Well, as common social protocol dictates, I am here to say hello. lol
I've lurked a bit on here throughout the past year or two. Never really read anything in detail as I never had even a remote possibility of attempting anything, thus little point.
Anyways, this are looking possible now for every once in a while so here I am joining. lol
Since its an intro post.... uhh....
I'm a male.
I'm big on anime so I guess I'm a nerd as well. lol
Embarrassing as it is, I swear I'm all female on the inside (not gay... maybe?lol) and thus have a fetish I guess you could say, for tall boots and certain interesting/cool clothing.
....Wow, what straight man would say that....? lol
Im in the Portland/Vancouver area so if there are any others from here that are in the area, eh, maybe have a pow wow. 😁 lol
Sorry if this isn't the best location for this post.
But yeah, I'm new to this stuff. Granted, I have always found it interesting and tempting to try.
Aside from the common safety rules that apply to this, what else is there to worry about? Rather, what are some good starting tricks and ideas?
I suck at tying knots, but that isn't totally out of the question.
As it stands, my biggest obstacle right now is just finding a place to try a session of any kind. Still live at home and all. Sigh.
What kind of set up do you guys personally use most commonly in your session btw?
I'm a young male, (22) and as odd as it is, I seem to have a small fetish for boots and such. That said, for me, I imagine I'll be using a nice pair of thigh boots for anything I attempt. (Does that make me weird?lol)
Anyway, I see that many people often use some sort of cat suit/zentai suit ETC so I might as well. Dunno for sure.
All the different gear is so tempting and fun looking i guess. Too bad so many things can't be done without a partner...
I digress.
Returning to my original primary question, what would be a fairly restrictive, yet simple starting session?
- I assume a simple hand cuff hog tie with some sort of ice release?
If you recall, a few days ago I posted an FOTD (Flaccid of the day) image that simply turned me off. Thinking about it a little more I realised that there are millions of images out there that would be FOTD for me (even if I limited my 'rule' to bondage) - generally they are cruel, sadistic or demeaning (I might love to tie women up, but I never, ever, treat them like animals, sluts (how I hate that word as it is so often used), etc, etc).
So I've had to rethink my approach to an FOTD and limit it to something that excludes the obvious dislikes and throws a challenge to others.
Like this one:
- pretty girl, nice shape, no obvious sadism or demeaning treatment, but.... what the heck is that through her nose? 🤔
Oh dear me... no! 😟
I do like to see some piercings and have no problems with nose rings, but that... really?
Did you ever wish that.........
You can fill in the blanks.
I'll start.
Did you ever wish that... Your friend would come in at the right moment and set that last knot in your self bondage session or helps you in getting the ropes tighter only to find out he/she likes to tie you up and did a really good job?
We all know it. Call it "the purge syndrome", call it "the refractory period", call it "the pervy yo-yo cycle" - it's about up and down periods in your kinky, fetish, sexual activity. From time to time we lose interest in fetish/bondage stuff. Almost to the point of guilt for wasted money and throwing the useless stuff away. You stop visiting fetish forums and searching for arousing images. Then the interest returns with a vengeance. Then disappears. And this vicious circle repeats for ages.
Did you notice how many weeks/months it takes for the interest to return/disappear?
Did you notice if it's related to anything? (vacation, workload, phase of the moon, exciting post, a girl on the street, whatever)
Did you notice how long your willingness to play last?
I'm not talking about masturbation now, because it's the ultimate interest-killer-guilt-inducer (one of the reasons why I try to avoid orgasms).
Basically, that's why I started to keep track of my orgasms (see the "orgasm calendar") and document my experience with erotic hypnosis.
I was out wearing 3 pairs of 5 toe pantyhose, a 200d fleshtone and a fake knee stocking pantyhose under my everyday clothes. Feeling kinky I decided to have a self bondage session in a toilet stall of a shopping mall.
I took out my fleshtone and fake knee stocking pantyhose and played around with it. Then Iwore the fleshtone pantyhose as a monoglove. This fleshtone pantyhose is thick yet stretchy, being 200d it still proved too easy to escape.
The fake knee stocking pantyhose is thinner, 100d at the stocking part and 30d at the top yet smaller and not as stretchy at the 100d part. Getting in and out is quite a chore. However I still didn't think it was challenging enough so I decided to wear them both as 1 monoglove.
I first went in with the fake knee stocking pantyhose then the fleshtone. It was hard for me to see so I can only feel my way in. I struggled to even feel thru the layers.
Eventually plop! My hands went in. It was very enjoyable and restricting. After a few fake struggles to enjoy my bondage I figured I should try to get out for real.
To my shock it was far more challenging than I expected. I really struggled hard to get out but it wouldnt barge. The 2 layers made it more difficult to stretch my way out. Combined with my sweat sticking to the hose I realised I might be in deep trouble.
Things just got real. It may be the real bondage with absolutely no way out of. The compression was mildly choking my neck. It may be enjoyed as breathplay but since Im alone and it may lead to unconscious if prolonged, I started to have a mild panic attack.
Bad thoughts came thru my mind. Would the compression slowly numb my arms? Both my arms were getting more tired after each try of escape. I figured if I dont escape soon, my arms will eventually go to sleep and I would be permanently stuck.
Since Im in a public toilet, there are always people coming to use it. I thought the worst case would be seeking help from strangers but that thought scared me more than getting permanently stuck.
With the worst case as my motivation, I tried all my might to break free. After some 30mins of intense struggle I finally made it free. I couldn't tear my way out even if I wanted to, the material is too strong for my weakened arms.
In conclusion, I enjoyed this self bondage session very much, even when it was scary. I would not try a double layer monoglove anytime soon.
I am really curious about the concept of self bondage, and i'm eager to try it sometime. I dont have any materials though, the only things that can be useful for this and that i have are laces, some sleeping bags and blankets. Does anyone know how i can use these materials for self bondage? Thanks in advance
