Hi, just found your site today and have enjoyed reading it. Its funny how on the internet there is always someone who shares your interests. I have often fantasised about being controlled and dominated by a strong man or woman, and it is interesting to see that it is possible to explore some fantasies of mine on my own.
Is the colour of your pantyhose or stockings important to you?
This question keeps coming into my mind whenever I look at photos on this and other sites.
Why? Well, for me it is that some colours really don't 'do it' for me - in fact they can actually turn me off (or not turn me on, if you see what I mean) 😟
So I wondered if it was just me or if others had a thing for colours as well as the wonderful feel of nylon and lycra?
For the record (and I bet you could all guess this from my postings and pictures!), my favourite colours are:
Tan - 😁 this includes Toast and Nude Black - which is simple enough 😊
And, risking upsetting a great number of people, my turn off's are:
White, Green and Pink
...and anything with stripes or a pattern :evil:
So there you go... I know it shouldn't really matter (especially if I'm blindfolded or wearing a hood) but I just can't get on with those other colours.
What do you think - am I in the minority (again!)?
Equipment:
Long-sleeved Opaque body stocking (tan)
4 pairs pantyhose (tan)
3 knee-highs
Black Lycra body
High-heeled boots
Head-harness gag
Ice-cubes and SRD
Emergency release
Butt plug
Lots of rope!
The session:
Id had the house to myself for nearly a week and had done some pretty amazing sessions already (see my earlier posts), however I wanted this session to be bigger and better. Even after days of self-bondage fun I still couldnt wait to get myself helplessly bound, so as soon as I was plugged, dressed (my particular thing is multiple layers of pantyhose Id also encased my cock in nylon using the knee-high as described in other posts) and booted, I started to apply my bondage. I must admit to a failure for 100% coverage (sorry Ra! 😯ops: ) Id left my hands free to do the knotting and also a small area of my chest was missing that lovely layer of fabric.
I began my bondage at my booted ankles which where firmly lashed together, and then further ropes above and below my knees. I added a final rope around my upper thighs, cinching it tight and then drawing the free end (going from front to back) up to the small of my back and then wrapped the remaining rope tightly around my waist. This meant that a rope was now tight across the butt plug, holding it in place (not that it was required with all those layers of nylon and the lycra body) and my waist corseted in rope nice! 😁
I had chosen the bed for the session location, but had added a twist! Id rolled the duvet into a long sausage and set it on the very edge of one side of the bed (all my gear was set up or laid close to hand). Sitting on the edge of the bed my bum was balancing on the top of the rolled duvet, it would be very easy to over-balance backwards and fall crosswise onto the bed which was all part of my plan. I used more rope to secure my tied ankles to the edge of the bed, holding my balance a little more but not much. Next I applied a pair of pantyhose, one leg inside the other, pulled down over my head which I followed with the harness gag.
My next step was to activate my emergency escape method. In deference to Ras forum and website rules, all I will say is that I would have the option to move backwards and free myself, but at a cost! Once set-up, the emergency escape made it essential to maintain my balance on the rolled duvet - If I tipped backwards well, lets just say not good! :evil:
I should really describe the SRD and ice-cube timer: this was a fairly simple set-up - a couple of ice-cubes inside the laundry bag prevented it pulling through a single ring I had attached to the SRD. The tie cord of the laundry bag was secured to a fixing away from the bed. This assembly held the SRD tightly until the ice melted and then released the whole SRD allowing my freedom.
Before setting off on the final stage, I switched the video camera on to record my session.
For my delayed release I had set the SRD behind my back, with a rope noose and the tightening pull-cord close to hand. Pulling the two remaining knee-highs over each hand and over the long sleeves of the body-stocking completed my near total encasement (next time I will go for 100% 😁 ). I placed my wrists behind me, slid the rope noose up my left arm and forced both wrists through a rope that was pre-formed into a series of loops just large enough for me to squeeze my wrists through and still be comfortable. Now I worked the noose back down over the left wrist so that it would cinch the wrist loops together when pulled tight. After pausing to check everything I could think about was OK (you all know this part! Did I lock the front door? Am I sure no-one is planning to visit? Are my safety devices in place? Is it warm enough to melt the ice before my partner comes home? And all the other last minute worries! )
Finally ready, I hauled on the tightening rope of the SRD. After a few tugs I felt the noose begin to tighten, a few more and I was already getting that delicious feeling of being truly helpless. Even though the noose was now tight, cinching my wrists helplessly together, I still pulled the rope tighter and my wrists where now pulled backwards away from my body, not quite a Strappado but close. 8)
Now I was truly stuck, with no escape until the ice melted or I paid the price of an early release. I had deliberately made my predicament worse by the need to remain balanced on the edge of the bed. The pull on my arms and wrists tried to tumble me backwards off the rolled duvet, but that would cause the emergency release to happen not something I wanted to undergo! :twisted: I could use my bound legs as a lever to keep me upright (tying my ankles to the bed was a great help), but this was very exhausting. The best approach I found was to remain perfectly still and the balance held.
Do you have any idea how hard it is to stay still when youre bound and turned on? :?:
I desperately wanted to writhe and stimulate myself. The rope holding my plug in was a real distraction, any movement caused it to push the butt-plug a little and my breathing caused movement! I tried leaning forwards, which helped for a little time, but the rope pulling my wrists backwards became uncomfortable after a minute or two (my shoulders would start to ache) and I had to move backwards again, risking the overbalance and . !
Always before my SB antics had a fairly easy escape route maybe a long crawl, an awkward shuffle or fiddling with lots of rope and knots I knew I could be free if I wanted to be. This session was different, freedom was possible but at a cost I didnt really want to pay (unless the house caught fire or something similarly awful happened). I wasnt going to be free until that ice melted, I couldnt fall asleep and let the time pass without falling over (not good!) so I had to stay alert and focused.
After around 20 minutes I tried tugging on the SRD hoping it would come free nothing gave. I tried twisting and pulling my wrists free of the cinched loops stuck solid. I even tried to alter my position to ease the balancing no slack to move.
It was my ultimate SB experience so far! And, despite all the aches and effort, I was loving every moment of it! After around 45 minutes (I could just make out the LED of the bedside clock) I was even beginning to plan my next session I could be fully encased, use more ice, rig a delayed enema
Finally after just over an hour I felt the SRD noose rope become slack and my arms, through still bound, could relax against my back once more - howvere, I still wasnt free! Even though the SRD had been released I had to struggle to free the noose cinch and avoid the dreaded over-balancing. I guess it took me a further 5 minutes of often frantic struggles to free my wrists and another 5 minutes to de-activate the emergency release and un-tie my legs (important safety note to self what if there had been an really urgent need to be free?).
As you might imagine the final release was well deserved 😁
The release:
Waiting for those ice cubes to melt sufficiently, to allow the laundry bag to pull through the small ring, which retained the SRD highly recommended.
What went well?
Nearly all of it! I still get turned on watching the recording of myself!
What could be improved?
I really want to figure out a great way of using rope to bind my wrists, but for it not be too much of a struggle to free myself (the fine line between sexy and scary!) or maybe find something else (not keen on handcuffs) that can give me the same feelings.
I want to be fully encased in nylon/lycra (I was so close, yet so far!) But I have to figure out how to see and feel my way into SB through the layers covering me.
Could I incorporate an enema as part of the release method? My idea is that I would be forced to start it as part of the initial release and then have x minutes to fully free myself, as it emptied into my body (it took nearly 10 minutes in my session). Has anyone tried this do you have any tips or ideas?
There! I hope you folks enjoyed another one of my sessions - I do have some screen shots from the video, but Ra would have to OK them before I would post (his site - his rules).
hey!!.. i have followed SB for some time now and find it so much fun. I am a twenty year old male and feel like i have hit a SB wall so to speak lol. I am looking for a kind of virtual top who can give me orders to follow and scenarios to act out. i own a set of handcuffs,nipple clamps,clothes pegs,rope,chain,padlocks,high heels,various womens clothes and i guess what ever else you guys and gals can think of round the home....or ive heard in the garden 😋 (nettles) 😋 i dont really have any quims with anything and will try anything once no matter how twisted or evil lol. i really think it would be a massive turn on doin something that someone else wants me to do....and there may be some photographic evidence in it for you 😊 i hope to hear from someone and i will be waiting hogtied next to my laptop !!! lol
thankyou very much and ii cant wait for some instructions......use me and abuse me.... :twisted:
I thought I read someplace that u can buy fake piss. That tastes like piss to be used in sessions where you want sub to drink a lot of piss, but don't want to have to come up with it on the spot. Anyone know of such a thing?
3 eyebolts
4 wood screws
3 pieces of wood to make candle box
taper candle (recommend several for practice runs)
candlestick holder
mason's line
whatever SB paraphenialia you happen to enjoy
Disclaimer: This SB involved candles with exposed flames. Always keep safety first when dealing with fire. In short, please don't burn yourself, others, or your house if attempting this
So, i got my things together to do another sb last night, this one based off of this picture:
There were a few modifications that i made, and a few more i want to make for next time (and i definitely want there to be a next time)
Here's the layout of my release mechanism, and I'll go into it a little more then:
The basics are the same as the original art, candle burns down, burns the string, which releases the key from a ceiling ring. However, i did not cut the hole in the candle like in the picture, to make sure that the candle remained stable during the burn (don't need it going out or falling over and starting the house on fire)
My design for the candle box was a base with two sides of uneven length. The short end would be just shorter than where you want the candle to be when it burns through the rope, and the other side at least a few inches higher. Attach one eye bolt standing straight up on the edge of the short board and another eye bolt perpendicular at the same height on the long board. Use the wood screws to put everything together, and then install the third eye bolt in the ceiling above where you want your release to drop
Take your candle and put it into the candlestick holder, and set them in the middle of the candle box. Being how i'm in the US, i got 10 inch taper candles from WalMart for $.78 each, and picked up several. You may want to run through this release one or two times without bondage to see how the timing works (more on that later)
Cut off a length of mason string (if you can't find it, it's a very thin nylon rope, don't use jute or any kind of plant type twine!!!! nylon will stop burning almost immediately after the flame is removed, especially with such a thin cord, but twine burns -real- well ... and you don't want to race to release yourself so you can stop your house from burning down). Tie one end of the cord to your keys and the other end goes through the ceiling eye bold, the eye bolt on the short board, and tied to the eye bold on the long board. Make sure that you have the cord resting against the side of the candle with at least a little tension. The weight of the keys should keep the line taut but not be heavy enough to move the candle
The idea being that while the candle is burning, the cord will just sit there, but when the candle gets low enough, the cord will slowly slide across the candle top (it will get slowed down by the hot wax before it gets to the flame) which burns the cord. As soon as it breaks, the weight of the keys pulls the cord away and drops your release.
i recommend testing the device out before actually using it. Different kinds of candles burn at different speeds, and having an idea when it will release is good to know (in my case, the rope burned in 4.5 hours after burning 7 inches, so i know that it will go through about an inch every 40 minutes). Also, make sure there's no heavy breezes going through your play area, such as fans, heavy air conditioning, etc. If the candle gets blown out then you'd have to have a backup readily accesible to get out.
After all that's done comes the fun part, getting tied up! For this time around, i was wearing my maid's uniform, rope tied around my ankles and knees, and handcuffs behind my back, not a lot, but plenty where i have poor flexibility. i had waited to lock myself in until there was only about an inch of burn left, so i wasn't in the whole 4.5 hours. i also had a vibrating inflatable plug in that i could inflate and deflate, and an egg vibe on my clit as well and a panel gag in my mouth. Even the short time i spent in this position drove me nuts.
Overall i think the project last night was a success, but i'd rather use rope cuffs or padded leather ones and secured in the front next time, so i'll need to rethink my actual release mechanism (scissors work good for cutting rope, but i don't want to tie a pair of scissors in the air over me ... that would just be bad when it all came down)
If people want, i could redo this again in the very near future and get some pictures posted
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