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male vs female
#1
Being male, there are a few things I can and can not do. And, being part female, there are things I also can not do or get.
And this is why.
I love men.
I love a nice hard cock, hairy chest, and his warm soft mouth sucking and biting my breast and nipples. I want him inside me, thrusting his cock deep inside me. But I'm a male, so that pretty much not going to happen as that I have no warm soft opening for him to bury his cock into, and as a male, I will not be able to feel his warm cum filling my tubs giving me the same orgasum  that only a women can get.
I love women.
I love their soft skin. I love  their long hair and the fact that can wear almost everything and look great. And I love that little opening that I can plant my cock into.

 BUT I'm a male that has, and I do, have a waist, breasts that are a size B and soon to be a C, and very little body hair, I still have a third led and the outward looks of a male. I'm ok with this. I love my boobs, legs and long hair ( anyone can grow long hair ).
Am I gay? No, I don't think so. Do I have female traits? yes, I do. You can put your arms around my waist and I won't be able to get away. You can hit me with a water bomb and if I'm wearing a white tee shirt, you will be able to see my Boobs in all it's glory. I've been this way for years.
So, I have both men and women features. And that's why I call this Thread men vs female.

The female is a receiver. a female can have a man almost anytime. a male can have a woman only once. Then, he's done for the most part.

now, when a male cums, his body pulses about 5 or 6 times. Then it can take hours or a full day before he cums again.
when a female cums, she pulses once or twice. Then, the female can build up again and cum again.

Women can get turned on by almost anything and keep it a secret.
Men can get turned on, and it shows. Some shows more than others.

Where am I going with this? I don't know. Its just some nonsenses than I'm been thinking of.

But that's about all I have for now. Maybe I'll add some more later.
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#2
Another thought provoking post - thanks @Tinker_D 

Whilst I may not agree with everything, I do understand the overall emotion. I'm sure I've posted along the same lines some time ago.


I recall that I wrote about my envy of many of the attributes of being 'female' (choice of clothing, multiple orgasms, multiple erogenous zones and 'entry points') and how for these things I wished I could become female.

But I also recognised the downsides to being a woman (periods! sexism and more) and concluded that if there was a choice of becoming permanently female then I would stay male. And as my general sexual orientation is towards women even if I could change sex I'd probably be a lesbian!

Interestingly (and maybe not a coincidence) the ongoing postings about my Home Alone self-bondage adventures include my most adventurous attempts at achieving a more feminine look.

MJ
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#3
Thanks MJ.
I do have these thoughts that I need to post every once in a while.

I have a lot more to say, more on male vs female and I'm not talking about wars or anything like that. I guess it's more on the lines of who I really am and what I want but what I can or can not have and get.

Now this might sound a bit messed up, but it's not. I truly do have a female side that gets exposed from time to time.

I have a good buddy of mine, we both like the same thing, we both camp, we both have hobbies we like and every once in a while, we get smashed on Vodka, Gin or what we have in the fridge. This is one of those times.
My buddy called. He's bored. He wants me to come down to his place for drinks. And bring some potato salid and some cheese cake.
On this time, when he called, I was wearing shorts over pantyhose and a black bra under a fitted tee. So I was dressed, but looking nothing like a female or a cross dresser. So I told him that I'll need to change before I'll come over.
Ok, I know he has been drinking, cause he said, just come on over as you are. I would like to see what your wearing. So I did.

Well, if he has already started his trip, I think I'll start my trip.
A set of flats, coffee hoes, better fitting shorts and a cap sleeve white top.
Set my hair an added a pair of ear rings.
No lipstick or makeup.
Loaded up and went over to his house.

The second I walked through his door, he said " Wow, you look great". Yea, right. It's because it's the stuff I'm wearing that is turning you on.

I'm still a male, but I'm in a different package. And I look hot?
I don't think so. But he does. And he is not gay. Just a bit drunk and a need to catch up.

Wait till you hear what happens next....
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#4
Now, I've known this guy for 20+ years. He is in his early 70s and still active.
I'm in my early 60s so there is nothing there.

So, to continue, I put the potato salid and cheese cake in the frige and fixed me a Gin and Tonic, and sat on the couch in front of his tv. Now when we drink, we talk about anything and everything from a Tv show about a man and a woman, both nude, surviving in the wild eating bugs and rats while getting eaten by hungry bugs.
Tonite, it's track and field. He is a runner, cross country. So am I. We both ran cross country in track. So I said, "Wow, you have a great set of legs". Well that's because he ran track.
Any way, you have to remember that we were drinking that nite.
So he stood up and showed me his legs. And that when I saw the tip of his cock. Again, I am a male, not gay, But the female in me would love to see more and I wonder what that would feel like sliding into my pussy (if I had one). And like most females, I wonder, is he a good kisser? Is he good in bed? Does he find me attractive? Am I ok? Is my hair ok? Oh god....
That is the female inside me busting out. Or is it the Gin? Who knows.
But the evening went toward the TV show Naked and afraid. But he was turned on by my outfit and my legs.
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#5
What do you think if we move all related posts and merge threads into this one https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/showth...p?tid=1483

The conversations are getting much more interesting now. Let's keep them together.
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#6
But my thread is more male vs female than being a TG, TS or a CD.
And this is something we find more interesting. It's all about what we called packaging. You can take anything and make it something just by changing the package.
I am not a CD, even thow I find them interesting, I'm also not a TG or a TS.
I'm me. A male with feelings and trats of a female. And this thread is pretty much me and the fact or fiction of what I am.
I don't dress because of sex or trying to impress anyone or anything.
It's not fiction.
But if you want to mirg this to another thread, please keep this in mind.
Male vs female is not about TG, TS, CD or anything else. It's about feelings and how one deals with it.
I thought his legs were sexy. That is the female inside me. I like going over to his place for drinks, baseball games and TV. That's the male side of me. Sometimes the two come together and things happen.
That's what this thread is all about.
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#7
(23 Jun 2018, 00:56 )Tinker D Wrote: But my thread is more male vs female.
That's exactly what that thread is about. Male on one side, female on the other, everything else in between, and how we feel and define ourselves. I created that thread to figure out what the scale looks like and where I sit on it.

I would also move MJ's post about breasts (https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/Thread...5#pid30035)
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#8
Well, I see this different.
When you move my thread to the crossdressing thread, then the male vs female gets labeled as a CD, TG, TS or something like that.
I Have been labeled a CD and a TS. But I'm not anyone of them.
I have thought long and hard about this and did a lot of research. I know that there are a lot of guys and girls going through this and I know a number of gals that wonder what's it like having a cock that they can't control and wonders what does it feel like if they orgasum as or like a male.
That is male vs female. Not CD, TS, TG.
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#9
Yes, I see what you mean. The power and the weakness of labels Wink "THAT" thread is actually about the variety of sexes and genders, some of which are "labelled" as TV, TS, man, woman, etc. The scale is more analogue, than discrete. And, to be more precise, it's not one-dimensional. Anyway, let's keep this one separate for a while.

(23 Jun 2018, 02:56 )Tinker D Wrote: I Have been labeled a CD and a TS. But I'm not anyone of them.
I have thought long and hard about this and did a lot of research. I know that there are a lot of guys and girls going through this.
Yes, the purpose of that thread exactly Wink I think I have to rename it somehow, to make it less meme-centered.

(23 Jun 2018, 02:56 )Tinker D Wrote: That is male vs female. Not CD, TS, TG.
However, as far as I understand, you do not describe yourself as 100% strictly male or 100% female, do you? So it's something in between? And we do not talk about strictly sexes, but more about genders, right?

1D dichotomies are intended to decrease the dimensionality and simplify things. But "reducing" "the picture" by 1D (for example, by going from 3D to 2D) might create infinite amount of projections. Sex/gender/self-identification space is clearly not uni-dimensional and far from binary. Some of the intersected areas in this nD space are labeled CD, TV, etc.

So, it's not pure male vs female. Or you have to define "male" and "female" without any "grey areas" in between.
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#10
(23 Jun 2018, 13:55 )Like Ra Wrote:
(23 Jun 2018, 02:56 )Tinker D Wrote: I Have been labeled a CD and a TS. But I'm not anyone of them.
I have thought long and hard about this and did a lot of research. I know that there are a lot of guys and girls going through this.
Yes, the purpose of that thread exactly Wink I think I have to rename it somehow, to make it less meme-centered.

From the perspective of someone who is a trans woman, I think the best thing you could do to really meet that goal is to create a "Gender Identity" forum under the General section.  As it stands right now, lumping  "All things CD/Xplay/TV/TS/TG/Drag" together, and nesting them under "Fetish" could easily be considered offensive to someone that struggles with their gender identity.  There is a huge difference between wanting to kill yourself because your body doesn't match your identity and wanting to dress up as a different sex because it turns you on.
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