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I have a question

I started playing around with the idea of a buttplug for the first time ever and at around 15cm the plug stopped and as i pushed it further it caused some discomfort

Is this the "it only hurts the first time" barrier or my limit for how big a plug to use??

noticed you've got a corset for your birthday 😊

wanted to put a link to a site that i've bought all my corsets from, http://www.axfords.com has a handful of corsets, but what caught my attention was that they do sell corsets for men. You're still able to get the hourglass figure, but the shape is more suited to a mans size.

Bought the male one first, and have then since bought two female ones, and i've been pleased with them all.

Just thought i would mention it in case you (like me) decided that one wasn't enough 😊

Hi all you happy bondagers!

Seeking some advice on a silly problem 😯ops:

When I use the 'ring device' to tighten my bondage (always the fun part!) I always have a problem with rope twisting around and preventing the method working properly. 😟

As I pull the rope through the two metal loops, it begins to twist and tangle around itself and the rope to my bound hands - making pulling it tight very difficult.

I've tried different ropes (braided nylon, cotton and twisted nylon) but they all seem to suffer the same.

Any suggestions to a cure?

Frustrated and not even in bondage!

MJ

I am a practising self bondage ...guy

i came back early from a holiday due to illness to find my 14 yr old son had hogtied himself (very proffesionally i must say with a rope tying his big toes together linked to a gag) and also managed a self-torment (anchoring balls to a chair with knife/scissors jus a little way out of reach with an ice padlock to release him to get the knife/scissors with no back up available b4 the ice melted)

i was kinda impressed but should i be worried or should i allow him his own space

or even give him some tips?

some suggestions would be appreciated

Not been anything on here for a week or two, everything ok?

Hi to all

Ok - my first posting anywhere of a real self-bondage session hock:

Please be gentle with me in your critique 😯ops:

Forum regulars will, I hope, recall that I was going to enjoy(?!) a weeks freedom(??) to indulge my favorite fetishes - this is my first report back.

Some readers will notice that I have included an element that I previously disliked - well I can change my mind and try new things if I want!

Others will spot that I went against some of our esteemed host's advice - I did take precautions that I felt where appropriate, but ALWAYS ALWAYS stop and think before you attempt anything

If you like the following please say so (hopefully now the scene is set the others can be a little shorter in length 😯ops: )

There are another 4 sessions I'd be happy to share with you all - inlcuding my longest SB to date!
😁

MJ


The first session:

I had decided to set this session up in the hallway leading to the bathroom. My plan was to undertake a standing self-bondage with enema and then be forced to not only release myself from the initial bondage, but also endure a short struggle (hmm!) to the bathroom before being able to be free of the enema!

The plug was secured in place simply using the combined pull of the two pairs of control pantyhose, a long sleeved body-stocking and lycra leotard – no need for any fancy rope-work – the enema tube being fed out by the back of my neck. The tube was fastened closed by a simple clamp.
My ankle boots are a personal favourite (they have 12cm heels) and add certain ‘look’ to my sessions. I used leather ankle-cuffs to fix a 60cm spreader bar in place, with the cuffs and bar attached using two padlocks (keys aeady located some distance away in the bathroom).

Next stage was to complete my encasement (almost) in nylon. I used another pair of pantyhose (doubled up) to form a hood. Over my hood I attached my favourite head-harness and gag – pushing the nylon into my mouth (nice!). I finished off with two pairs of knee-highs as fingerless gloves, completely covering my hands and arms over the body-stocking sleeves.

I had aeady attached a strong rope over the top of a locking door that opened towards me (I couldn’t fall forward or backwards as the door couldn’t accidentally open – safety always considered), with a noose at the very top on my side. I had left enough slack in the enema tube to allow it to be clipped to the noose rope when I stood against the door.

The final stage was to use a short (about 3m) length of rope to bind my wrists in a figure of eight fashion – through the noose loop.

I probably need to explain this further.
For the figure of eight binding I tie a small overhand knot at each end on the rope – just large enough to slip over my wrist. I take one end and place my left wrist through the tied loop, then use the rope to wind round my right wrist, then left then right again in a figure of eight (will try to post photo if required) until I am left with the final loop. This is where you can be too brave! Lessons learnt the hard way prove that you SHOULD NOT try to make the rope as tight as possible and then slip the final loop over your right wrist – It is nearly impossible to remove! I always leave a little slack allowing some movement of wrists when the final loop is on.

Please trust me on this – the restriction of even this simple binding can be most effective, especially if you are adept enough to do it behind your back.

Whilst doing the figure of eight I have also been passing the rope through the noose so that it actually acts as a cinch to my wrist bonds (again – if required will try to post picture, but think similar exists in the old ‘Bondage Life’ drawings for a self-bondage tie).

Now for the moment of truth – a smart pull downwards of the wrists and the noose cinches them tightly together and hold them fixed just above my head. I test the bonds and they feel nice and secure, so I reach up and release the clamped enema pipe. Once freed the pipe falls backwards, down and away from me. The flow starts and there is no way I can easily stop it – I can’t reach the pipe, I can get higher then the enema bag, I can’t move away from the door and my spread legs are aeady beginning to tremble.

Now I can enjoy the feeling of helplessness. Twisting and turning just a little and grinding myself against the door in sexual frustration (did I mention the knee-high encasing my cock and twisted under my balls to be pulled down a second time, covering me in two layers of very tight nylon? Very sexy, but also de-sensitising in a strange way). The enema is slowly filling me up and my legs are beginning to tremble – have you ever tried to stand with legs spread in high-heels for any length of time? (And hats off to the ladies out there who can!)

Now I’m playing a game of dare with myself – how long can I hold on before attempting my escape? Too quick and I’ll feel that I’ve wasted a session, too long and I’m in trouble. I can’t see a clock, but guess that about 5 minutes have passed since I committed myself to bondage. No cramps yet, but arms are beginning to ache a little.

This is the danger (and delight) of my position – arms are heavy (fact), blood is lost along with sensation if they are held above your head for any length of time (fact), left too long and you may never be able to free yourself and incur permanent injury (fact). The heaviness of my arms is pulling them downwards and thus, the cinch noose tighter. I constantly flex and move them, partly for the joy of struggle but also to keep movement and feeling in them.

After approx 10 minutes (I did check later – the whole session lasted just over 30mins from attaching the spreader bar to final release) I know that I have to be free. The first cramps are beginning and my fingers are tingling – all sure signs pointing to a need for release.

First task is to free the cinch noose – this is quite difficult through two layers of nylon (try it!) especially when you use a high friction piece of thick cotton rope. Once I’ve the noose loose (unintended rhyme) I start the struggle with the wrist loops and figure of eight. Remember – my arms are still held above me even though the cinch is slack (any slip will re-tighten it again) and I’ve got fingerless nylon mittens on.

Eventually the coils fall free and I’m able to lower my hands again. I re-clamp the now empty enema tube close to the plug and begin a very awkward waddle to the bathroom – spreader and high-heels doing their job well – using the walls and furniture for support en-route.

Finally I reach my goal – the bathroom.

Keys and release, in every sense of the word, where mine.

Hope you all enjoyed a genuine report of my first SB session of spring.

Happy binding

MJ

Hi all

Stumbled across this seller on EBAY the other day
pantyhose-clothes

(I think this should work :? )

I have not purchased anything from them (....yet ), so can not tell you if they are good or bad, but you may wish to try for yourselves.

MJ

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Hi to all you happy perverts 😁

Have managed to get myself a few days of freedom (or hopefully not! ) and plan to make the very best use of them for some serious and not so serious SB and Pantyhose fun

Ideally looking to try 4 or 5 sessions over the same number of days and am seeking some fresh ideas to try out.

I've got likes, dislikes and 'might likes', just like the rest of us - so if I give you some 'props' can people suggest some scenes?

I like to use
Pantyhose (tights) in Tan or Black
High-heeled boots (very sexy lace-up ankle boots)
Zentai suit (I have one in black)
Ball (including a head-harness) and ring gags
Enemas (only water and soapy water to date)
Encasement (pantyhose, zentai and plastic wrap)
lycra leotard, tight body & shorts
Rope (lots of!)
Cuffs and chains (wrist, ankle and collar)
Butt-plugs (small or medium) or dildos (small - medium)
A rope hoist (manual, but good for four times my weight)

I like to be: 😁
Helpless (well, that's the idea of SB, isn't it... )
Wrists tied with rope (it's the ultimate turn-on for me, but how to make it work with SB?)
Suspended or at least tied with my head below my waist (is this even safe for long periods of time? :? )
Standing, but unable to move (tie to fixed object or tethered to a beam)
Comfortable.. err! Let me try to explain - I want my bondage to be erotic not sadistic. So that means tight is good 😁 , but rolling around in agony is bad :cry: . Enemas are good when they push all the right buttons, but very bad when the cramps are so painful you want to cry.

to mis-quote a favorite author: Erotic is using a feather, not the whole chicken!

I might like: :?
An enema I'd be 'forced' to hold (haven't yet been brave enough to really be helpless and administer one - always hit the 'panic-button' early into the session, so maybe...?)
An enema other than just water or soapy water
To be truely bound for a set time (I have always able to either chicken out or escape my SB so far)
Other stimulation (maybe some sort of device to tease me??)
The prospect of a forced drink (have ring-gag, so can't stop... ?)
All night session (can you sleep in bondage?... WOW to wake up clad in pantyhose and bound 😁 )
Bound to something other than a bed (Chair, table... ?)
Latex (don't currently have anything, but might purchase something if cost ok and scene a good one 😊 )
Pantyhose encasement bondage with a timed release (I can comfortably use XXL panthose to trap my legs together and also my arms behind my back (the wonderful Ra has described this techique elsewhere), but I can never figure out how to make the bondage 'stick' for a timed period)

I don't like: hock:
Extreme pain and discomfort (sorry folks - I'm not going to crawl though nettles to get to a key)
Humiliation or the risk of discovery (this is taking place indoors and I'm not risking any type of 'trip in the dark' to get keys from under a bush or similar)
Anything too complex and/or risky to set up and escape from (not 'keys in the post' or subject to variables)
Long trails to recover keys (never been a turn-on to crawl through the house to undo lots of different locks)
Too much flesh being exposed (another one to explain - encasement is my thing, nylon being the best material. If I can, then I always cover everything up in multiple layers, body, legs, head, cock and balls (mmm... nice!) arms and hands. So naked or too much flesh probably won't work for me)

So... there you go - my dirty pervert life on a page (or 2)

Really hope that someone can come up with a good idea (or 5!) and should I try it out (and I survive ) I promise to report back to the forum.

Over to you players now - I promise to respond by the end of April and will report back on anything tried around mid-May

Looking forward (I hope :? ) to your ideas

MJ