Pantyhose & stockings    9 Replies

i mite be gay

but when i see a bbw woman in pantyhose. i think hmm it would be nice if she sits on my face.

http://www.sunporno.com/videos/334169/

All things CD/Xplay/TV/TS/TG/Drag/Sissies/femboys    36 Replies

Here's some interesting advice on crossplay from the main western cosplay forum. I think you can take it that the advice for male crossplayers to 'use a pantiliner ... for those of you who get a bit... aroused and "leaking"...it keeps things a bit drier and makes for easier cleanup' means there's a major fetish element here...

Quote:Well, here's one issue that comes up a lot. How a guy can hide things 'down there'. There have been links to a few different ways to do it, but I'm not partial to any of those methods myself. So, I'll try and explain things for those who want to know.

Warning: I'm going to be blunt and a bit graphic, so if you don't wanna read it, stop now. I can't really explain and be delicate about it, though. Fair warning has been given.

Well... first suggestion is to shave as much hair as possible from around the sac. It's a good idea to at least trim all the hair above it too. If the hair is too long, it can poke through panties, and that's not a good look. Less hair also makes it less painful if you decide to use tape.

The hardest part about everything, though, is the actual 'tuck'. Your testicles came down when you went through puberty. The goal is to try and put them back up there. Lay down on your back, and gently push them into your body and up. You'll need to spend a lot of time prodding and trying to find where they go, but once you do, they'll sort of 'pop in'. Don't force this. It shouldn't hurt too much. When you're laying back, they should stay in fairly well.

Once you get the hang of that, there are a few ways to keep everything in. My preffered method is to pull all of the loose skin from the sac towards my rear, and try and stretch it so there's no slack. That way there's no space for the testicles to pop into.
A firm control panty or girdle can do the job, if you just do that and push your penis back. For skimpier stuff, though, and when you can't wear something that bulky, tape works and can be worn with really skimpy bikini panties, etc.

You can then pull tape from your front, across the sac, and tight to your cheeks. Use clear medical tape with some stretch. You want the stretch. Trust me. And it needs to hold well, since this tape will get pulled at a lot. You can even use the bathroom with this setup, you'll just have to sit down. Your penis will be pulled downwards a bit if you get aroused, though, so no fun in the hotel room with the tape still on. Not something I'd do anyways. Then just tuck your penis back between your legs, and pull on a tight-fitting pair of panties. I used to try really stretchy panties thinking they'd hold stuff in better. Silly me. It's better to get something non-stretchy, and everything should stay in place fine. You can use tape if you like too, just kind of wrap it around the shaft and pull it back towards the cheeks too. Try and keep tape off the head, and only put the tape on when you're soft, or it won't hold. You can sit down and use the bathroom like this too, but you'll have to wipe off.

Well, whatever you need to do, getting the balls out of the way is the most difficult part at first. After that, you can use this method, or a few other ones to tape with. Once you get the hang of it, it's easy to do, and comfortable for long periods of time.

I also figured out another way that works pretty well. Just use a pantiliner (the really thin ones with wings) in whatever panties you wear, and it helps smooth things out and keep things in better. They're not that expensive, and... well... for those of you who get a bit... aroused and "leaking" (I shouldn't need to explain that one, but it can be either from what you're wearing or whatever sort of attention you're getting), it keeps things a bit drier and makes for easier cleanup.

I told you it would be graphic, but it's the best way to explain everything... any questions or comments? 😋

MadJack's Self-Bondage Adventures    3 Replies

Some forum regulars will recall that certain images inspire my self-bondage sessions, they can either be true self-bondage, or just a general bondage scene that looks like it could be converted to a self-bondage one. The following describes the first part of a double session where I attempted to see if I could reproduce a self-bondage scene from such an image

Equipment:
20den control top pantyhose
Black Zentai suit
cock butt plug
High-heeled ankle boots
Rope
head harness gag and ring gag

The session:
This session was all about trying to recreate some of my most inspirational images, the ones I sometimes use to really get me going for a self-bondage session. I had no intention of doing any proper self-bondage, forcing an HFO or anything else like that – just wanted to see how close to the scene in the image I could get.

Zentai on a stool

   

The first image is a classic Zentai and white rope one (I think from Devonshire Productions, but stand to be corrected). So obviously I would wear my own Zentai suit, but I couldn’t resist slipping in a butt-plug first, followed by an old pair of control top pantyhose to keep everything in place.
       
The tricky thing here was to get the ropes right – so difficult when tying yourself up and not being tied by someone who can see what they’re doing and also can move around their ‘victim’.
       
It’s not the most strenuous tie I’ve ever endured, but finding something low enough to reproduce the pose (actually an old ice-bucket!) did add a certain something to the position.
    or    
I couldn’t quite get the body ropes right (a lack of breast didn’t help) and my head harness was anywhere near as good as the one in the original image, but I think I came very close – don’t you?

Jiga photo manipulation
   
Now, Jiga’s work is a big favourite of mine – I love the way he/she takes an already good bandage scene and then encases the delightful damsel in black sheer nylon. They are an EOTD for me every time.

I don’t have black sheer tights in my collection (you wouldn’t like my hairy legs) but I thought the Zentai suit would be ideal as an alternative… and as I was already wearing it from the first shoot why wouldn’t I carry on? Another challenge was the white knickers – should I be as true to the image as possible or not? I opted for the ‘true to life’ approach and raided my girlfriend’s underwear drawer (for the first time in years – I’d stopped ‘borrowing’ and simply brought my own, it is a lot less risky and easier than trying to explain laddered tights or stretched lingerie).
Everything was set and off I went, I even found a way to replicate the chest rope to the ceiling (quite please about that – must note for future re-use)

I couldn’t quite get the angle I wanted for the video and as I was actually doing this between conference calls everything was slightly rushed (yes – I did chair a call clad a Zentai suit, high-heels pantyhose and with a butt-pug up my ass… obviously without the gag… duh!).
       
First realisation was that there would be no way I could spread my legs as wide as the model did (I guess if you’re female or a male who regularly does yoga this would be achievable), so that was a compromise.
           

    - couldn't resist sharing this one! I was checking the video was still on 😁

Next I couldn’t get the chest ropes to work properly without breasts (again!), but this time I tried stuffing multiple pairs of pantyhose in the appropriate spots and sort of got the look I wanted (still flat chested compared to the lady in the photo!)
       

I did have a moment of near panic when I was testing the wrist ropes and discovered a new way to place myself in real bondage without any hope of escape. Fortunately I was sensible and had tried one wrist first, only to find it was impossible to undo a very simple loop with one hand. A close call if I’d charged ahead and tied both wrists apart with that method!
           
Again, with the obvious exception of spreading my legs, I think I got quite close to the original and am pleased with the results.
    or this one    

What went well?
Pretty much everything – I achieved what I’d set out to do and, I think, got very close the poses I wanted to copy

Discovered a new wrist bondage method – Ok, so I did come close to making a stupid, stupid mistake, but because I always test out my plans I avoided a potentially painful/embarrassing/fatal situation. However I did discover a new and very effective way to tie my wrists in a spread-eagle type scenario. I will be testing this further and figuring out a reliable release method – there are still a couple of safety issue I need to check out. I will post my findings.

What could be improved?
More images to work from – sounds like an easy thing doesn’t it? I’ve got 100’s if not 1000’s of superb bondage images and there are probably millions more on the web, but not all of them are right for self-bondage. Remember, what I’m trying to do is recreate the image in a self-bondage session – ultra-tight hogties with elbows touching and ankles up to the neck are super-erotic but practically impossible for a self-bondager to achieve. So any images you think might work, please feel free to post and I might (just might) try them out

Breasts – Tits, boobs, bazoomers, cans, etc., etc – whatever you call them I haven’t got any! This does make some of the bondage I love to see very difficult to translate from a female body (the model in the photo) to a male (me in the real world).
This immediately raises a few questions all of its own: Why do I want breasts? Do I want to be a woman? Do I want to feel like a woman? Do I want to know what it is like to feel like a woman? And on, and on, and on…
I can quickly answer some of these: Do I want to be a woman? No – I’m very happy as a man. Do I want to feel like a woman? Not especially – I like dressing in clothing that is stereotyped as female, and I only do that for sexual pleasure. Do I want to know what it feels like to be a woman? Ah, now that’s where it gets interesting; I really would love to experience the feelings my girlfriend describes she has when we’re making love. I’m very jealous of all those ‘extra’ areas a woman can be stimulated in/by/with. So I guess the answer is ‘yes’ but only if I could step in/out of it as I wish. And I guess I’d also be a lesbian when I was ‘in’ because I simply don’t find men sexy. (This leads onto all the areas like Femskin – which is a topic on its own)
So what can I do? The first and maybe most obvious choice is to do what I did – stuff a few handfuls of material (socks, tissues, tights, scarves, etc) down your top and way you go. OK, it works, sort of. But it is unsatisfactory to me and I’m thinking about what else I could try. Artificial breasts, decent ones, are expensive and way too sophisticated for what I need. So what else is there I could try that will give me the right shape to fulfil my desire to do proper bondage over my upper body - any suggestions?

Turn one of these into a real session – Of either pose I think I would only consider the ‘Jiga’ one as a suitable for a proper session with timed release. I’ve moved it onto my ‘to-do’ list


Once again I hope you enjoy the re-telling and photos of my session as much as I enjoyed doing it.
Play safe

MJ

MadJack's Self-Bondage Adventures    16 Replies

After my first ‘home-alone’ session my desire for some ‘proper’ inescapable self-bondage was heightened and I just had to break-out the ice-cubes and rope ratchet

Equipment:
70den closed crotch nylon long sleeved bodysuit with sheath
3 pairs 20den tan tights
12 knee-highs
purple butt plug
High-heeled ankle boots
Black Lycra body
Rope
Chains
Rope ratchet
Ice-cubes and detergent bag
ball gag
Blindfold
Condom
Home-made cock vibrator
Digital timer

The session:

As posted elsewhere my new butt-plugs had arrived with the morning post and being the pervert that I am I’d spent nearly all of the day with the cock shaped one in my ass and wearing tights. This all meant that by the evening I was very aroused and desperate for a good session.
My plan was to bind myself, encased in pantyhose and wearing both my ankle boots and Lycra dress, in a comfortable position on the bed. I would of course be plugged and I wanted to add in the cock vibrator again. I would use an ice-cube release combined with a rope ratchet to ensure I stayed inescapably bound for some time.

    - ready for the session

First in was my new purple butt-plug, which though not much bigger than others I’ve ‘worn’ somehow feels very different inside me (in a good way) and seems to fill me more completely... which is nice. Next was a condom over my very erect cock, followed by my nylon bodysuit.
The cock vibrator was now secured in place suing the same method I described here. I followed that with 3 pairs (yes I am a pervert!) of tan tights I’d had for ages and never worn. Now I love the smell of new tights, it’s so evocative of adventures in my past (pause for the author to have flashbacks and an instant erection) Over all that I pulled on my old faithful black body and the new dress, finishing off with my high-heeled boots. I was now ready to begin the bondage.

The set-up on the bed involved using 2 chains (dog leads brought very cheaply years ago) fixed to the head-board, one to the foot-board and the 4th halfway down one side (see photo). I’d pre-prepared loops of rope for my chest and wrists, plus the all-important rope ratchet and ice-cube release.

    - ratchet and release

The ratchet and release set-up is quite simple, but very effective. I secure a small metal ring to a solid point (in this case the bottom of a book-shelf). Next I tie a small laundry bag (actually intended to use in washing machines to hold the powder tablets – but I’m sure a stocking/knee-high would work just as well) to the rope ratchet. The bag is passed through the metal ring and then the ice-cubes added (I used a single cube which at ~20C kept me helpless for nearly 30mins). The bag now can’t be pulled back through the ring until the ice has melted and acts as a very strong tether point for the ratchet. Also in the picture is the insulated mug I keep my ice in, the towel to protect the floor from any water and my cock vibrator (the pink thing). One more point is that although the set-up appears to have some weak-points I’ve never yet managed to break it, despite some very enthusiastic tugging.

With all my chains, ropes, cameras and such set-up I was ready to begin my bondage. As in my last session I used knee-highs and a ball to gag myself and encase my head – I also added ear-plugs to bring the extra sensory deprivation that I enjoy. Already my vision was blurred by multiple nylon layers, my hearing muted, my breathing restricted and my voice limited to grunts.
My legs where quickly secured with rope, using multiple wraps around booted feet, ankles, and below my knees, all cinched tightly.

        - legs bound and gagged

A simple harness (not a full karada) around my waist and shoulders meant I could add in a semi-hogtie to pull my bound ankles backwards and towards my waist.

            - hog-tied and chained

I used the chains the secure myself on the bed, one to my knee rope, another to my ankles and third to my waist rope. These chains worked effectively to restrict my movements on the bed. I made sure that my cock vibrator was plugged into the timer and noted (I could just about see though multiple layers of nylon) that I had 10minutes before the first cycle would begin.

Next I struggled into the rope coils for my chest, trapping my arms to my body and adding in the final chain to further limit my freedom. Now I was approaching the final phase of my set-up. Firstly I encased my hands and arms in knee-highs (leaving only a small area around my neck uncovered – will need to address that sometime soon! I crave full encasement) and then the ultimate stage.

        - chest coils

I slipped my wrists into the pre-prepared coils, with a looped cinch already in place. Then, by pulling on the ratchet rope I slowly tightened up my wrist bondage.

                    - wrists

Even with the ear plugs in I could still hear the ‘click, click, click’ of the ratchet, initially nothing seemed to change but quickly my wrists began to be pulled together and then towards the secured ratchet. Each tug on the rope ratchet resulted in my helplessness increasing, alongside my arousal. Even when it pulled tight I couldn’t resist several more desperate tugs to try and make it just that little bit tighter. The rope cinching my wrists was trying to pull them away from my body, but the chest ropes prevented that and the chains stopped my whole body from moving forwards.

                - helpless at last

Finally I was well and truly helpless and stuck until the ice melted – oh what happy bliss, what erotic overload, what ecstasy of helplessness!

There is something special about that first moment of helplessness that never leaves me – I’m stuck, I can’t get free, I have to remain as I am until freedom is given to me (ok, in this case by the melting ice, but that’s not really the point!). As always I spent the first few minutes just revelling in my helplessness before, again as always, starting to test my bondage for weakness and an escape. Finding none, maybe wanting none, I relaxed again and started to fantasise.

Now, my fantasies when I’m in self-bondage always start off nice and simple (not vanilla, but nothing too strong) so I was pleasantly enjoying a moment of imagination when the first vibrator cycle began. My initial reaction was surprise, which probably explains why when the cycle stopped 1min later I was simply highly aroused.
My arousal however started to fuel my fantasies and so the second cycle was much more challenging and caused me to ‘air-fuck’ (I can’t think of a better phrase to describe thrusting my hips and cock back and forth against nothing) frantically with no success and left me in a desperately frustrated state when the cycle ended.
Now I was on a full-blown ‘sub trip’ – I was imagining some of my deepest and darkest desires, lost in a world of my own. Creating scenes in my mind of delightful depravity and causing my encased and bound cock to become achingly erect.
When the third cycle cut in I guess it was inevitable that I would have an explosive orgasm as the vibrations stimulated my trapped cock. I was shocked when I watched the video back at how noisily I came – thankfully the gag did muffle me a bit!

    - the moment of orgasm!

And so my session was almost complete, I suffered, if that is the right word, another two cycles before I felt the ratchet suddenly loosened and I was on the road to freedom. It did require nearly 10 more minutes to disentangle myself from the bed and 2 more cycles of the vibrator before I was able to free myself enough to unplug the tormenting device.

What went well?
The vibrator again – there is nothing quite like an HFO when you’re helplessly bound, especially if you get some serious teasing/frustration first. The noise I made (I promise to find the time to share the video) amazed even me and just showed how much I needed to cum at that point.

The rope ratchet – such a simple thing but so much better than the SRD I used to use. It has proved reliable and simple to use, with none of the problems I had with an SRD, so is now my first choice for self-bondage sessions. There is also something about the noise it makes as you pull the rope through (that ‘click, click, click’) that adds a special thrill to my sessions. I know that each click takes me that much closer to helplessness ( the SRD was silent in use). And it is such a positive mechanism, once you have progressed a click there is no going back at all, no slight slippage or anything (I guess it is like handcuffs or locks clicking in that respect).

The chains – I’m not a great fan of chains, but in this session they worked well. Unlike ropes there is no flex or stretch and that was exactly what I wanted and got.


What could be improved?
The wrist bondage – looking back at the video it was all a bit untidy and appeared loose. I suspect I could have freed myself had I really wanted to and that is a bit of a disappointment. I need to work on an improved method that is:
A) still easy to apply with encased hands
B) looks more aesthetically pleasing
C) hold my wrists more tightly
and
D) is still comfortable and safe for long duration sessions.

Surely that is going to be a simple enough challenge?

Full encasement – that bare neck really annoyed me when looked back through the video. I could and should have been more thoughtful in my encasement and I will work on a solution that satisfies my desires. The challenge will be to allow my hands to remain uncovered right up until the last moment and also not restrict my vision too much ( I need to see what I’m doing for most of the set-up).

Chest ropes – They did work, but not as well as I’d wanted. In my sessions there is always a trade-off between being able to finish off my bondage and binding my chest and upper arms effectively. My legs are not a problem – I can tie those as tight as I wish, but still wriggle and move around to get into position. It is when I bind my upper body that things get more troublesome. If anyone has ideas or suggestions please feel free to share (videos or photos are even better if you have any) – so what I’m seeking is a simple, but effective way to bind my arms above the elbows, tight to my body (I think – maybe that’s where I’m going wrong?) but still have enough freedom to complete my bondage in session like this one. Oh, and of course, the method needs to be safe and comfortable for anywhere between 30mins and 2hours, plus it must be secure enough to withstand my thrashing around and also easy to remove when I need to be free… simples eh? 🤔

As always I hope you enjoy the re-telling and photos of my session as much as I enjoyed doing it.

Play safe

MJ

High heels, shoes, boots    27 Replies

I love panties hose and Stilettos. Lately I've had the opportunity to wear them all day for several days in a row. I've tried taking my evening exercise "health" walk but find that I just can't make the 3-4 mile walk. So the question is:

What is the furthest you have walked before giving in and taking them off ?

DressBindFun

Introduce yourself    4 Replies

Thought I would introduce myself, I've actually been a lurker here for a while. This is a very, very long post, so bear with me.

I've been interested in BDSM since a very early age. I realized it actually before I really hit puberty, I used to roll myself up in my bedding and love the feeling.

Since then I've developed a strong list of kinks and fetishes...I'll give a list later! My true desires lay with being in a D/s relationship, and I consider myself a switch in that regard. But, being so young, that obviously wasn't realistic. As I grew more interested, I began to practice self play and bondage. I honestly can't remember how many sessions I completed, but it all started off very "innocent". A little hand binding here, and just exploding from that into elaboration.

I have to admit, at the time I wasn't entirely comfortable with my desires...society tends to tell us that men aren't supposed to ever be submissive or helpless. I felt like I was doing something wrong or that I was abnormal. But why did it feel so good to be restrained and in peril? The answer eluded me for some time. Nonetheless, I continued my adventures.

I'm young enough to have grown up with the internet (though, at the beginning, completely rudimentary compared to today) and I found pornography one way or another. I was actually adverse to searching for what I actually wanted (fetish material), but curiosity bound the cat. I started off with bondage porn focused on women submitting/being restrained, but I kept looking at the images and just "wishing that was me". Which brings us to the next bit.

Please forgive me in advance, I'm not completely aware about what the proper and respectful terms are for everything, so feel free to let me know!

When I was wishing I was subject to these ladies' predicaments, I often imagined myself "feminized". When I was still young I tried on some of my mother's stockings and high heels. I loved the way it looked and felt, but I was once again at odds with my socialized ideas. I've never really dressed up completely, but I'd like to at least try in the future. I guess it made me question my sexuality, because in my naivety I though that "if I want to be tied up in a corset, garter belt/stockings/other various hosiery, and high heels, I must be...gay?" It made me so confused, because I was only attracted to women. Obviously as I got older and learned more, I came to find that it's all a spectrum, you can like certain things and not necessarily be labeled as X, Y, or Z. I'm still not sure if cross-dressing will become a thing for me. I feel like it's really hard for men to feel 'sexy', and these things make me feel sexy. I'd love to hear some more seasoned stories about how you came into all of this (or point me in the direction where I can read up on it!)

Anyhow, self bondage became a thing to do when I was home alone (lucky enough to be an only child haha). I tied myself up on the floor, to chairs, to poles, suspended myself by my feet, all sorts of things. Because of the limitations of being a kid, I resorted mainly to restriction via things like nylons, cling wrap, and tape. I sort of developed a larger fetish for the stuff, and I always like to incorporate it somehow. The thing is, most of my scenarios were "staged" in the sense that I could release myself somehow...seemingly easy compared to the riggings I've seen here. So I would prepare everything, struggle a bit, release one hand to get myself off, and then just start getting myself out. There was a glimpse of the true feeling of being virtually helpless, but I could never really feel that way out of fear of using release methods. I just couldn't risk being "found." I had a few far-too-close calls.

After I went to college, I pretty much stopped all self bondage activities. Living in a suite with other people just isn't conducive to the practice! But I'm finished with that now, and find the urge to get back into it. I honestly don't remember how I found this forum, but when I did I was excited (in more ways than one 😁). It's just everything I liked, and it made me feel not as alone. I'm pumped to continue my journey and learn from you guys.

I've been planning a session for the past couple weeks, and I think I'm going to execute it tomorrow. I'm a little rusty, so I hope it turns out like I want. I've been testing release methods and feel confident now. I'm hoping I can get some footage of it for you all, and start an online journal of my sessions!

Even MORE about myself:

Age: 24
Location: USA

Kinks include but not limited to:
Bondage (Rope, Tape, Wrap, Chains, Devices) - Encasement (Tape/Wrap, Casting) - Mummification - Sensory Deprivation - Materials (Latex, Rubber, Spandex, Leather, Nylons) - Chastity - Gags (Ball gags, Ring gags, Tape/Nylon) - Impact Play (Whips, Crops, Canes, Paddles) - CBT (Binding, Weights, Pegs, Wax) - Electroplay (TENS Unit, Prods, Wands) - Anal Play (Plugs, Dildos, Enemas)

So...pretty much everything under the sun.

Goals:

Ropework - Become more skilled at knots, ties, etc.
Anal Play - I've never owned any toys, but I want to start training myself to make it routine/easier. I had the most intense orgasm of my life from anal stimulation (gloved finger, hit the prostate and went to the moon), and I'd like to feel that again. I plan on purchasing a set of plugs and slowly moving up in size and duration, and a standard dildo to practice with.
Longterm Sensory Depriv. - I'd like to eventually explore this more thoroughly, but I think I may need assured fail-safe (luckily I have a like-minded friend who is also a nurse). I'd like to be completely immobilized with nylons and a couple layers of tape, with various teases and torments underneath. An electrostim unit giving random pulses of varying intensity to different areas of the body, similar vibrators on erogenous areas at random, and a fully plugged ass. Along with proper noise cancellation and blindness, I would need to be catheterized, temperature controlled, and probably have an IV drip to be safe. I'm not sure if it's realistic, but I'd like to possibly for go for 24 to 48 hours. I want to get lost in myself and see where my mind goes. This is obviously extremely advanced, dangerous, and would only do so if I had proper medical monitoring. One can dream, yeah?

Whew, that was all long-winded. I have more questions, but maybe I'll wait to find the proper areas to ask. I'd like to invite any comments or questions. Thank you for taking the time to read everything, I'm looking forward to becoming part of this community!

High heels, shoes, boots    41 Replies

The new picture thread with men who wear heels

MadJack's Self-Bondage Adventures    1 Replies

At long last I had some proper time ‘home alone’ and my immediate desire was to try a simple session that would get me back into the ‘self-bondage’ zone. Indeed I was so eager to get a session underway that I couldn’t be bothered to set up a video camera, so there are limited photos with this posting... sorry.😟

Equipment:
70den closed crotch nylon long sleeved bodysuit with sheath
40den tights
12 knee-highs
Butt plug
High-heeled ankle boots
Black Lycra body
Rope
Clover nipple clamps
Ring gag
Blindfold
Condom
Home-made cock vibrator
Digital timer

The session:
I decided to make this a ‘stay still or suffer’ predicament style session, using my clover nipple clamps as the ‘suffer’ element (if you aren’t familiar with these, they bite harder the more you pull against them) and a balanced position to challenge me to stay still. To add some more ‘spice’ to my session I added in my home-made ‘cock vibrator’ on a timer.

First order of the day was to get a plug in my ass, my new toys hadn’t yet arrived so my old faithful plug was lubricated and surprisingly easily pushed in. Next came some cock and ball bondage (if you don’t want to look I’ve hidden the photos behind the ‘spoiler’ tab) – this is something I do when I’m in an especially ‘sub’ mood and am looking for an extra dimension to my self-bondage (the nipple clamps are another give-away of my mood)

Previous experiments and experience meant I had a good idea of what to do, so using a long length (1.5m) of thin cord I swiftly circled the base of my cock and balls with several turns of the cord, then wrapping crosswise I repeated the action but only around my balls. The idea is not to have the cord too tight, but tight enough to feel the bondage and to make your balls stretch out from the base. Once bound, I pulled a condom over both cock and balls, which also helped hold the cord in place.

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Hairy cock close up, you have been warned
        bound cock under condom

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another cock close up
    cock in bodysuit sheath
        cock now double encased with added bondage to hold vibrator tight

MadJack's Self-Bondage Adventures    1 Replies

One question I often ask myself is ‘Am I a cross-dresser? ‘ or is my passion for certain clothing just a ‘simple’ fetish? (Maybe this should be a topic for another thread?) Whatever the answer, I do love to wear pantyhose, high-heels and Lycra clothing when doing some self-bondage. My most recent purchase has been a Lycra dress and I was itching to try it on having purchased it some months earlier.


Equipment:
70den closed crotch, long sleeved nylon bodysuit with sheath
20den sheer pantyhose
30den opaque pantyhose
Lycra dress
8 knee-highs
Rope
Condom
Ball gag
High-heeled ankle boots


The session:
This wasn’t planned to be a self-bondage session at all, I just wanted to try on the ‘little black dress’ I’d purchased before Christmas (yes – that long ago!) – But typically for me, it all got a little bit out of control…

With only an hour of guaranteed ‘home alone’ time, my first idea was to simply put on the dress and see how it felt, but then I thought why not wear some tights to get a better feel for things, then I started to get aroused at the thought of what I was planning and a condom was added over my erect cock (to protect tights and dress from any accidental ‘spillage’). Condom on and I couldn’t resist adding my favourite bodysuit (it feel soooo good sliding my cock into the nylon sheath, even when covered by a condom) and then two pairs of tights over the top.

The dress came next, and it felt wonderful. It is surprisingly heavy and very elastic which means it clings tightly around my body – very clearly showing off my erection (not a problem for the women the dress was actually designed for!). I had the camera close to hand and snapped a few shots before realising that what was needed now were some high-heels – so they quickly got added to my apparel.

At this point I should say that I’d not had any sort of self-bondage or fetish play for over 7 months and this may have been a factor in my actions…

    - Aroused

Feeling very sexy and aware that I only had a short window of opportunity to play I quickly decided to add some very simple self-bondage to my scene.

Gagging is a must, so a knee-high went over my head, followed by a ball (also in a knee-high) tied tightly in my mouth – I love the feel and taste of nylon forced into my mouth by a gag. Two more knee-highs followed, neatly encasing my head in nylon and ensuring the ball-gag couldn’t possibly come out.

    - all dressed up and ready to play

I quickly added two knee-highs over each arm which completed my encasement before using the ever ready coil of pre-tied rope to simply, but effectively, bind my wrists behind my back.

    - ahhh, wrists bound - sooo nice 😁

After so long away it was good to be back in self-bondage and my arousal was increasing with every minute that passed. I just had to add something more, so I used a second rope, simply looped around the back of my neck and down between my legs to act as a cinch to the wrist rope – tightening as I tried to stand more upright (and pulling very pleasantly across my cock at the same time).

    - adding the second rope worked surprisingly well

    - does my bum look big in this? 😋

Simple, but fabulous – fetish dressing and bondage all completed in (for me) double quick time, leading to aching arousal and a desire for sexual release (which I did achieve very quickly too)


What went well?
The dress proved to be a superb investment and an excellent addition to my fetish wardrobe. The fit is better than I could have wished for and I think I made the correct choice in the ‘short sleeved’ style (I think long sleeves may have been too tight on my arms).

Quick simple bondage can be as much fun as complex long bondage – I often get so swept along in the desire for complicated, inescapable (almost) bondage that I sometimes forget that simple can work just as well.

What could be improved?
More time to play – this is always the biggest factor in my ‘how to improve’ list. I never seem to have the opportunities to play as much as I would like, which leads to frustrations and some degree of unhappiness 😟

A good self-bondage photo spot – since the latest re-arrangement of our household layout I’ve lost my favourite ‘studio’ position to take self-bondage photos in. Now it seems that every shot has some furniture, wall pictures, door or similar in it. I’d love to create a nice spot that I could use for self-bondage and photographing my session without all the hassle of moving things around or (as in these shots) having a chunk of unwanted furniture in the picture.

I hope you enjoyed my session and, as always, please play safe

MJ

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I would to try a software to use on with my boyfriend. Something like slave/sub training... But it's have to work on recent Mac (Mountain Lion or Maverick).

I see some of these kind of software for Windows, but I didn't find Mac versions...

Someone already find one?