Some animated gifs I made from recordings I had from a while ago when testing some positions.
One is tied with my legs spread and a vibrator on a strategic point, the other is a session I did where I hogtied myself and used an ice lock as time release.
I would love to make more animated gifs, I like them better than video's but it's hard to make a good series of them. Guess I need some practice.
I've never owned a catsuit but am ready to buy my first one. Ideally, I would like to purchase a chlorinated catsuit with a crotch zip, and neck entry only.
But my challenge so far is finding an online shop which sells chlorinated catsuits in general. I love the designs on libidex, but I don't see an option for chlorination.
Can anyone provide recommendations? Especially since they are a bit pricier than other toys I have.
Did/does anybody use heat shrink wrap or tubing for self-bondage?
For example, what about a heat-shrink sleeve as a cock&ball sheath (or a chastity device)?
• Design: Shrink ratio 4:1 / +90 °C
• Type: Shrink tubing
• Colour: Black
• Material: Polyolefine
• Øbefore: 76.2 mm
• Øafter: 19.1 mm
• Length: 200 mm
Not sure about +90, but I usually use a hair-drier.
"BDSM" is an acronym of "B&D" (Bondage & Discipline), "D&S" (Dominance & Submission), and "S&M" (sadomasochism). "BDSM" refers to any or all of these things, and a lot of stuff besides.
Tying up your lover is BDSM; so is flogging that person, or bossing that person around, or any of a thousand other things. BDSM is highly erotic, usually (though not always) involves sex or sexual tension; and is highly psychologically charged. One person (the "submissive") agrees to submit to another person (the "dominant"); or, alternately, one person agrees to receive some sort of sensation, such as spanking, from another.
Some people like to be submissive all the time, some people like to be dominant all the time; some people like to switch, being submissive and then dominant and exchanging back and forth.
Many people practice some element of BDSM in their sexual lives without even being aware of it. They may think of "S&M" as "That sick stuff that people do with whips and cattle prods and stuff," yet still blindfold one another from time to time, or tie one another down and break out the whipped cream...
All of these things are "BDSM." BDSM is not necessarily hardcore sadomasochism; it can be remarkably subtle and sensual and soft. Pinning your partner to the bed and running silk or ice cubes or rabbit fur over your lover's body qualifies as "BDSM" (specifically, of a variety called "sensation play").
BDSM doesn't have to involve all of these.
There are many people involved in BDSM who enjoy tying others up, or being tied up themselves, but who do not enjoy S&M--that is, they aren't interested in inflicting or receiving pain. Sometimes, one partner just ties up the other, as a form of foreplay. Similarly, there are many people who may like the psychological control they get from ordering their lovers to do things, but do not care for being physically restrained or tied, or for tying up their lovers.
BDSM is as varied as the people who do it.
I've met many people who engage in BDSM activities, such as bondage or spanking, but who insist they are "not into that BDSM stuff." Usually, it's because they have the idea it has to do with wearing a leather mask and being chained to a wall and whipped, but it’s not like that at all. If you like being lightly spanked or light bondage excites you, well you're into BDSM.
Some people love the aesthetic of an elaborate rope harness, or an elaborate form of bondage; others simply aren't interested in the bondage elements at all. The key to all these different forms of BDSM, though, is the exchange. Perhaps for some it means allowing the other person to tie him/her up, perhaps it means allowing the other person to spank him/her, whatever.
In particular, BDSM is NOT abuse!
People who are practicing BDSM in any of its trillions of forms are doing it voluntarily, for fun. It's a way to explore. Everything that happens in a BDSM relationship is consensual; and believe it or not, it's not just about the dominant getting what he or she wants--it's more about the submissive getting what he or she wants.
An abuser has no regard for the feelings, needs, or limits of the victim. A BDSM dominant is concerned above all else with the needs and desires of the submissive. Pretty straightforward, really. BDSM is a mutual activity that is driven as much by the needs of the submissive than by the needs of the dominant.
The needs of the submissive? Isn't the dominant the one bossing the other person around? Aren't dominants usually depicted as being bitches or assholes?
While that may seem like it makes sense on the surface, the truth is just the opposite. People who are good at dominating are, in general, LESS likely than many other people to be bitches or assholes.
Why? Because in order to be good at doing it, you need to be highly in-tune with your submissive. People who are self-centered generally make poor dominants, because they lack the empathy required to be able to read and judge their partner's reactions, and bring their partner where that person wants to go. Assholes and bitches quickly find that nobody wants to play with them; and people who are empathic tend not to be assholes or bitches. All of the real top-notch dominants I've ever met, without exception, are incredibly cool people.
Some common misconceptions:
Believe it or not, the dynamics of a BDSM relationship are often driven by the submissive, not by the dominant. The submissive sets the limits; the submissive decides what places can and can not be explored; the submissive has the ability to call a halt to the scene. The dominant, in many ways, is simply a facilitator. It's the dominant's job to create a setting where the people involved can explore the submissive's fantasies.
(As an aside, it's important to note that these limits can change over time. It may be that something that used to sound like it wouldn't be fun or interesting might in the future tickle your fancy; and that things you enjoy now, you may not necessarily enjoy in the future. People change over time. It's important, when you explore BDSM, to remember that, and to make a habit of talking to your partner about things you like and don't like as those things change.)
Dominating your partners does not mean that you don't want to please them. It is not always, or even usually, true that a dominant is interested in his/her own gratification rather than the submissive’s. In fact, many dominants are driven as much by their desire to please their partner as by anything else; the psychology of a healthy BDSM relationship is driven by the submissive as well as by the dominant, and a dominant can take pleasure from gratifying the needs of the submissive just as easily as the submissive can take pleasure from gratifying the needs of the dominant. This kind of thing is not one-directional.
But isn’t the submissive or bottom the one being bossed around and spanked or whatever? Isn’t that abuse?
In a BDSM relationship, the submissive sets the limits. A victim of abuse doesn't get a vote; the victim can't tell the abuser what to do, or how much to do it. In this case, the submissive sets all the limits--what kinds of things can be (and can't be!) done, how much, and for how long.
And while we're on the subject of limits, there is more than one kind of limit in a BDSM relationship. Everybody has "hard" limits--things that they absolutely will not do, and will not even consider. Some people, for example, like to be tied up but don't like the idea of being whipped; if they won't allow themselves to be whipped, ever, that's a hard limit.
There are also "soft" limits--things that someone won't do under ordinary circumstances, but will allow to be "forced" on him or her in the context of a particular scenario that's being acted out. Between soft limits and hard limits lies an interesting psychological territory to explore.
A submissive gets a way to opt out. This may be a code word, or a sign of some sort; if the sub uses it, he or she has had enough and the scene is over. An abuse victim doesn't tell the abuser when to stop.
Doesn’t it mean you are kind of sick or messed up to do things like that?
No.
Tying people up… whipping them. Isn’t that considered unstable or pathological?
No.
For the most part, people who are into this kind of thing are remarkably well-adjusted. People involved in BDSM are generally neither abusive nor come from backgrounds where they were abused, because people with that kind of backgrounds aren't likely to be sexually turned on by giving someone else power over them. That doesn't mean that no BDSM relationship is abusive--since people are what they are, no form of human interaction is immune to abuse. But it does mean that the people you'll find in the BDSM community are, for the most part, very stable. (In fact, if you're going to get involved in this kind of stuff, it helps to have a cast-iron ego and a strong sense of self, particularly if you're a submissive.)
BDSM is not what it looks like from the outside. It's not just tying people up and having sex, and it's not just arbitrarily whipping people. That's very crude, and kind of boring. What it is, is a sort of role-playing where the people involved are acting out a fantasy that involves taking or giving up power. Sex is often involved, but not always.
Role playing? Sounds like a game.
It is. You're exercising your imagination, and you're playing a game with the other person. You get to be the dominant; your partner is the submissive; you're playing the role of the mad scientist who's just kidnapped someone and is going to use this poor innocent person for evil experiments. Or whatever. You know the naughty nurse and patient … that’s a classic.
At the same time, however, it is very serious. You're creating a framework that allows you to have fun and explore some very powerfully charged areas of human psychology, and push your boundaries at the same time. In this way, BDSM can be a powerful tool for self-discovery and exploration.
It also pays to negotiate the basic parameters in which you'll operate beforehand. Different people have different idea of what constitutes "force" or how rough "rough" is. If everyone involved isn't on the same page, someone may get hurt in a way that isn't so fun. A very good tip for determining your partner’s pain level is the 1 to 5 test.
Ask them to rate your spank on a scale of 1 to 5, 1 representing really soft and 5 representing really hard. Start off very light and find your partner’s 3. You don’t really need to go harder than that to figure out what their 5 would be. Stay in between and have fun.
Learn your limits and don’t do something you don’t want to.
You draw the line wherever you want to. There isn't one way to "do" BDSM, and not everybody is in to the same things. If you like being tied up, but you don't want to be whipped, then don't be whipped! Every person is unique; not everybody has the same turn-on’s; if you don't like something, don't do it.
Always follow the “rule of three”…
Safe
Sane
Consensual
Summing things up…
BDSM provides a context and a set of tools for exploring your own personal boundaries in a safe, fun, enjoyable, and mutually reciprocal way. It provides a vehicle by which you can get to know yourself and your lover much more deeply and intimately than you might have thought possible. And hey, you often find along the way that you can be surprised! You probably have turn-on’s that you don't even know you have, and you will never discover without exploration.
And that, my friend, can truly enrich your life and the life of your lover.
Бренды с не ясной судьбой или принадлежностью: AC Art Collection - сайт не отвечает; бренд, похоже, закрыт
Filoverde, был бренд компании Filodoro Calze, теперь упоминания исчезли
Lapel, бренд компании CSP International - колготок нет
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Всего брендов: 83.
Знаете бренд которого нет в списке? Заметили неточность? Напишите об этом в этой теме!
С уважением,
MisterZ
Like Ra: Cette
Oroblu, LeBourget, Sanpellegrino, Lepel - см. CSP Kunert
MisterZ: Cette добавил, а что делает Kunert? У них сайт какой-то невнятный совершенно
Like Ra:
Quote:MisterZ пишет: цитата
а что делает Kunert
Справа на их сайте. Kunert AG делает Kunert, Hudson и Burlington
MisterZ: Еще добавил 8 производителей внушительный список получается. Не могу найти Glamour, кто-нибудь знает их международный сайт?
MisterZ: Добавил DaNa, DIM, Leggs, Pilippe Matignon Club, Victoria's Secret. И еще Арктур - производитель нашей Грации . Вопрос про сайт glamour все еще в силе.
az: http://www.tekma.ru/index.php Отечественные колготки ЭРА. Что самое интересное: есть большие модели, вернее все модели имеют большие размеры. И еще, скоро сезон для этого производителя, на сайте у них так и написано "Исксство хранить тепло"
WamMan:
Quote:az пишет: цитатаhttp://www.tekma.ru/index.php Отечественные колготки ЭРА. Что самое интересное: есть большие модели, вернее все модели имеют большие размеры. И еще, скоро сезон для этого производителя, на сайте у них так и написано "Исксство хранить тепло"
Прошлой зимой носил, некоторые модели просто супер, а некоторые колЮться 😊
Прохор: у и какие супер? дай рекламу, что ли?
WamMan: Вот например: click here Ну очень теплые 😊
WamMan: Вот эти очень понравились: click here Это лосины если кто не заметил
Редко, но на наших рынках встречаются. Впечатления:
+1. Бежевая сотка с лайкрой - просто прэлесть.
+2. Красивый ровный оттенок с золотистым металлическим отблеском.
-1. Клина сзади нет, но
+3. и без клина какие здоровенные как по длине, так в ширь .
+4. Не наблюдаются "проплешины" в напряжённых местах - на коленях и пятках, где ткань тянется больше всего.
MisterZ: Добавил Omero, Tim, Lida, Pamela и ЭРА. Вопрос про сайт колготок Glamour все еще в силе.
k2log: Появилась у нас на рынке новая точка с плакатами колготок Mona. Весь стеллаж в красивых упаковках, дух захватывает. Производитель - польская фирма Tespol. Жаль, что для своей любимой подарок к 23-му февраля по старому стилю уже прикупил. Так что еще всё впереди, пока изучаю.
MisterZ: Обновления:
* http://www.charmante.ru - не сайт производителя (см. название темы), не добавлен
* BELLINDA, ESDA, Аgent Provocateur, Mona - добавлены
* теперь все ссылки отсортированы по брендам для удобства поиска (кстати, среди них могли затесаться бренды не колготок и не чулок - если найдете, напишите пожалуйста, проверять все 68 шт. лень)
* обновил информацию о Bellystar - сайт ожил, обновился, но, увы, мужских колготок там больше нет. Надо бы написать им письмо с вопросом.
porter, Leggs давным давно уже есть, смотри внимательнее второй пост сверху
MisterZ: Burlington, бренд Kunert AG удален по причине несоответствия теме
для брендов Hudson и Kunert добавлены отдельные ссылки на соответствующие сайты (раньше были ссылки только на сайт компании Kunert AG)
k2log: porter У нас в прошлом году Mura продавалась. Не покупал.
porter: Смотрел колготки, и продавщица очень предлагала Palmer, сказала хорошие австрийские колготки. Но здесь, среди брэндов, я их не вижу. Белье Palmer есть, а кто нибудь слышал о их колготках?
deepgaze: PALMERS TEXTIL AG нашел самая крупная австрийская текстильная фирма, лидер на рынке женского и мужского белья - так писано по крайней мере 😊 http://www.tightsplease.me.am/Palmers-Sl...r-Pack.htm
сие есть сайт конторы http://www.palmers.at/
колгоки и чулки в пункте collection - basics - women
Джа: Вроде таких не было, неплохой сайт, во флэш, но только на польском языке... http://www.marilyn.pl/
k2log: Для местных и наших гостей.
На ветке спрашивали о Mura и Leggs. У нас на Торговой площади (за кинотеатром им. Горького) есть симпатичный магазинчик с диким названием "75B". Так вот они на Mura и Leggs специализируются. Есть из чего выбрать и цены в пределах 30 UAH.
arc: В отношении магазинов 75В...Встречал их в Донецке, Хмельницком, Днепропетровске, Киеве. Сами продавщицы не скрывают. что этих магазинов по Украине целая сеть. Основная продукция - женское белье и колготки Мura ,Leggs(Италия) и Marilyn(Польша). Торговые точки, как правило, невелики по площади, что дает возможность "вписаться" в небольшие помещения. Недавно взял Leggs 50 Super. А вот Mura Kis 40 пока не встречал. Ну а название магазинов 75В...Оно достойно выполняет свою задачу - заставляет обратить внимание.
MisterZ: Всем привет, я вернулся не прошло и полгода m1:
reggy: особенно при заводе ферросплавов - попутное производство :изготовление колготок !
reggy: оказываеться и в нашем городе новые "хозяева " пытаються протолкнуть необходимость построки завода ферросплавов .ядовитейшее производство .и ни каких колготок !
marina_0246: "Fantasy, бренд ЧП "АВМ" (Украина, Ривне)" кто находил их контакты? Очень нужно, не могу найти
7th Sky: (17.03.14 07:53)
Quote:marina_0246 пишет: "Fantasy, бренд ЧП "АВМ" (Украина, Ривне)" кто находил их контакты? Очень нужно, не могу найти
Купил, несмотря на отрицательный опыт 2010 года. Упаковка с тех пор поменялась - стала более цветной; впечатления о содержимом напишу в нужную ветку.
Вот координаты:
ЧП "Валантекс", ул. Курчатова 32, Ривне, Украина, 33018
+380 50 6687248
+380 50 3754547
+380 98 5994898
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Using a full roll of gladwrap did a full body mummification. First starting at each foot and wrapping to the top of my leg and continuing up my torso. While wrapping punch a hole for my penis for later. Then wrap each arm and then finally starting at my feet again wrapped everything together as tight as possible.
I then hooked up my vibrator to my penis. I have a hand massage vibrator designed to go on the back of your hand. I used the springs to hold a large stiff cardboard tube where my had would normally go. Inside the tube I have a latex liner (a stretched and taped condom would also work) to protect it from "fluids". Using some strips of rubber from an inner tube I tie the tube to the vibrator, the springs are old and not enough to securely hold it.
Next I lube the inside of the tube and my penis. Then I work the tube/vibrator onto my penis. Using several other rubber strips I secure it to me by stretching the bands around me and tying them. The strips are wrapped around the tube about 3 inches above the base allowing for it to sway around a bit. Pulling the strips tight and with a few adjustments I have the tube/vibrator securely attached to my penis. I also use the strips to form "guy wires" keeping the tube straight out. The tube/vibrator is not coming off no matter what.
Now I plug the vibrator into a Leviton programmable timer. It has 50 programmable on/off settings. I have it programmed to wait 30 minutes, then on 1 minute, off 1 minute, then on 3 minutes, off, and then repeat. At the end of the 3 1/2 session it switches to on 3 minutes, off 2 minutes for a few times and then on for 5 minutes and then off.
Then I put in some earplugs, put on a blindfold, lay down on the couch and wiggle my arms towards my back under a layer gladwrap I left just for my arms. Then I rock side to side to take up any slack further tightening my arms. I can still get out but not very fast.
Now I wait. The first buzz of each period is always an attention getter. The second buzz is almost enough to get me off but not normally. Then I have the 25 minute wait for the next session. I can feel my penis a bit in the tube but just barely and with everything being tight I am not able to self stimulate no matter how much I bounce around. So lots of frustrated meditation time.
When the end comes it is time to cum. I have had ruined orgasms with the vibrator stop right at the wrong moment and intense orgasms with it continuing to run long after I came.
Since the tube is open I have tried a few "extra" lubricants such as BenGay. While exciting, the session was fairly long and my foreskin was sore and a little swollen for a few days afterwards. Not recommended. Also since electricity is used I would not include any water activities such as urine or enemas.
I have also programmed the timer to have lots of 1 minute sessions with 1, 2, 3 or 4 minute off periods. Nothing like being in a constant state of arousal for several hours.
Following my fiasco with the electromagnetic cuffs last summer (they broke after the first serious use), I started collecting various ideas about making a DIY version.
I (independently) came up with the same idea. Instead of using long cables (which can be disconnected or broken), you can use a local rechargeable battery. The more hours you are going to stay in bondage, the more powerful the battery should be. That means - no time-relays or mechanisms. All you need is a 9V battery and an electromagnet.
So, the basic design is quite simple:
o- handcuffs
o- electromagnet
o- 9v battery
o- metal piece/plate for the second cuff
o- battery case
o- battery connector
o- bolts
o- washers
How big should it be? What I could find on eBay is too thick (2cm+).
The metal piece for the second part (any good names for this one?) should look like a cup, so the magnet can easily fit inside. This is to prevent sliding the magnet off the 2nd piece. Also this design will allow to use less strong magnet or less powerful battery.
As you can see, you can find various models: LiIon, NiMH, 250mAh, 300mAh, 600mAh, 680mAH, 780mAh, 880mAh... Pick up several and do not forget a charger:
I've been working on this session for more than a year and I finally got an entire day to myself to complete the setup and do a few real sessions. Those that have followed any of this know that I've done several test sessions that all had problems. I'm here to report that has this forced walking gear is up and running but not as smoothly as I would like.
I always use the same lock/unlock system. Velco cuffs with ziptie in them and a pad lock to lock the rings. All I need is a key to get out.
For the dress I constantly was changing outfit but the basic pantyhose layers was there. I've switched to Peavey and they are nice. I only
need 4 pair to get the look I want and besides if you use more than that the compression is too much. I've got a new sailor outfit,
white jacket and skirt, modified to be a lot shorter.
I set the video up at the end and did a simple session of just a few trips up and down the walkway. In the video you can see all
the moving parts. The key drops around 3:20, so unlock, change outfits, setup and go again, again, and again, 7 hours of playing.
As the day went on I made things harder and harder.
Add ropes and leg irons, platforms.
The last video is clip of a nasty session. You can see as you get to the end of the walk way its harder to reach the push rod
since the guide rope overhead goes up and starts to pick you up off the ground. Try standing on your toes when you are already
in a 5in stilettos platforms. You can see how hard it gets and with all the rope you can understand the panty hose usually don't make it for a second day. In fact this day I went thru 9 pair.
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