Hi, My name is John. I’m new to this site. I have been interested in all kinds of erotic bondage as I can remember. Much of it involved self bondage. I have a few Pics of myself that I would like to share.
And My knots and ties, which is Japanese style of bondage, more close to shibari. This one is full of photo tutorials and links to tutorial videos which I did.
I see not much people know about them, but they are quite usable, and you can theoretically learn from images (or videos) even if you don't understand English.
Yet note: On the second blog, some ties are my own development based on photos of other riggers, and I try to improve them. So until this tie has no "official release" description, it may change in future.
Finally you can visit my favourites sites and articles here: http://tinyurl.com/97cbp5w
(Pearltrees tree)
Yes! I fixed the video problem, so I hope that the pictures will paint a thousand words here!
Equipment:
70den open crotch nylon bodysuit
20den sheer pantyhose
5 knee-highs
Large butt plug
Condom
Home made ‘penis’ gag
Duct tape
Black lycra body
Large plastic bag with attached breather tube
Elastic band
Vacuum cleaner
Digital timer
Ear Plugs
Plastic pipes and pair of socks!
The session:
Spurred on by the results of my first session of the day ( MJ-SB04/2012 ) I wanted more of the same, only different!
Fixing my video capture was number one priority and took no time at all – fix was to RTFM (‘Read The F@@@@g Manual’ – something the human male, especially me, very rarely does!), too late to salvage the lost session but good to go for round 2.
My clothing remained unchanged, but I did add two extra wraps of duct tape around my head to further secure the gag in my mouth (my saliva from the day’s first session had cause it to loosen).
I moved the plastic bag to the bed, wedging the vacuum cleaner pipe under the foot-board to ensure it couldn’t move during my session. Inside the bag I added a 90degree angled connector pipe plus a 1m length of additional pipe (important tip coming up).
To make sure the air would be sucked from the bag I had to ensure the pipe wasn’t going to be closed off by the plastic – to solve this I used an old trick with a pair of socks. One sock went over the open end of the pipe (which would be close to my shoulders) and the other went over the end of the vacuum cleaner pipe where it connected to the 90 bend. In both cases the socks allowed air to be sucked though by the vacuum cleaner and prevented any chance of plastic sealing the opening whilst any air was left in the bag.
With timer set and everything ready I started my session….
1. You can see most of my set up here, bag on the bed, with vacuum and tubes in place
2. Getting inside the bag – sliding my nylon encased body into the plastic bag always feels so very sexy!
3. Connecting my gag to the breather pipe – safety first, do not seal the bag until you know you can breathe
4. After sealing the bag I pull two knee-highs on each arm, now I’m almost 100% encased in wonderful sexy nylon. Also my hands are now almost useless as my fingers slip and slide ineffectually against the nylon and plastic around my body
5. Waiting for the vacuum to start – I couldn’t resist a little ‘stimulation’
6. First 1 minute cycle – I’m helpless, but there is a slight leak somewhere and though I am well ‘vacuum packed’ it’s not as intense as last time. I love the tightness around my cock though!
7. Now into my 4 minutes respite and I’m trying to make a better seal, but it’s a struggle.
8. Vacuum is suddenly back on and I’m now trapped for 5 long minutes in an unintended pose – but it’s rather fun to be doing something different
9. Still trapped and unable to escape, but I know the seal is still leaking and that takes away some of the fun
10. Freedom at last! But also a sense of disappointment
What went well?
Lying on the bed was very comfortable – if only I was sure of the safety (vacuum cleaner NOT bursting into flames) I could do this for much longer
Video capture worked – Yes! Once more I have defeated the forces of evil software design!
What could be improved?
The seal leaking slightly – This happens too often and I can’t seem to find a 100% effective way of making the seal work every time… practise, practise and more practise is required!
HD web camera – anyone got experience of, preferably cheap, HD webcams?
At last, some time home alone to play my second favourite type of tie-up game.
Sorry about this being very long – I suffered from ‘idiot fingers’ when trying to save the video and currently have no images to share (see ‘What could be improved’ for more)
Equipment:
70den open crotch nylon bodysuit
20den sheer pantyhose
5 knee-highs
Large butt plug
Condom
Small stool
Home made ‘penis’ gag
Duct tape
Black lycra body
Large plastic bag with attached breather tube
Elastic band
Vacuum cleaner
Digital timer
Ear Plugs
The session:
After what seems to have been a lifetime I was finally not only home alone, but guaranteed to be undisturbed for a whole 24hrs plus! In short I was free to indulge myself in some serious self-bondage fun. The only dark cloud on the horizon was a niggling injury that I knew would limit some of my scenarios.
With the votes in from my forum poll (thanks to those who took the time) considered, I was going to try several different scenarios and, if possible, deny myself any orgasm until very late in the day.
My first choice was a real favourite of mine – the vacuum bag!😁
Clothing would be simple; my nylon bodysuit (open crotch, with inbuilt penis sheath which went over my condom encased cock), followed by sheer pantyhose and black Lycra body. I had already inserted the well lubed butt-plug an the pantyhose and body worked to push it pleasantly deep inside my ass as I moved around the room.
I also added my ear plugs, pushing them deep inside my ears to both protect me and also add the strange isolation of near deafness.
I set the stool up inside the bag; the area between the legs filled with pillows and with a towel between the stool legs protecting the delicate plastic from accidental puncture. I set up a webcam to capture the session and record direct to my laptop hard-drive. The vacuum was tested and the pipe from the cleaner positioned so that it was deep within the cushions, preventing the plastic from sucking into the opening. I also used a short length of cycle inner tube as a seal for where the vacuum pipe entered the plastic back (this works just as well as tape and is much easier to remove without damage to the delicate bag).
The digital timer was set to start the vacuum after approx 15 minutes, run for a minute, then switch of for 4 minutes before running for 5 minutes. The one minute session is always to check my comfort and safety. I can last for 2 minutes (if calm) without air and that safety factor is one I use to double check I am ok for the longer 5 minute session – any issues I abort before the vacuum re-starts. (I can also break out of the bag, just, but doing so will destroy it and is a final, real emergency, back-up escape).
My gag for the session was a new DIY ‘penis’ gag, which I had fashioned from a disposable asthma inhaler used by my GF. I’ve always thought these to be quite phallic in nature and tease her about them when she uses it. You will recall that I’d already adapted one as a DIY enema plug ( link ). This time I had simply drilled a hole through the plastic that was exactly the same size as my breather pipe. I placed the plastic penis, ‘tip’ first, in my mouth and then thoroughly secured it in place with duct tape, ensuring that the seal around my lips was as airtight as possible. Using sharp scissors I worked a hole through the tape to match up with the hole in the base – testing the opening for size with a spare section of pipe, the fit was very tight and I had to bite down on the plastic to stop it from pushing down my throat.
Satisfied that it would work and that I could breathe freely through the gag I pulled an knee-high over my head and tore a small hole to align with the opening. This was partly my desire to be 100% encased in nylon (well, very nearly) and also to mask my face from the camera.
Checking the timer (and resetting the clock to give me 14 minutes before the power came on) I gathered up a strong elastic band and 4 more knee-highs and, after starting the webcam recording, I quickly carefully stepped into the bag. Once inside my first action was (and always is) to attach the breather pipe to by gag – again this took some effort and I had to bite down hard on the plastic to hold it still as I pushed the pipe home (the fit was very secure), only when I was happy that my airway was clear did I continue.
Taking great care not to damage the plastic I positioned myself bent forwards over the stool, kneeling on the floor, with my legs each side on the stool and my ass extended slightly back whilst my chest rested on the stool top. I reached upwards to the open end of the bag, gathered in the plastic rim and using the elastic band created an airtight seal. I fumbled to pull two knee-highs up each arm, past the elbow, adding a final double layer of encasement to my predicament.
As always at this point time seems to slow down. I was sealed within the plastic, with only a 14mm wide pipe connecting me to the outside air. I could draw air in through my nose, but it was warm, smelling of my sweat and arousal. I sucked air in through my nose and blew it out through my mouth, until I started to become slightly light headed at which point I switched totally to breathing through my mouth. Not knowing how for sure much time remained before the vacuum switched on all I could do was try to settle myself calmly in a comfortable position, experimenting with how my arms would be and deciding that grasping the bar of the stool under where my head would be was a good starting point.
Still waiting for the timer to kick in I went through the usual worries – would the timer work? Had I switched the vacuum on? Would the seals work? Was my airway clear?
After what appeared to be an eternity the vacuum suddenly fired up, it’s muted roar just audible through the layers surrounding my body and the plugs in my ears. The process always starts of relatively slowly; the plastic initially crinkles, then draws closer to my body before suddenly snapping tight around me. This time I immediately knew I’d got my set-up just about perfect.
Sometimes, if the seal isn’t perfect, the vacuum holds but is constantly drawing in air through the tiniest hole in the bag leaving a small degree of movement, but this time after the initial surge there was no relaxing of the vacuum and I found myself being clamped tighter and tighter by the enveloping plastic layer.
My head was forced downwards overcoming my attempts of resistance, bending my neck down and in, towards the legs of the stool. I almost panicked, imagining the breathing tube being forced into the plastic and sealing off my air supply, but thankfully it remained clear. My legs where so immovably clamped to the stool that the wooded frame was almost painfully pressing against my thighs. My hands suffered worse, being crushed against the frame so hard that the edge of the wood painfully bit into my fingers. My torso was similarly welded to the top of the stool, effectively leaving me utterly immobile and truly helpless.
Always before I’ve felt that I could break free of the plastic membrane by pushing my fingers through the material, but this time that simply wasn’t an option. With a sudden thrill, I fully understood my predicament – I was truly and helplessly trapped, with escape only possible through the power down cycle of the vacuum cleaner. I was no longer in any kind of control of my fate and I loved it! Only the discomfort of my fingers caused me any concern.
The 1 minute cycle seemed to run forever, and my fingers screamed for release, but I was still revelling in my helplessness. Eventually there was silence and the vacuum very slowly released its grip around me. At last I could free my aching fingers and flex some life back into them… but I was incredibly aroused and wanted more.
I knew I had 4 minutes to either escape or re-position myself before the cycle started again – it didn’t take even 1 second for me to elect to be helpless again!
One change I knew I had to make was to reposition my arms for the longer cycle, moving them to the front legs of the stool with my hands grasping each leg. I also shuffled my torso forwards across the stool, moving my breathing tube further from any risk of obstruction.
The 4 minutes seemed to fly by as my excitement built, the muted sound of the vacuum cleaner taking me by surprise as it re-started.
Once again the bag pulled incredibly tight, with all the seals working perfectly. The vacuum around my head was especially intense; sucking the plastic so tight that I couldn’t open my eyes. My head was again bowed down by the action of the plastic pulling tighter and tighter, and my hands and arms, in their new positions, became welded to the stool legs. The whole experience was just as intense as before, but there was more to come.
This time, whether because of my new position or the longer cycle time, a new experience forced itself upon me. The gag, previously a mouth-filling but inert object, now seemed to come alive as the clamping of the bag forced the plastic penis inexorably deeper into my mouth. The action was unexpected; I was being involuntarily being forced to take it further into my mouth, with the plastic penis slowly slipping deeper and deeper. I must confess that I’m not able to deep-throat and so my limits are probably laughably small. The plastic plug I used is 85mm long and 33mm at it’s widest. There is a 10mm ribbed base after the smooth body of my fake penis and normally I can not take it close to that depth. Today however I was fighting to prevent the invader slipping into my throat. My mouth was full of saliva (it was dripping out of the breather tube) and I couldn’t quite grip the smooth plastic with my teeth. At first this was alarming as I almost gagged, then my teeth held it for a short while and I relaxed. But my respite was short lived as once again it slipped deeper inside before I could grip it once more. Eventually I felt the softer ribbed plastic against my teeth and was able to gain a firm grip on the intruder. The initial gagging had subsided and my feelings had slowly changed from alarm through acceptance to arousal.
As always once I knew I was helpless, but safe, I relaxed into the zone of self-bondage bliss and I began to let my imagination and fantasy take over. My situation was incredibly erotic, no rope or chain could have held me so immobile with my whole physical being welded to the unforgiving wooden stool. No amount of struggle (and believe me I did try!) gave me any slack or freedom of movement. I could just about rock the stool from side to side, but my body never shifted its position against the wooden frame. I fantasised about all kinds of additions to my predicament, becoming aroused and desperate for stimulation but unable to gain anything. My cock was hard, but trapped against the stool top with no amount of effort bringing stimulation; the plug in my ass was equally immobile, held firmly in place by the plastic clamping around my body.
During those 5 minutes of utter helplessness I was at the mercy of my imagination and arousal - any touch from outside would I am sure have resulted in almost immediate orgasm. My mind was full of the most intense imaginings of sexual eroticism, many beyond my ‘normal’ (whatever that might be) limits.
Too soon the vacuum was released and slowly I emerged from my plastic cocoon – sweat soaked, aroused and desperate for more.
What went well?
The vacuum seals – they where the best I have achieved for a long time, bringing the ultimate experience of being cocooned in the tightest plastic encasement imaginable.
The position – the stool is a new purchase for the household and I am very pleased with how it can be (mis-?) used for self-bondage fun.
The gag – It was so challenging, but so erotic I must do it again.
What could be improved?
My PC skills! – I had 5Gb of video capture for one of my most intense sessions ever, but I failed to format it properly (I clicked out too early - fingers still in nylon encasement!) before doing the ‘Save captured file as’ action… what an idiot! It’s now lost forever, though I now realise I could have saved it all….DOH!
Longer sessions – when things go as well as they did I wish I was longer in the session, but I’m unsure about overloading the vacuum cleaner. I will do better next time!
The gag – I want to explore this area further, the hard plastic was effective, but I think something broader and softer would be even more arousing. I also would like a larger breathing tube, but that needs the broader penis head as well.
Hope you enjoyed my long posting and as always, but especially with this scenario, PLAY SAFE!
I am constantly amazed by how phallic some of the bottles containing my girlfriend’s beauty products are – this one really caught my eye.
The dimensions are:
Length (including top): 190mm
External width of base: 48mm
Internal width of shaft: 40mm
Max width of ‘head’: 50mm
Needless to say, when she’d finished with it I swiftly ‘recycled’ it for my own perverted uses! 😁
The product has a ‘pump-action’ delivery system, which when empty leaves almost the full length of the shaft empty and open at the base and is just the right width for my cock (easier if only semi-erect, but a fun struggle with lube when I’m really turned on! From personal experience using it as a ‘sheath’ is really successful at numbing any sensation whilst allowing the wearer to enjoy an erection (so not really a true chastity device) – in test sessions it has very effectively stopped me from achieving orgasm, but at the same time produced a very intense sensation as my cock became erect and was constricted by the tube.
The cap (‘Big head’ sorry ‘Bed head’ – who are they kidding) also has potential – easiest option was a very big gag (I am just about able to get it in my mouth – very sexy, but for me too much for anything other than short session use). The next one is as a container for a remote vibrating device – this is something I really want to try, with my cock in the tube and the vibrator on a timer to on/off during a session when I want to be teased to almost orgasm.
I think the cap could also be used as a sort of chastity device, with your cock tucked up inside and the cap then fastened/locked into place somehow?
Though the dispensing nozzle is as close to the head of a cock as I’ve seen outside of a sex-shop I’m not sure if the device could be used as a dildo – too many sharp edges and no flex! 😟
I’m currently investigating into if I can adapt the ‘pump’ action to create a vacuum and ‘suck’ my cock inside and keep it trapped – exciting idea, yes?
Those are just my ideas, I’m sure there are readers with even more suggestions.
Enjoy
MJ
Ps. look out for a posting of this in use during a session soon
I'm the type who doesn't like horror movies at all, and especially don't like computer screamers so this scenario is really weird that I'm thinking of but exciting at the same time. I like doing self hogties occasionally and usually like to be gagged thorough. My idea was to either watch a movie or an Internet show that I know will scare the heebie jeebies out of me while bound and gagged with headphones on my head(possibly taped to my head) so I'll be forced to hear it through.
Now I know this won't work on a lot of people because they are probably desensitized to violent movies. Strangely I can play violent games no problem and see violence and gore to an extent without batting an eye. However, there's something about the eerie or unsettling that specifically makes my blood run cold, but I'm wondering is it going to be exciting for me to try to get free so I don't have to see/hear what's next or am I simply going to be too scared to get into the session. I'm thinking something along the lines of either Paranormal Activity or an Internet movie/show that I know has a good amount of screamers/jump scares. I'm also not sure if I should go gagged or not, I really like gags plus don't want to scream and alert my neighbor in the apartment beside me, but at the same time wonder how safe it will be if I get a jump scare while gagged, especially with stuffing.
These are rope ratchets, not for the belts I used previously but just for normal rope. Yesterday I decided to do a quick test with them to see how they hold up in self bondage. I found them at Gamma, a hardware store chain in Belgium, for I think 5€ a piece. They work very well and should be able to hold 150kg.
I put on a bra, swimsuit, leotard and a zip up swimsuit and tied myself up. When I say quick experiment it really was quick. Less than 10 minutes for the tie, then less than 10 in bondage because I needed to get out and clean up before the girlfriend gets home 😊
The release I used is the same as explained in my "knot release" scenario: knot release, but I just let the release hang loose. This in order to get out without issue for stated reason.
Here are a few screencaps from the video I recorded:
This under 10 minute tie was amazingly one of the best I did so far, very comfortable yet restrictive. The short time is like a sprint from "I'm so horny" to "I'm stuck" in a blink. Usually it takes longer, you have to think hard, decide to change something, try something new, test it first. This was easy and before the hesitation or rational thinking creeps in I was securely tied.
I will use the exact same one next time but then use the release method where I have to anchor a ring attached to my mask and pull as explained also here. But then I will put the anchor point in the next room and something that requires a lot of cleaning when knocked over in the doorway, that should get me motivated to do some real struggling. Hopefully I will have time to "anonymize" the room so I can record a video for you.
For quite a long time I am looking for a specific skirt that I have seen in a music video from Black Eyed Peas, "My Humps". The video is not available on youtube, so I took a few screenshots. It doesn't need to be exactly the same skirt, but similar cut, could be stretchy, which might be better for fitting my fairly narrow hips, it can be longer... Anyway, so far, I haven't found anything remotely similar. If you have ideas where to look, please post them here.
– something the human male, especially me, very rarely does!), too late to salvage the lost session but good to go for round 2.
so this scenario is really weird that I'm thinking of but exciting at the same time. I like doing self hogties occasionally and usually like to be gagged thorough. My idea was to either watch a movie or an Internet show that I know will scare the heebie jeebies out of me while bound and gagged with headphones on my head(possibly taped to my head) so I'll be forced to hear it through. 
