Swimsuits

I think I have too many swimsuits in my stash.

You can never have too many! I’m lucky to have a girlfriend that supports and encourages me to discover more about myself. I’ve got over 100 sets (including one piece, two piece, bikini and leotards). Not to mention countless panties, leggings and stockings. Have a read of my post from today. You might like it

Hi guys. I would like to share with you my swimsuit collection that I have. 

What do you think of them?




Also, if you want to, I can take some pics of me trying them on (I’m a guy btw)

I’ve been wearing them since I was 8, I’m 40 this year. I’ve only just started growing my collection. It’s was adictive as wearing them haha

KEEP GOING!!!! 😀

Do you guys often go online window shopping for swimsuits?

I shop exclusively online. In the first place, there is a wider offer than in the store. On the second, that I feel ashamed as a man in the women's swimwear department.

I use to feel ashamed or embarrassed but not anymore. I simply do not care what people think anymore, and once you gain that confidence, you radiate it and I’ve noticed that people will notice that your there, but will instantly look away. 

I actually find it exhilarating and I look forward to it now. Specially now I’ve got a partner that is as supportive as her. She’ll pick them out and come show me! I love her so much 🥰

I’ve been wondering: why swimsuit and leotard fetish isn’t more occuring in women than men?

I’ve been wondering: why swimsuit and leotard fetish isn’t more occuring in women than men?

I'm not saying this is truth, but I have a hunch: 

I'd guess it's simply because of anatomy difference. 
Male glans is pretty much externally exposed, direct contact with the Lycra fabric, silky sensations; instant arousal (certainly worked that way for me).
With the female anatomy, the clit and clit hood are pretty much receded, unless it's abnormally 
enlarged or aeady aroused - but basically, smaller chances to experience this the way boys do
during childhood sexual development phase.

But yeah, also because most societies push sexual gender asymmetry; boys are tolerated to sexually fool around. 
Girls are actively discouraged to do so. Otherwise they'd "bring shame onto the family".

I’ve been wondering: why swimsuit and leotard fetish isn’t more occuring in women than men?

I'm not saying this is truth, but I have a hunch: 

I'd guess it's simply because of anatomy difference. 
Male glans is pretty much externally exposed, direct contact with the Lycra fabric, silky sensations; instant arousal (certainly worked that way for me).
With the female anatomy, the clit and clit hood are pretty much receded, unless it's abnormally 
enlarged or aeady aroused - but basically, smaller chances to experience this the way boys do
during childhood sexual development phase.

But yeah, also because most societies push sexual gender asymmetry; boys are tolerated to sexually fool around. 
Girls are actively discouraged to do so. Otherwise they'd "bring shame onto the family".

I don’t think that’s it, especially the culture part.

[Like Ra]

Erotic fetishes are much more frequently "occurs" in males, than females. Also, there are much more MtFs than FtMs. Need to find the actual statistics. But that's for another thread.

I’ve been wondering: why swimsuit and leotard fetish isn’t more occuring in women than men?

Many women enjoy wearing swimsuits/leotards & find them sexy & feel sexy when wearing them (just like we here who are AMAB do)... but it is considered normal womens wear, not really noticeable even if it does cross over into  secretive kink territory (like when a guy perhaps has a sneakers/trainers fetish I guess). 

In the current times when men's swimware looks more like cargo & bermuda shorts im many countries, men's speedos can raise some eyebrows. Unless you are a wrestler, professional swimmer or a ballet dancer, other people will generally consider the wearer of women's swimware/leotards to be crossdressing or have some kink. 
It may or may not be.

Everyone should just wear what makes them happy, feel good/pretty/handsome/sexy etc... the whole idea of clothing having a gender is just delusional & bonkers imho 🤷🏽‍♀️.

@MIWSTIUS fwiw, I usually tuck when wearing swimsuits/bikins intended for women, is it a kink for me? I really do not know, they feel good, look good/sexy & I enjoy it.

[Like Ra]

Many women enjoy wearing swimsuits/leotards & find them sexy & feel sexy when wearing them

Absolutely! For women it's much more important how they look and what reaction they will get. So they dress for others. They might get aroused, but mostly by the attention.

I have a bunch of Leotards and some swimsuits.
Actually, they live in a cardboard box in my house.
So, my question to all is….

How do you store, or display your Lycra outfits?