Hi, i'm just currently join this forum after for a long time being a silent reader here and i have tried a lot of the scenarios from the main site. 😋
I'm male, 22 y.o. I'm looking for a dare and punishment from you, and these are my equipments :
Equipment >
- a lot of ropes (
- a lot of duct tapes
- a lot of scarves
- some clothespins
- 1 candle
- 1 hood
- 1 remote vibrator
- 1 medium buttplug
- 1 spreaded bar
- 1 medium chain
- Gag : 1 ball gag, 1 ring gag, 1 bit gag.
- 2 blindfold
- 2 weighted niple clamps
- 2 cock ring
- 2 belts
- 4 paddlocks
- 6 shoe laces
- (software) self bondage motion detector
- (software) self bondage fitness unpersonal trainer (connected to an earphone)
note : the other equipment can be bought if the cost of that toy is fairly cheap.
Like >
- being naked, normal cloth, or crossdressed are welcome
- i love crotch ropes/cbt
- i love hogtied (the other position are welcome such as ball tie, frog tie, etc. But no self suspension.)
- i love to put the clothspin around my body
- and the most important is.... i love if i'm being drooled too much. 😋
I will be free for a week at home, so please give me a medium/heavy scenario. Feel free with your imagination~
I promised to give my foto during the scene that you give. 😁
As I’ve just finished a fairly enjoyable self bondage session, I thought I may as well lay out my experience.
Anyway, I decided on a fairly straightforward spread-eagle position on the bed (with some added spice, as discussed later): a spreader bar tied to the end of the bed for my feet, and hands bound to the top corners of the bed. The spreader bar was easy - I had made one a couple of months ago. To this, I attached some neoprene cuffs I’d bought years ago, when I had first become interested in bondage. For my hands, I’d use a couple of rope ratchets. Unfortunately, I only have the one pair of cuffs (now on the spreader bar for my ankles). I decided to do rope cuffs. I’ve played around with rope cuffs in the past, but have run into the (potentially disastrous) issue of them tightening to the point of cutting off circulation. Since I wanted to be bound as tightly as possible, I knew the knots I’d used previously wouldn’t work. After a couple of hours watching tutorials and trying a bunch of them out (and getting distracted by a really neat rope gauntlet), I found the perfect solution: rope flogging cuffs.
These were designed for semi-suspension by distributing weight across the hand (instead of only the wrist), and they don’t tighten. Also, they’re really comfortable; in fact, they’re so comfortable that I am wearing them as I type this, just because I like the way they feel.
So, now that I knew how I would be tied down, how would I get out? I decided this would be a great use for the ice lock I’d constructed. Also (because I’m paranoid about accidentally getting stuck), I had four backups I could use myself, as well as two different ways to call for help if needed (all with discouragements so as not to use them - let’s just say that I wouldn’t have wanted to be cleaning my carpet afterwards). So now, my wrist cuff would be connected to the rope ratchet, the ratchet connected to the ice lock, and the ice lock connected to the bed (…and the knee bone connected to the thigh bone…).
Now, I had to spice it up a little. First, I made the room pitch black, to the point where it was almost brighter with my eyes closed. A pair of earplugs, of course, to add to the sensory deprivation. To keep my mouth occupied, I put in a mouthguard (I would have used a gag, but I wasn’t sure how it would go and wanted to be able to spit it out if I needed to). Then, I went a little too far. I put on a chastity belt that had a small drop of BenGay in the end. When flaccid, I only get about halfway down the cage, but when aroused, I end up pressed tightly against the end. The idea was to get myself aroused once bound so that I’d end up smushing the end of my cock into the BenGay, but be unable to do anything about it. It had the added advantage that it would work every time I’d become aroused (so I’d be continually uncomfortable). I’d used this stuff before to masturbate (I am most definitely a masochist) and, though it had hurt, it wasn’t unbearable. Well, this time, it was quite a bit more so. I was about halfway through tying myself up when I got hard enough to hit the droplet. I had about two seconds of, “hmm, that’s warm” before it got to the point of “OH GOD, THE AGONY!” Hastily untying my one already-bound wrist and both ankles, then frantically looking for the key to the chastity belt, I finally managed to get the cage off as I raced to the bathroom to wash off my dick.
After I’d calmed down, I returned to my setup. I wasn’t going to touch that damned chastity belt at the moment, but I had to do something. I found a little toy that uses a vibrating motor to move around (a Hexbug Nano, if you’re interested). It has a very high frequency, and is also pretty powerful. I taped that onto my (still slightly sensitive) cock, strapped myself back down, and tightened the rope ratchet. I had that great adrenaline rush as I tried to move my arms and couldn’t.
I wanted to make this last for as long as I could without cumming, so I did my best to meditate and ignore the vibrations. After a couple of close calls, I felt I had gotten used to it. About 10 minutes later, the vibrator started slowing down slightly (it’s powered by watch batteries, so that’s not too surprising). Knowing this might be my last chance to cum, I did my best, humping the air, flexing my pelvic muscles, everything I could think of, but with no luck. Exhausted, I ended up just laying there as the little vibrator kept on going. And going. And going. It had hit that perfect level where it’s too much to be ignored, but not enough to actually get me off, and it stayed there.
Finally, after two hours of frustration, the ice lock did as it was designed to do and separated. Leaving everything else tied up, I used my one free hand to (painfully) remove the tape holding the vibrator (still running), then finish myself off. It was one of those intense, everything-tightening-up climaxes, with me straining against the ropes and cuffs.
All in all, I was pretty pleased with this session, and I think I’ll repeat it. The idea behind the BenGay was a good one, but too intense - I may use ginger next time, as it’s somewhat more bearable (though it doesn’t last as long). Perhaps a ginger root buttplug or a time-release enema to occupy my posterior. I think I’ll also modify the ice release to take longer. That little vibrating toy will definitely be making a return. And I might (just maybe) work up the courage to actually record it to share.
Open Thread
What was the longest time you kept yourself in bondage (not being asleep, not being able to sleep)? What position was it?
In about 10 days I have the house to myself and would like to try out some extended selfbondage sessions. For me 3 to 4 hours seems like a very long time (longest I did up till now is 2 hours, fully awake). I have slept in (comfortable) bondage but to me that's not really all bondage time, you have to experience the bondage.
I would like to try a 4 hour bondage like this
I would use use my abs-trainer for self bondage. I would raise the back part enough to be comfortable on my belly (not too much strain on my shoulders), chain my hands under the lower footholders and add a strap to make sure I can't open my arms enough to escape the knee-rest. Maybe a picture helps, my drawing talent is non-existent sadly enough.
Of course an electro toy to keep me focused will be in place. (my e-stimbox can be hooked to my mp3 player. On my mp3 player will be a playlist with 20 songs: 17 will be 30 seconds of silence, 3 will be an 45 second audiofile (it's a bombalarm, the sensation it produces is harder as the siren gets louder). The intensity of the box would be high enough so the last part of the audiofile will be a real pain in the butt. The player will go through the playlist at random.)
Maybe add my drysuit to make it a more interesting exprience as it is now kinda hot in Belgium.
You think this idea is feasable?
Today I was sure I had a couple of hours the house for myself. Some weeks ago I bought myself a gizmo: a kitchen safe. It's a box with a lid that locks for the time you set it (10 minutes to 10 days). Once locked, only when the timer ends or when you break the acrylic box you can get to whats inside.
I never had a good bondage session on my bed, I'm not that good with knots and either I screw up or I screw up. And I'm afraid that when the knot isn't good enough I might not get out. I don't want to be found by my parents. (Maybe when I'm in dire straits, but not when having fun)
So today I used the upper balustrade on the second floor. At he end it has a 90° corner so I used the long end of the balsutrade to secure my legs (just rope and anklecuffs) to the poles and I used the short end to secure my wrists with cuffs and chains, all locked.
For entertainment I used my e-stim box on a step program (8 steps, the last one was intense) in my ass and I put on my gas mask with a 1/2l rebreather bag.
I put the timer on 1 hour, pressed the button and away it was.
What went good:
The timer worked perfectly.
The e-stim was fun: the pain was intense but not so intense it breaks concentration
Before 20 minutes had passed, I was in the zone, and time was just flying by.
There was no way I could reach my estim control box.
What could be better:
I forgot how tiresome it can be breating with a gasmask with rebreather. I fastened my wrists not far enough and could take of my gasmask, wich I did after 17 minutes. Need to secure my cuffs one post further so I can't reach my face.
The rope holding my plug was secure, but the harnass I made had a knot that pressed in my back. On a matress you don't notice that, on a floor, you feel the knot. But I had limited to movement so I could shift my weight around.
Was fun after all, gonna try longer sessions when I know I have the house to myself all day. I'd like to add nipple clamps and a drysuit or latex suit next time. Or inflatable plug
I have created an app that allows for you to use it for the self bondage mobile phone release system. Hopefully the interface is self explanatory but you dial in the time you want and then a countdown timer starts and once it is up the phone buzzes without making sound (a major drawback of the default iPhone timer app). In testing this releases the key 100% of the time. Although the interface needs some work that will come in future updates.
I would love to hear your feedback and suggestions for the interface. Also currently this would only be released to iOS (my day job as a developer) at the start although I may port in the future.
I found the love of my life not too long ago. She's never had sex before and she knows nothing about the endless sexual pleasures that I have discovered in life but we have been intimate to the point where she allows me to use my hands on her for vaginal stimulation. She will not allow me to penetrate her with my penis but she does allow me to rub my penis on her clitoris. I haven't questioned her about this because I'm really fine with it and frankly I'm not very good at maintaining an erection anyway. I would like to find a strapon that hopefully can provide an outlet at the top for my penis while holding a dong a few inches below with which I can penetrate her. I've seen the vac-u-lock but it has the opening for the penis on the bottom whereas I need the opening at the top 😊 Does anyone have any suggestions?
Hi peeps, I notice I wasn't polite and haven't introduced myself.
I'm from Belgium, 36, asexual (not interested in man and women, though I like the looks of women better).
I'm into selfbondage, latex, electro. I would love to be put into inescapable bondage (selfbondage needs a release, I tend to use if I get too bored, wich is a pitty)
I'm a swimming trainer so I get to see loads of people in lycra, the latest competition suits...
I live with my parents (don't ask, it's not my chosing) so it's not easy to get a session going.
In august they'll be away for some days, gonna try to make the most of it.
I make a lot of typo's, sorry for that. I blame it on the operation I had several weeks ago where I was completly sedated for more than 7 hours. Since that day I have problems with my concentration and short term memory. It should improve the doctors said. Looking forward to it.
Hi,
do I look over it? Or is it simply not here? A mark as read button is what I'm looking for.
The forum show me more then 400 unread posts (wich is true) but these posts are so far back in history I'm not really interested. Is it possible to mark them as read?
Edit: someone found it but it gave an error. I can't see it, am I blind? Or has there been a change since 2012?
Edit 2: just click the arrow... Sometimes I'm hopeless. Let's blame the operation.
