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What to do with fetishes?


General    18 Replies

Like Ra, 24 May 2020, 22:26

In this thread we defined what a fetish is: https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/showth...p?tid=2299
In this thread we discussed why we have/get fetishes: https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/showth...p?tid=2729

Next question: what to do with them?

Let's divide all fetishes in 3 groups:

Legal, harmless. Examples: fetish clothing, collecting stamps, delicate food
Legal, harmful. Examples: degrading hypnosis, heavy BDSM, alcohol, soft drugs (in some countries)
Illegal. Examples: necrophilia, paedophilia, bestiality, hard drugs, snuff

I could come up with 7 variants:

Indulge - just go on with it
Suppress - try to forget, that you have this fetish
Treat - seek professional advice (in the western science sense)
Go virtual - do nothing in the real world, and switch to drawings, animations, virtual reality, games.
Accept, dissolve - work with your traits using inner engineering, meditations, yoga
Don't know
Other

Did I miss anything? Let me know and I'll add new options and restart the poll. The poll is anonymous, but feel free to explain your choice below.

The whole list for easy copy&pasting/quoting:

Legal, harmless: indulge
Legal, harmless: suppress
Legal, harmless: treat
Legal, harmless: go virtual
Legal, harmless: accept, dissolve
Legal, harmless: don't know
Legal, harmless: other
Legal, harmful: indulge
Legal, harmful: suppress
Legal, harmful: treat
Legal, harmful: go virtual
Legal, harmful: accept, dissolve
Legal, harmful: don't know
Legal, harmful: other
Illegal: indulge
Illegal: suppress
Illegal: treat
Illegal: go virtual
Illegal: accept, dissolve
Illegal: don't know
Illegal: other


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ideas requested for SB with ants


Self-Bondage Session ideas, requests and fiction    2 Replies

sruticross1, 24 May 2020, 18:05

Iam into self bondage.I want to try with ants eating my ass and nipples.Please suggest me ideas or scenearios.Iam alone at home and wanted to try this.


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Best BDSM/Fetish mainstream movie


General    20 Replies

no smile, 23 May 2020, 21:57

Ok, I know there is already a thread about mainstream video but I found it to be mainly focused on video clip.

To be honest, I think we are missing a thread with great movies talking about our "way of life".  I don't know about you but I'm sick of badly made movie (or bad stories) using bdsm as an argument (and often their only argument).  Sadly, when searching about BDSM movie on the web, we find a lot of movie not really reflecting the kind of complex dynamic we could have.  So I wonder if we could make a list of "worth to watch kind of realistic" movies...  I know tastes might not be the same for everyone so it's quite difficult but we could stay at a list of the film we liked.  Or maybe list all of them but with a classification.

For example, I found these kind of movie to be boring and not worth watching (at least for the bdsm/fetish point of view) even they are all taken from a "top bdsm movie list on internet" :

  • fifty shades of grey (ok, I had to put it here)
  • 8mm
  • hellraiser (I don't even know what's doing there...)
Those are still low on my rate but at least, the fetish or bdsm part is worth watching (or a long enough part)
  • flower and snake (OK, good rope work but what a boring story)
  • Red Nights (beautiful vacbed scene (up to a point but you'll see if you watch 😉 : but as I recall, bdsm did again felt like an excuse)

Those are at middle high for me, worth mentioning :
  • My Mistress (good film, story is middle and this boy just want me to slap him (too much teenager like), but that's the point  😁 )
  • secretary (as always.  I need to rewatch it as it might be on the higher list but since I don't remember much, I'll put it here waiting to watch)
Those I believe are rather good movie, not always 100% realistic there is always a bunch of good things instead of just one.  (good story, interesting dynamic or photography, soundtrack, realism, ...)
  • The duke of Burgundy
  • Professor Marston and the Wonder Women (to be honest, this one was not event on the list, I can't believe it does not spread more on the community, even if it has already been mentioned here by @madjack, I believe it's one of the best film about bdsm relationship)
  • Bonding (TV series)
I know I saw some other film like "the story of O" but I don't recall anything about them, so they are probably in the middle.

What about your worth to watch list?


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Body-modification hypnosis


Hypnosis and Hypno-fetish    40 Replies

Like Ra, 23 May 2020, 21:11

Let's start with this:

Breast Enlargement Through Visual Imagery and Hypnosis by R D Willard
https://doi.org/10.1080/00029157.1977.10403875

Quote:Twenty-two female volunteers ranging in age from nineteen to fifty-four were asked to practice self-hypnosis and visual imagery in an attempt to enlarge the breasts. All subjects had some enlargement. The subjects who were able to visualize the greatest percentage of times tried had the greatest increase in breast size.

Hypnotic Stimulation of Breast Growth by  A R Staib, D R Logan
https://doi.org/10.1080/00029157.1977.10403876

Quote:An experiment was designed in an attempt to replicate the findings of a previous study which indicated that hypnosis could be used effectively to stimulate breast growth in adult women. Three adult women were given a series of hypnotic treatments in which sensations of breast growth were suggested. It was found that hypnotic stimulation of breast growth did result in larger breasts. A three month follow-up, not included in the previous study, demonstrated that while some decrease had occurred during the three months after the cessation of treatment, 81% of the gains made were retained. The authors agree with Williams (1974) that with further development this procedure could become a desirable alternative to surgical methods of breast augmentation.

Full articles attached.

In other words, it is possible to make physical transformation of the human body using hypnosis, what is not actually surprising, because your body and your mind regulate pretty much everything, what's going on inside. Think of hormonal balance, for example.

Do you know of any successful hypnotic body modifications that are visible by others? Any files? Links?

Can be anything: eye colour change, waist reducing, breast enlargement, hair growth, you name it.

Behaviour changes are excluded. For example, when hypnosis suggests to go to the gym and exercise. (See https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/Thread...t-hypnosis)



Attached Files
.pdf   Breast Enlargement through Visual Imagery and Hypnosis willard1977.pdf (Size: 407.62 KB / Downloads: 224)
.pdf   Hypnotic Stimulation of Breast Growth staib1977.pdf (Size: 642.62 KB / Downloads: 229)

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MANTYHOSE Emilio Cavallini


Колготки, чулки, купальники    No Replies

Garr, 23 May 2020, 17:14

Собственно колготки для мужчин.

 pantyhose_for_men-01.jpg   

Гульфик отсутствует. Состав: 92% полиамид, 8% эластан.
Вопросы
Кто пробовал надевал, как они вообще?
Чем отличается от женских?
Стоит ли их покупать или женские лучше?


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Тонкие колготки без блеска (под шорты)


Колготки, чулки, купальники    16 Replies

Aleksatv, 22 May 2020, 17:50

(22 May 2020, 14:43 )Like Ra Wrote:
(22 May 2020, 10:28 )VSK Wrote: Ещё можно понять, когда мужчине стрёмно надеть колготки 20-40 ден.
Тоненькие, с блеском "лучиком"! Или черную сеточку (поверх тоненьких блестящих 😋)

(22 May 2020, 10:28 )VSK Wrote: Хотя и с ними проблем никаких.
Ну, в черной сеточке с шортами я по улице пока не ходил 😁 А в тоненьких с блеском - никаких проблем!
Всем привет. Подскажите колготочки каких производителей знаете без блеска, надо матовые на 15-20 ден с шортиками одевать. Заранее спасибо.


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Story of a Leather Drive


Leather    4 Replies

PJNagrom, 22 May 2020, 13:33

I had a crazy (for me at least) adventure last week. I had to drive about an hour from home on an errand and I was leaving early in the morning around 6am. So I had a crazy idea that I can't believe I actually went through with. Nothing crazy happened but it sure was thrilling.

I woke up after a restless sleep because I knew I had planned this out. I dressed and left my room as I normally do while my wife slept. I then went downstairs, undressed and packed up my clothes for the other side of my trip. Then I slipped into my leather catsuit. I have a custom made leather catsuit that fits like a glove and has a full leather lining. There is really nothing like it. (From leder-deluxe.com which sadly closed)

I grabbed my stuff and peeked outside, it was pretty bright out but deserted. I slipped out and strolled to my car and climbed in. My heart was racing - i was outside, in broad daylight, dressed in full leather. The suit is quite snug so as I sat in the leather seat the whole suit stretched tight around my body.

I just knew I had to stay calm and relax so I started the car and slowly backed out to begin my trip. I took a deep breath and relaxed in my seat, reclined a little and enjoyed the feeling. As I drove I looked down at my legs and just had to touch the leather. The feeling was so smooth and soft I couldn't keep my hands on the wheel.

I kept to the speed limit and just looked at the sights and the other cars, enjoying every second. After about 4 miles I stopped at a traffic light and just looked at the other cars with oblivious drivers. Here I was, among people, in full, skin tight black leather. The riskiness of it all started to get me excited, and that's where the suit get devilish. It's skin tight, so as my erection grows the leather resists wonderfully. No underwear, of course so you feel yourself slide against the soft leather inside the suit.

I find myself shifting a little in my seat, which slides my leather ass against the leather seat - my arousal grows. I try to take a deep breath and my chest presses into the leather body of the suit - my arousal grows. I try to adjust my legs and I feel the leather tighten against my thighs - you get the idea. By the next traffic light I'm gripping the wheel and trying my best to concentrate on the road. The excitement builds no matter what I do and eventually, my resistance fails as I explode in the suit. All while other drivers around me remain oblivious. It was amazing.

Now I find myself trapped. The plan was to change in a quiet place near my destination. Instead I find myself on a busy street, stuck in full leather, with no way out. As I drive along I'm looking for somewhere to change and the sensation of being forced to wear the suit was a whole new kind of excitement.

Well, it wasn't long before I found a closed parking lot with a quiet corner where I could park, get out, change, and get cleaned up. I can't wait to try it again - next time I gotta bring more napkins LOL.


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Selfbondage


Español    7 Replies

Gaby, 20 May 2020, 10:58

Hola a tod@s, soy Gaby. Me encanta este sitio ya que  trata sobre dos cosas que me gustan mucho: bondage y selfbondage 😁 . Estoy en este mundillo desde que tengo memoria y cada vez me encanta más. Traté de mantener un blog con mis "aventuras" pero soy algo floja como para mantenerlo actualizado. Si lo quieres lee para saber un poco más de mi pues aquí les dejo el enlace, le puse como nombre "El Placer de las Cuerdas". Ya les digo que lo creé hace un par de años y no le he dado cariño. Les adelanto que ahí no encontrarán nada muy explícito ni gráfico. Más bien es bastante vainilla. Bueno hasta aquí por hoy. Bye.


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Building a post orgasm machine


Self-Bondage Techniques    3 Replies

swswl, 19 May 2020, 22:24

Hi everyone,

I’ve built a system to control a magic wand through an Arduino (https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/Thread...magic-wand) and meant to use it to achieve something elusive to me: solo post orgasm torture.

However, vibrations just don’t do it for me. It’s just annoying after orgasm, but nowhere near a “torture”. So I guess I have to go the friction route, which seems trickier. 

Not wanting to spend a wad of cash on a Venus 2000 or similar, I could either buy something like this or I build one myself: https://s.click.aliexpress.com/e/_dWJnyn5
which is rotational and not longitudinal. If I end up buying it, I’ll strip the internals (except the motor) and drive it myself through something similar to the first link. Electronics and software aren’t the problem here. 

What’s puzzling me is how to attach this securely and simply, assuming I’m lying on my back spread eagle. It has to be pretty well anchored there if indeed it does work as a post orgasm torture device [Image: icon_wink.gif]

I don’t have access to woodworking or metallurgic equipment, so that narrows it down a bit. I was thinking a contraption made of plumbing pipes to hold it where it needs to be, but that would be pretty bulky. Another idea I had was some custom 3D printed parts to hold a horizontal platform in which a hole could hold the device, but that would require pretty big parts which I couldn’t make unless I get it done by some company. 

Am I overthinking this? I’d really like to hear what you folks think!

Thanks.


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You know you’re overworking when…


Off-topic    10 Replies

Like Ra, 19 May 2020, 01:45

Similar to You know you’re kinky when…. You know, that you are kinky. But how do you know that you are overworking?


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