back I'm thinking what did I expect, and a better question is, way was I so scared ?
I was fully clothed so no problem there. I wasn’t a threat to anyone. How can you be a threat dressed in stilletos? They looked like nice couples just out for a evening walk like me. So I get a few comment thrown at me. I sure there are people that hear that all the time.
So what do I try next?
How do you complete a fashion look with pantyhose and stockings? As far as I am concerned, most women prefer black pantyhose while men wish to see them in nude pantyhose. Is that true or am I the only one who think so?
And would you like to go with pantyhose or leggings outfits? Why?
Hello, I've recently been "interested", let's say, in straightjacket bondage, and fantasising of a way to lock myself in one for selfbondage.
I wasn't however a fan of using anchor points to tighten the straps as I seen no way to tighten it securely while still being able to reliably get out.
And so this idea came to mind, which I built over a few days of trial and error and I want to share:
LEFT = original design - RIGHT= updated design.
Before we begin, orange indicates a strap in front of the body, while blue is a strap at the back, for clarity. letter "B" stands for a tightening buckle like the ones in backpack straps, and "RB" starnds for Release buckle, the kind you squeeze to open.
I call it "Straight-Harness" because it mimics the functionality of a straightjacket and relies on padlocks for securing and releasing yourself.
The body harness is made out of fabric straps (which I sourced from luggage straps for vehicles) with a waist loop, two crossed shoulder straps and two thigh loops. There are also auxilliary straps with rings for hog-tie purposes or securing yourself to a stationary object, use your imagination.
On the side is the arm piece (one per arm, the left one is shown with the silhouette of an arm for illustration): it has a palm loop, a wrist loop and a elbow loop . A strap with rings is placed against the underside of the arm, and keeps the three loops together.
The wrist loop has an adjustable buckle for tightening. The palm loop is not adjustablle and your hand should fit snugly through it, the loop should rest not over the fingers but over the knuckles on the palm. The point is, you should not be able to slide the four fingers out.
The main strap then continues on, loops around one of the L,R waist rings (they should be rather large D rings) on the body harness and then closes up on theupper side of the elbow loop. A release buckle allows you to unfasten the arm piece and only attach it when appropriate.
At the palm there is another ring that should be padlocked to the waist ring on the opposite side. The palm ring is right in the middle of the hand, as you should be able to manipulate a small padlock with your fingers to get in and out of bondage.
The elbow strap runs through one side loop and keeps the elbow against your body. The strap should be pre-tightened as much as possible while still being able to have the palm loop reach the other waist ring. When both arm pieces are in place, you padlock the palm rings to the waist rings, thus locking the hands at your sides.
The palm loop prevents you from lifting your hhand up and reaching the elbow strap buckle, making in nigh-on impossible to loosen the straps. I also put a strap to secure the palm loop to the wrist loop on the dorsal side of the hand, making it even harder to slide out of it.
I crafted an amateurish version of this idea from luggage straps, rings and buckles bought at the hardware store. I "sewed" the straps together wyth heavy-duty staples and duct tape to protect them and keep them in place. It sounds flimsy but it isn't, trust me.
UPDATE - Based on Ra's and Tinker D's suggestion I shortened the shoulder straps a little and raised the ring at the back where they depart from. Now it's much easier to fasten them at the sides and tighten them without any hazard to the neck area.
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Pictures of the original design:
Here are some screenshots taken from my latest session. The images are sadly poor quality but you should be able to see how it is meant to be worn and how the armpiece fits
And this is the harness in action, with latex and chastity. Fun times! 😁
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Here is a set of pics detailing how it works:
These show how I wear it. Basically one slides the feet into the thigh loops and pulls up, fastening the waist loop.
Then one pulls the back straps above the shoulders and fastens them too.
These straps link the waist loop to the thigh loops, they should be tightened to have the ring rest on your sides rather than on the crotch area.
Some close-ups of the waist loop, showing the side rings and the back assembly. The dangling strap with the large ring is not shown on the diagram and is an anchor point for hogties.
Now the armpiece, I'll show just one for clarity.
The long strap is threaded through one of the side rings and back out, and then fastened to the buckle, creating a loop.
Then one slides the arm into the loops and tightens the straps.
In particular the arm should slide through the aforementioned elbow loop, so that the strap goes over the elbow and pulls it towards the waist loop.
And this is the unserside of the armpiece.
Finally one reaches with the hand to the opposite side and padlocks the palm loop to the opposite waist ring
The elbow strap should be tightened as much as possible while still leaving you able to reach around your torso. IF the leftover elbow strap is long enough one may tighten them even after the harness is locked, but it's somewhat limited.
This is with the other armpiece strapped on
And this is the harness fully locked up.
It doesn't matter the order in which you lock you arms. However, I've found that it's a lot easier to secure the padlock if you lock the second wrist below the first one's elbow, instead of sliding your hand in the elbow itself.
As you can see in this picture, that way the elbow strap is tensioned upwards and it's out of the way of the padlock's shackle. Otherwise it's quite fiddly to try and "dodge" the elbow strap and lock the padlock on the bare ring.
Features and considerations:
Surprisingly easy to get into, and by far the most comfortable arm position I've ever tied myself in.
The system uses two different padlocks. You only need one arm free to loosen the buckles on the other armpiece, thus freeing the other arm. The system s therefore twice as safe as using a single padlock.
The main body loop is at the waist, therefore nothing squeezes the ribcage and breathing is unobstructed. The waist loop can thus be tightened without too much worry.
Having your arms bound crossed in this way makes it hard to roll face-down and obstruct your chest indirectly.
The elbow straps do not tighten around the inside or the underside of the elbow joint, therefore no nerves or blood vessels should be squeezed.
The shoulder straps rest on the clavicle just like backpack straps. If you use the back auxiliary ring to hogtie yourself, the weight is transferred on the shoulders and not the chest Obviously a tight hogtie will fatigue your shoulders just like a heavy backpack.
The crossed shoulder straps also cannot slide off your shoulders, but they could irritate your neck.
In the updated version I adjusted the straps so that they can be fastened without crossing. This eliminates the choking concern voiced by Ra and Tinker D. Now there is the possibility of the shoulder straps sliding off but with your arms bound at the front the shoulders are kingd of shrugged and this helps keep them in place.
The shoulder straps definitely need some padding though, I still need to figure out how to source/craft it.
It's not completely inescapable, as all the buckles have a little give, and with enough struggle I can just about reach the elbow strap buckle and loosen it a bit. This gives you more elbow mobility, which might be enough to loosen the armpieces and free your arms.
I will maybe post a full report on the completed session, but for now I hope my explanation was clear and not too messy. All in all I'm pleased with this idea, tell me what you think! 😎
It's been a while since I've done any sort of self-bondage - no real reason, I guess - just life getting in the way and keeping me busy.
That doesn't mean I haven't been thinking about new-to-me techniques, though. Kind of like my recently-purchased hinged handcuffs, I've been eyeballing some way to securely and safely tie myself into a standing position. A few weeks ago, I thought about straps that go over the top of a door and are trapped by the door, which I found on AliExpress.
I could go into more detail about the exact setup that I used for these, but a picture says a thousand words....so, a picture is attached (No action shots, only an afterthought photo before I took everything down.) The main differences between "real" use and this photo: I really DID have an ice lock between the rope ratchet and the spreader bar anchor, and I had my key to unlock my wrist cuffs tied to the middle of the "Y", so it was pulled down when I tightened everything, and was freed up when the ice released.
As for me, I took the philosophy of "I don't do this very often, I'm going to use pretty much everything I've got". I pulled on a pair of lacy panties, followed by a garter belt attached to a pair of black thigh-high stockings. For shoes, it was my old trusty 6-inch pumps with an ankle strap to make sure I couldn't kick them off. I snugged up an underbust corset (the "satin 830" option from that link). I laced on "the" hood from Ali Express. I used the blindfold for it, but not the stock gag - instead I buckled on a regular pink ballgag before pulling the hood on.
Almost ready - I had decided I'd ALSO buckle on the Ali Express (sensing a theme here??) posture collar. With my ankles cuffed to each end of the spreader bar, I put some clover clamps on my nipples, locked my wrists into the cuffs and buckled the blindfold on. I pulled the rope through the rope ratchet, and as it tightened I felt the bar pull up against my ankle cuffs as my arms were lifted up toward the top of the door.
I decided not to do a vibrator or anything of the sort this time, instead opting to JUST be tied up and see what kind of suffering I could create and endure.
As expected, the nipple clamps made themselves apparent almost immediately. My feet, not used to the heels, were surprisingly OK for a while. I think the combination of the spreader bar and the angle that I was able to "plant" the heels made this acceptable.
With nothing to do, and nothing to distract me, I got bored quickly. And, as most of us tend to do, I started to work to get out.
The door is about 7 feet tall; I'm 6 feet tall, so even though my hands were pulled up to almost the top of the door, I was able to reach down and remove the blindfold. The posture collar was next, and the hood (which I should have locked on) was after that. The ballgag was a piece of cake from there.
After that? Yeah, the rest of the setup appeared to be golden. My hands were too high to stretch down to the nipple clamps; the spreader bar was doing its job, and I was starting to struggle with the heels.
The WORST part of getting the blindfold off was that I could now see the clock. I had only made it 15 minutes, and now that I could see the clock, each minute seemed to take at LEAST two minutes, if not three. I'd look away from the digital clock, try to focus on something else...then look back to see that ONLY one minute had passed!
I spent the next 20 minutes like this, periodically looking down at my ice lock to see if the string was starting to free up yet (ice lock style: https://www.likera.com/sb/time/ice-padlock3.php). Finally, the nipple clamps got the best of me, and I wiggled and stretched and was JUST able to get ahold of one of the clamps to remove it. It hurt about 5 times as much coming off, but that pain subsided. I was able to stretch and get to the other clamp, and as I was getting it removed from my other nipple the string suddenly pulled free from the ice lock. Once the ice lock released, the slack let me get to the key and release my hands.
All in, I'd spent 45 minutes tied like that.
I collapsed onto the floor, heart pounding and legs shaking from standing. I rested for a minute, then decided a "reward" was in order. Challenging myself a bit more, I put the nipple clamps back on and gave myself that reward for what I'd just gone through.
This was the first self-bondage I've done in a LONG time that kept me tied until the ice released, and even though it wasn't perfect, it was certainly entertaining. I don't think I'm ready to do THIS one again right away, but I've got a bed spreadeagle in mind....
Next time for this one? No clover clamps (probably tweezers instead), and I'll put locks on the hood / collar / blindfold. The corset always feels awesome - I spent half of the day in it. Jury is still out on the heels next time - I tried to wear them for a bit today, and standing was impossible (I have a toe that doesn't like to bend backwards as much as heels like that require). Lower heels were OK, though....so maybe it's just THOSE old cheapies? We'll see.
Until next time (which may just be tonight...)
Finally: and bonus photo of the heels today. SITTING.
We all passed by. An image, a detail that paralyzes us causing us an impact impossible to describe. An anxiety and stress so great that we can only tolerate them through a first masturbation. And from then on we never let him go again.
Do you have a photo of those images with which you developed your fetishes?
I think my desire for the latex used in formal dresses started with two pictures of this lady. The way in which the folds are formed and the sensation of subtle and hidden eroticism made him irresistible. As if a nice person invited you to be part of their life and let the love for the latex extended to its formal intimacy, inviting you with a smile. That's how fantasy worked.
For years I keep the original photo in the same folder and gallery, and recently it occurred to me to retouch the photo to add the fetish for latex / leather masks and toilet seats. Today the image does not have the same effect, but at least it has been a beautiful starting point.
I like tights and swimsuits. Also various forms of female humiliation and school uniforms in my region. That's why at some point it occurred to me that I could form montages with images that combine all these things. I suppose it must be something quite common even though I rarely saw similar assemblies made by other people.
Some of these montages end up giving rise to silent stories. Instead of writing an erotic story on the side of a picture, what I do is imagine possibilities by the arranged images. It is so that fantasize with a femdom fond of subjecting boys to the humiliation of being forced to use diapers. In the same way, I think the same could be done with other suits and uniforms of erotic discipline.
Finally, Marylin Yusuf. I think many should know this model. She is usually very caught by a brand to wear elaborate formal uniforms. I think it is through these photos that I began to have desire to draw similar outfits with high collars, striking buttons and prominent cuffs to constrict adorable curves with severe discipline.
Anyway, these are some of my fetishes. They are not the oldest really but I think they are the ones that I could find in common with you.
Do you want to tell us about the origins of your passions, too?
