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Cheap and easy vacuum pump for genital suction!


Plugs, vibrators, watersport and chastity toys    No Replies

Vacbedbound, 31 Jan 2020, 18:01

Because so manny of you asked: I want to show you the pump, i use for my vacuum penis suction device. 
It is a small pump that delivers a constant (not to) strong Vacuum with no pulses or intervals. 
It is not like a milkingmachine or a Venus2000! 
You can buy that pump specialy designed for genital suction for about expensive 80€. Look here:
https://www.amazon.de/Fröhle-Elektrische...B003TOI786

Or you can do what i did and buy that cheap aqarium Air pump for 20€.
https://www.amazon.de/Schego-850-Pumpe-O...go+&sr=8-2

You may have noticed that It does look the quite same, this is because it is the same. 
Just open it up and modify it from blowing to sucking! 
All you need is a screwdriver and a short piece of tubing. 
This is how it is done: 


Flip around the pump and turn out the 4 smal screws at the corners.
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Lift of the cap and pull out the two tubings and connectors. 
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Before:
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After:
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Take a short piece of tubing (the build in tubing may be to short for this) and connect the upper output of the pumphousing (which is the air inlett) to the connector.
Just like you see on the picture. 
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Close  the cap and screw back in the 4 screws. Now you are ready to g.....ahhhm suck! 
If you can’t find original that pump, just buy a other aquarium air pump. 
They may look different from the outside but the inside should be quite the same. 
The pump works great for any genital like penis, niples or clits. 
But not for a Vacbed, because the air volume, that it pumps, is just to smal.
It would take houers to suck a Vacbed empty. 
There is only one thing you have to take care: 

This pump is made for air only! So don‘t let any liquid get into the Pump!!! 
You may risk to destroy the Pump or even worse, risk an electric shock or fire! 

This is why i always use it together with a smal container in front of it, that has just a inlet and a outlet on the top. 
The inlet is connected te the Penis suction tube and the outlet is connected to the pump. 
If now anny liquid will get into the tubing it will be collected on the bottom of the container. 
That works just by simple gravity. 
Have fun with it!!!


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Stuck waiting for a delivery


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PetraJane, 31 Jan 2020, 16:30

I ordered some stuff so as the delivery day would be Friday, ie: today as I can be at home as a rule on a Friday.

So, I get the notification that the order is on its way, but no sign as yet and no idea of any possible time slot for delivery!

So far it has been a wasted day as if I had a time slot text I would know that I could have gone out to shop for the weekend's fresh veg if it was this afternoon delivery, or I could have left the house to work in the garden or greenhouse, but cannot as I cannot hear the doorbell from there.

I'm itching to get bound and gagged for a session, everything is ready, the spreader bar, cuffs, chains, padlocks, gag, blindfold, hood, buttplug, magic wand and timer, camera and laptop with movement sensor for timing, all unable to be used in case the delivery turns up whilst I am a little tied up!

What's the betting it is going to be delayed until Monday!?


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Erostek questions


Plugs, vibrators, watersport and chastity toys    No Replies

Vacbedbound, 30 Jan 2020, 22:40

Does someone here have a Erostek et312
I have some questions and hope you can help me.
I would really like to use one of the Audio modes,
but it turns out, that the feeling that i get if i use the audio input is to stinging and gives sharp painful sensation even if i use actual estim soundfiles with warm wavey pad sounds.
I would really like to use it that way but i can‘t find the right adjustments.
It would be so hot if i could use the sound of a bdsm porn for my pleasure.
Like the person in the clip is moaning or screaming and i get pleasure or shocks from the estim to the sound of the clip.

And how about the Triphase setup? I have two self made cables in different colors than the original one. Do you bridge the cables that lead to the tip contact of the 3,5mm mono plug or do you connect to the other contact, to built a triphase?


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Gag at home


General    18 Replies

Gagme, 30 Jan 2020, 00:26

Dose anybody else just sit around the house gagged?? I’m currently just watching tv gagged with medical hypafix tape. 😉😉


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Hi there


Introduce yourself    9 Replies

no smile, 28 Jan 2020, 21:43

Hi, so, as new member, I obliged to present myself.

I'm 34 male from Belgium, French speaking.  I've been into fetish and (self-)bondage from my early 13th anniversary, probably a bit before as I remember fantasising from maybe the age of 6.  Just came to the act later xD.

So, I'm deeply into latex kink, pantyhose (but only from the French DIM, about 20 to 50 den, others or not so good for me), self-bondage involving rope, breath play (with latex breath control hood), armbinder and plugs (this one is quite new).  I've been wandering in the internet for quite some time (and this website too) but I recently felt the need to have an account to be able to discuss so here I am 😉 .  So it's the time to a big thank you for  @Like Ra for this wonderful website which, among others, helped me finding my thing as a shy teenager.

I've been DIY latex a bit, mostly repair first but hoods, cock sheets, sleppsack and even made my first MTM chlorinated catsuit some month ago (which I'm in love with).

About self bondage, I love frog tied and hogtied, some other but not as much.  I've been perfecting my selfbondage for a time and now try some of my own rope work.

Not really into pain S/M and prefer a kind of vanilla/romantic bondage, sometimes with sex. But I love nipple clamp (quite new too 😉 )

Happy in couple, my beloved is not at all into kinks or selfbondage but let me do my thing, tie the armbinder (well, I've not yet been able to engage her into rope) and some rare time, get tie-up as well  Yahoo .

I work I a live sound engineer (world-jazz mostly) and lightning designer and do some electronic build/repair.  (I made a random button pusher for my vibrating butt-plug's remote which is really nice in a vacbed  😉 )

well, I guess its already quite complete.  Happy to be here  Rolleyes Rolleyes


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Help needed.


Self-Bondage Techniques    16 Replies

The inspector, 28 Jan 2020, 19:30

Hi all,

What a few months it has been. I won’t bore you with all the details, but in short, I have been seeking help to sort my thoughts out after my wife found out about my fetishes and my world came crashing down around me. She came to terms and asked me to get help after a fairly life changing event, (I’m still here). 

My wife agreed to come along with me and use it to try and help and learn. The person running the session said in a round about way that she can’t change a person and has no right to. She obviously fell in love with me and that person hasn’t changed, she just learned more about me. 

We went away for a weekend and had a serious talk about it and she has agreed that she will never understand. We are going to continue as we are as long as she doesn’t have to be involved in any of my fetishes. She will allow handcuffs in the bedroom but that’s it. Anything I do alone is up to me.

Got to repair a few friendships now after she told people things... but generally everything is on the mend... ish...

So what better way to celebrate and improvement in circumstances than to let my brain go wild in unsurprised form. I need help from the technical amongst you if I may..

Could any of you provide instructions on how to make a device that does the following. 

A mag lock will be on restraining something.

Timer is set to a duration of the users choosing. Say 1 hour

When a button is held a timer will start to count down.

If the button is released the timer stops.

If the button is held again the timer continues from where it was left off.

At the end of the timer the Matlock releases.

If anyone could point me to components/plans/prices that would be great. I have a scenario in my head that needs some workings.


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Blindfolds


Bondage General    10 Replies

Gagme, 27 Jan 2020, 15:48

Whats everyone’s favourite type of blindfold? Some I’ve been working on.


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sewing pvc


PVC    9 Replies

Strappado, 27 Jan 2020, 00:10

I tried a few days ago, it works! There are special needles for sticky materials, which is probably needed. I have one, so I didn't even try with a "normal" one.

My first project was an old pvc cape (PUL-Enclosed Cape). I always wanted to have tight cape, while most capes are really wide. So I took some measurements and pinned two seams at the sides. Then, just to make sure, I tried it on (pins outside). It felt reasonably tight, so I sewed it.  You have to be careful, because even though the needle doesn't stick to the material, the material does to itself. Therefore, you have to keep it flat all the time. I have got some experience with "normal" cloth, and that is much easier. Well, the first seams weren't perfect, but good enough, and nobody will ever see it. After wearing the cape for a while, I decided, that it could be even tighter. So I marked new seams, tested with pins and sewed ahead. Still not good enough, I made a third line. Right now, this is almost, what I want. The cape is still fairly wide around the legs, but since there are no buttons, I have to get my shoulders through there as well. It is a bit of a challenge to get in already, because all the material gathers on the shoulders first. I have to find the bottom seam and slowly work it down. At first, I tried arms first, but around the chest, the cape is too narrow now to get them down, so I had to struggle out again.

I will make some photos over the next few days and report, how I get on.

Further projects: A hood in raincoat style (not a BDSM hood), but with an extra, poppers or velcro strips on the sides to attach another piece of pvc sheet in front of the mouth and nose. This piece shouldn't be too tight, I don't want to have trouble breathing. However, it should be impossible, to work it down and get the nose, or even the mouth, out.

PS: I forgot to tell: I had a bath in the cape after doing the first sewing. It is awesome! I think, resting in these salt-water tanks is a bit similar, except, that the cape doesn't allow for the senses to switch off completely. I spent quite a while in the tub, basically meditating. Actually, it was too pleasant to do anything else, which would have ended the situation...


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Electro Magnet Spread eagle with streched arms and Estim torture.


Completed Self-Bondage Sessions    34 Replies

Vacbedbound, 26 Jan 2020, 02:28

Hmmmmmm....What Estim programm shall i use for today‘s session?
Programm Orgasm, Wave or intense?
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More infos in the next days!


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Latex Catsuit with different Latex thicknesses


Latex    3 Replies

Vacbedbound, 23 Jan 2020, 22:04

I am thinking about buying a made to measure Latex Catsuit and i think about a special design with different Latex thikness on the Arms and Legs than on the body. Like the arms and legs are made from 0,6mm Latex and the Body part is made in an other collour and 0.8 Latex. The idea behind this is, that the thinner Latex on the arms and legs will make it easyer to put it on. It will make movement more confortable and make it fit better. The thicker Latex on the body part will make it feeling more rigid and will give more compression to the waist, like a corsett. 
It may feel like you would wear a Swimsuit on top. 

Have you ever heard about combining different thicknesses of Latex in one Catsuit to get a effect like that? 

Do you think it will work/feel good?


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