General hypnosis and NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) discussion

[Hazel]

@"female123", OK, you've touched quite a few subjects, that have dedicated threads:
Gender issues https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/showth...p?tid=1483
Fetish issues https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/showth...p?tid=2729 , https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/showth...p?tid=2906
Purge syndrome issues https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/showth...p?tid=2726
Sissification hypnosis https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/showth...p?tid=2113

So, one by one? 😉

Thanks for replying. I'm still new here so I didn't know about these threads. 
Taking a looking at them now and some are very long. But you've seemed to have been active there, so can you provide a brief summary of insights learned (if you have time)?

Other than that, I think the reason people keep coming back to fetishes and erotic hypnosis in general is because it may be a dopamine conditioned response. Just like other addicts who develop emotional and physical bonding to the substance of their choice. Overtime, especially with hypnosis (at least from my experience and the files I used) they can also create false memories and warp one's perception of themselves, their gender and even personal identity (b@mbi files). So it becomes difficult to tell what's innate or not as the mind is incredibly plastic to new powerful stimulus.

Like Ra, from your profile you seem to also be a spiritual person. I am too, which may be why I harbor a strong resentment of not having been born female, and hence my attraction to Kei's files which I thought, through her magic spells could change that. 

But looking back now it seems my "mission" in this life may be destined to a different path than a perpetual cycle of feminization-orgasm-regret-sadness-hope-repeat, as i see that hypnosis is a false promise, in that i will never come close to becoming those beautiful genetic women i see daily. I guess I am starting to reach a place of acceptance. Accepting that I was not born female and that feminization does not provide any real solution, and instead just adds more pain. Therefore, I am taking a different spiritual path of non-attachment. I believe this is part of the Buddhist traditions where they seek to liberate them from physical desires which are the source of false fulfillment and never-ending suffering. But don't get me wrong, years of erotic hypnosis and sissy fetish has provided me with valuable experiential insight into the nature of this suffering, as I could never fully reach a sense of inner peace, just only more desire and grief.

So at this moment I am taking a leap of faith and giving up on feminization hypnos as a means for self-realization and happiness. I know it will be difficult, because the cravings always pop up again a day or two after orgasm, but hopefully one day I will be able to tanscend this cycle for good 👍

[princesitanatty]

Very few people,

So, you want thousands and thousands  of girls and boys growing breasts? 😁

You need to test alternative causes, comparing with a control group.

[Like Ra]

You need to test alternative causes, comparing with a control group.

There were 3 groups in several researches.

[Like Ra]

I didn't know about these threads. 

This is absolutely normal, that's why I listed them with direct links 😊

you've seemed to have been active there

everywhere 😊

can you provide a brief summary of insights learned

You used a very good word "learned". If you go through all those huge threads, that started years ago, you might notice how my opinion changes over the time. The most "influential" threads/subjects are hypnosis and CD/TS/TV/TG ones. The quick summary:

- Nobody knows and nobody will know what conscious is
- The rest (subconscious, hypnosis, etc) follows the unknowable
- Gender is a social (mostly) and psychological construct, that does not have any physical properties/traits
- Big Pharma corporations are interested in getting billions of dollars from healthy, but gender dysphoric people

the mind is incredibly plastic

Absolutely!

you seem to also be a spiritual person.

I'm trying...

hence my attraction to Kei's files which I thought, through her magic spells could change that. 

This is the claim I would like to discuss in the Kei's thread

i see that hypnosis is a false promise, in that i will never come close to becoming those beautiful genetic women i see daily.

If you use the word "magic", it should be possible. Have you heard of Carlos Castaneda or Mahabharata? 😊
If you master the energies, you can take any form you need.
And hypnosis is a form of a guided meditation, that tunes your resonances.

I am taking a different spiritual path of non-attachment. I believe this is part of the Buddhist traditions where they seek to liberate them from physical desires which are the source of false fulfillment and never-ending suffering.

BTW, they do not say that you must not own anything (what most people think), but that you must not be owned by anything. What is the ultimate answer to all fetishes, which "own you". OTOH, the less you have, the less energy of attention you have to spill on your possessions, what also helps.

So at this moment I am taking a leap of faith and giving up on feminization hypnos as a means for self-realization and happiness. I know it will be difficult, because the cravings always pop up again a day or two after orgasm, but hopefully one day I will be able to tanscend this cycle for good 👍

That's why i started this thread: https://www.likera.com/forum/mybb/Thread...h-fetishes
Possibly, you simply have to accept yourself with all the fetishes you're born with?

[Hazel]

Possibly, you simply have to accept yourself with all the fetishes you're born with?

So being transgender is a fetish?

- Big Pharma corporations are interested in getting billions of dollars from healthy, but gender dysphoric people

So say, that if i or anyone else has gender dysporia, do I just not take hormones even though the reason I have the dysporia is because I was not born with the ability to produce those hormones naturally?

hence my attraction to Kei's files which I thought, through her magic spells could change that. 

This is the claim I would like to discuss in the Kei's thread

i see that hypnosis is a false promise, in that i will never come close to becoming those beautiful genetic women i see daily.

If you use the word "magic", it should be possible. Have you heard of Carlos Castaneda or Mahabharata?
If you master the energies, you can take any form you need.
And hypnosis is a form of a guided meditation, that tunes your resonances.

No I haven't, but I do believe in the law of attraction. I just thought that hypnosis or magic would provide a short cut, but it turns out physical reality is very stubborn. My hope to change my body to a feminine ideal in this lifetime has almost disappeared.
Hence why I mentioned that I may want to start moving away from all this erotic hypnosis and commit to spirituality and nofap to reset my brain and potentially heal all these gender conflicting thoughts and feelings for good.

[Like Ra]

No I haven't

I would definitely encourage you to read Castaneda, but, please, PLEASE, at least 4 books, not just the first 3!!! As each book represent a new cycle in Castaneda's progress. It's like if someone would write a book about the whole life when he's in the 1st grade, another book when he's in the 2nd grade etc.

Mahabharata is a bit ... time consuming and needs lots of commentaries and explanations 😁

I do believe in the law of attraction.

Absolutely. Resonances do exist 😊

I just thought that hypnosis or magic would provide a short cut, but it turns out physical reality is very stubborn.

It's rather our interpretation is very stubborn, we haven't seen the Reality yet 😁

My hope to change my body to a feminine ideal in this lifetime has almost disappeared.

You nailed it by using the word "ideal". The thing is, all our life we chase something that does not exist. That's how the advertisement works. What we see in the magazines, in films, on TV, in Instagram simply does not exist. At least it does not exist in the presented form and look.

Hence why I mentioned that I may want to start moving away from all this erotic hypnosis and commit to spirituality and nofap to reset my brain and potentially heal all these gender conflicting thoughts and feelings for good.

Kinda doing this for years 😁

Actually, our "ideals" and corresponding research paths are quite similar if not the same 😁 So, its very nice to have you here!

[Like Ra]

Apparently, we need a new thread on how to decide/prove (to yourself, mostly) if hypnosis works or not.

[Like Ra]

Have you heard of Carlos Castaneda

I would definitely encourage you to read Castaneda, but, please, PLEASE, at least 4 books, not just the first 3!!! As each book represent a new cycle in Castaneda's progress.

Just found them: https://volafile.org/r/1b4yxh9wg

@"female123", I read the books when I was around your age, and they smashed my world into pieces. (I've actually, started rereading the books, and I think I missed the last one). You will also discover how influential Castaneda was, is and will be. He's referenced in lots of cult films, books, songs.

But again, there is a saying, "Castaneda is not that scary, as those who read only his first 3 books" 😁

[Hazel]

Have you heard of Carlos Castaneda

I would definitely encourage you to read Castaneda, but, please, PLEASE, at least 4 books, not just the first 3!!! As each book represent a new cycle in Castaneda's progress.

Just found them: https://volafile.org/r/1b4yxh9wg

@"female123", I read the books when I was around your age, and they smashed my world into pieces. (I've actually, started rereading the books, and I think I missed the last one). You will also discover how influential Castaneda was, is and will be. He's referenced in lots of cult films, books, songs.

But again, there is a saying, "Castaneda is not that scary, as those who read only his first 3 books" 😁

I mean does it really work?

[Like Ra]

I mean does it really work?

It depends on you 😊