What do you think of orgasms?

[Like Ra]

What do you all think of orgasms? How often do you need orgasms? Do you need them at all?

As you can see the questions overlap and I specifically did not mention "nofap" to avoid getting into even more details, like "sex is OK, masturbation is not", etc.

Please propose other variants for the poll!

Related threads, posts:

Orgasm calendar and your "Last orgasm"

[Like Ra]

Poor guy

It depends 😉

What did you do?

Lots of things happened. In short, orgasm became not interesting, but rather energy draining, disappointing and distracting. Did you notice how you loose interest after ejaculation? I prefer an "extended" light arousal state instead.

Are you wearing chastity device?

No 😉 Various practices (yoga and qigong are among them) are very effective, I must say.

It's an experiment anyway, not "the recipe" that "fits all". A series of posts is in the planning phase 😉

[krinlyc]

may be I am bit nosy - but does your wife live in chastity too?

[Like Ra]

does your wife live in chastity too?

Not quite 😉 Orgasms for her are more important, than for me. A sort of a logical ending. I prefer to keep the state of arousal 😉

[Like Ra]

Here's a new poll!

[Culmor]

Isn't it all a bit simplistic? My views on orgasms have changed enormously over the past couple of years though whether this is chiefly due to lock-downs or my ageing I really can't say...
I feel the need to orgasm much less but when I do cum it's a lot more intense. The fetish aspect of my costumes is still there and I love it immensely  but it's more of a long-term edging thing.

[Like Ra]

Isn't it all a bit simplistic?

Please feel free to make it as complex as possible. The poll is just something to start the discussion with 😊

My views on orgasms have changed enormously over

Exactly.

I feel the need to orgasm much less

Same. I actually prefer to avoid orgasms. Some random thoughts here:

- Orgasm for the sake of orgasm is not interesting. Rather boring. Just a dopamine rush followed by a dopamine dip with all the consequences.

- Constant arousal, associated erection, and inability to release yourself sounds like more fun. Usually orgasms break meditation, trances, concentration states.

- Orgasms can be used to move energy where you want/need (think of yoga/qigong).

- Orgasm as a reward (like a typical dopamine effect) is good for conditioning.

Otherwise, unless used wisely (not just for 2-3 seconds of fun), I think of orgasms as of a waste of vital energy, especially if you concentrate on anything "random" (e.g. pron) and not your own body, or your goal.

[Culmor]

Not the sort of thing I thought I'd like at all but Princess Lexie's timings here were perfect for me. I just about lost it and was almost screaming at her by the end.

Source: https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?v...9508111961


This is why I don't do hypnosis.

[Like Ra]

was almost screaming at her by the end.

It's clearly titled "Edging Instruction" 😁

This is why I don't do hypnosis.

😁 I like one comment under an ASMR video - "It's amazing how much trust we have in ASMR artists - they can scream at any time" 😁

[essanym]

If I go too long without having an orgasm, I reach a point where all I can think of is needing to cum. It steals my focus from other parts of my life and makes me less able to do the things I really need to do. I hardly ever have orgasms, but when I do, it's almost for the same reason that I would get up to go pee. If my bladder is full, I can't think about anything but a full bladder. Orgasm is also something like that for me. During those times when I find myself needing to orgasm, it turns in to a big setup with all the bondage, latex and whatever else I need. After that it's over with for another few weeks until the next time. My wife also insists I have orgasms for prostate health. I can't argue with her, she's at least been to college for some medical training. My grandfather had his prostate removed when I was a kid, cancer I think so I don't want to take any chances of the same risk. If orgasms can keep that away, then *sigh*, I guess I'll do it.