Not sure if there is an official name for this device, I simply call it sleeve-binder here. The idea: A tube of cloth, latex or any strong fabric covering the arms almost up to the armpits, which (the arms) are to be held in a u-shape, just like the Japanese box tie - left hand at right elbow and vice versa. The end of the tube is secured in some way around the upper arms. Unless the material is stretchy, the arms can only be used to push things around, and the hands should be completely useless. The tube is wider in the center, so hands can get through and in position. The ends are just wide enough to pull them over the upper arm.
I am about to finish such a device, except, I have no idea yet, how to secure it for self-bondage. Straps over the shoulders would be effective but need to be manipulated somehow to get in and out. A beautiful and probably effective way would be lacing around the upper arms, but not suitable for SB at all. One other way is a strap around the upper arms, preventing the wearer from pulling the arms apart and getting out of the tube. There is still the option to grab the material and pull it down off the upper arm, but probably not over the hand at the elbow, as this would require a wider opening (I think).
It won't be easy to put this tube on alone, but we shall see. I have to stitch another 20 cm and then I will try.
At long last I might have 3 days (and more importantly 2 nights) alone, in September, for some serious SB fun!
Now please don’t get me wrong, I deeply love my partner and will miss her whilst she’s away on her travels, but…. All work and no play make Madjack a dull boy! 😟
And I’m planning to play… a LOT!
So, what am I planning?
Well a great deal, obviously! But that’s because I usually achieve far less than I’d want – though still have lots of fun.
Vacuum session:
For those that recall my posting of an earlier vacuum self-bondage session (MJ-SB01/2010) I was very keen to try again with a different (effective release set-up) – and thanks to all those who offered suggestions and ideas. I’ve experimented with some ideas and had to rule many of them out. I was very excited by the suggestion to use an electro-magnet to create a controlled seal to the vacuum bag (combined with a one-way valve from a clothes storage vac-bag). I did test this as a release, but it was very prone to failure (i.e. NOT RELEASING! – The vacuum held even when the ‘seal was released (EEEK!), so this has been rejected on safety grounds (thanks for idea though!).
I’m currently looking at an ice-based release using a vertical pipe with an ice ‘cap’. The ice should form an effective air seal, but will eventually melt enough to allow air in and freedom to be achieved (sounds more complicated than it actually is – will try to post pictures if I get it to work).
Added to the problems of finding a safe release, are those of killing two vacuum cleaners in the past 3 months (neither through SB sessions I might add!) and I’m going to struggle to achieve my aim – but I will give it a go!
Bound and encased sleeping:
Oh yes! I so want to get this to work for me. Historically the best I’ve ever managed has been a very short period of being ‘not awake but also not asleep’ – almost but not quite. The problem is that I get either A) too turned on to sleep (ahem!), B) too uncomfortable to sleep (I do like my tight ropes!) or C) too exhausted to play (just want to sleep normally!). I have two nights to try and resolve this (Can I sleep plugged as well? Will this lead to problem A), again!). I might be a little less strict with my bondage to address the ‘comfort’ area and also might ‘cheat’ with how easy it will be to get free – we will see!
‘Proper’ long SB session:
By ‘proper’ I mean really stuck and not getting free until a timed release – no matter how hard I struggle. I’ve done this in the past, but more often I set up my sessions for short (20-30mins) durations and easy release. Ra and others always seem to go on for hours and I really get excited by the prospect (personal record is just over 1hr of true helplessness with no freedom) so want to have a proper session. The ice-cubes are already in the freezer!
SB enema:
OK, so maybe not for everyone – but unless you’ve tried it don’t knock it! I really love this scenario and it’s one of my favourite fantasies. My challenge this time will be to combine it with a timed release of the enema and a, later, release from my bondage. This session has me both genuinely scared and excited at the same time. The thought of being truly helpless to stop the enema happening and also being unable to escape its effect is a real thrill to me - but I’m unsure as to how to safely set up the session.
Does anyone have any advice on the following?
- How long could/should I comfortably retain an enema (I might not have chance to experiment before-hand and my best time has been less than 10mins in the past). I guess this might be one of those ‘…it depends…’ sort of answer, but your thoughts are appreciated.
- Should I invest in a pair of latex shorts to keep everything as ‘enema-proof’ as possible? I’ve wondered about this in the past and though I’ve avoided any serious leakages (and set the sessions up in areas where leaks can be easily cleaned up) the session will mean I’m truly stuck and can’t free myself to avoid ‘accidents’! Ideally I would like to use what I’ve already got – times are hard and ‘luxury items’ are difficult to justify!
- How best to ensure the enema release works (past problems with air-locks and similar). I plan to use my trusty enema butt-plug, tube (actually aquarium air pipe – is this a problem?) and 1.5l bag.
- Enema volume and content? Normally I mix between 750ml – 1000ml of filtered cold and hot water to achieve a lukewarm combination, but I’ve read that some mixtures are better for retention than others and that I might become over-hydrated with a water only enema if retained for long periods (more than 5mins). Is this true? Is there a better, less irritating mix I might be advised to try? Does a pre-session enema improve retention later (something else I’ve read about but have no experience of)?
All day in Pantyhose and Plugged (and maybe more…)
Another Ra inspired scenario which I’d like to try out. Normally I only wear my pantyhose, lycra and similar for SB sessions (more on that in another posting), though in the past I have been more adventurous. I have very fond memories of a shopping trip (no more than 2hrs) whilst stuffed with a butt-plug and wearing 4 pairs of pantyhose – all underneath a pair of jeans, with socks, t-shirt and sweat shirt hiding any evidence of my perverted fetish. I’ve not repeated such an adventure for many years and feel the need to indulge myself once more.
This time my intention is to go a little further, but still ‘hide’ the fact that I’m not just a ‘normal’ person going about their respectable daily business.
I will dress at the start of the day (after my morning ablutions) as I intend to continue. I intend for a large, comfortable, plug, to go in first, covered by at least 3 pairs of pantyhose and a lycra top/body stocking.
There is a tricky bit in between all that that I’d like to add; I have a latex ‘cock and ball’ sheath (that is the very devil to get on – impossible whilst erect, almost impossible at any time), which has a short tube at the tip. I get excited at the idea of using this in combination with a longer tube connected to allow for fluid relief during the day. I want to rig this up in such a way that I can remain encased (over the majority of my body at least) in a nylon/latex/lycra covering for a significant part of the day. Depending on how I feel at the time I might wrap the entirety of my upper thighs, groin and lower stomach in wrap or tape (maybe sacrifice a pair of old pantyhose and use ultra sticky duct tape?) to seal myself in, with just the tube coming out.
My intention is to undertake all of the boring chores during the morning (the reward will be my SB sessions later) wearing these items, though still underneath more ‘normal’ attire (I’m not brave enough to be obvious in my wearing of even pantyhose – the fear of being struck by a car and ‘discovered’ is, though highly irrational, scary enough!). If I could I would wish to spend the entire day fully encased (or with only a small part of head free), but other commitments and practicality prohibits this (another dream for another day?).
Buying new toys:
OK – money isn’t available to purchase all of my fantasy gear (or even a small part of it!) but I still intend to find some new toys to play with. Plug: I’m after a slimmer, longer, silicone plug and should be able to purchase something before September. At the same time I keep looking for that ‘perfect’ plug. Pantyhose: Always looking – this time I may have to accept that I might, possibly, already have enough pairs (but I can never resist a bargain!) Lycra top/leggings: I’ve very nearly worn out another lycra top (should I write a letter to the manufacturer? ‘Dear sir/madam, I am deeply troubled to report that the material and workmanship of your leotard is woefully inadequate for the purposes of serious self-bondage sessions…’ hmm, probably not!), and I am looking for something sexy to replace it. I’m also in the market for a cheap pair of shinny lycra leggings or shorts for a ‘single-glove’. The pair I used to have got thrown away – why did I ever do that?! Zentai: I keep looking for another zentai suit, but costs are high and supply is mostly from China and to unpredictable for my needs. Latex: Latex, latex, latex! Oh how I wish I could afford more of this wonderful material. I really want to buy a bodysuit, hood, leotard, shorts (with sheath) and tights – but cost is a issue and I realise that for the most part you get what you pay for in terms of quality. Maybe some day…
Oh, so little time and so much to do!
Hopefully a few more completed sessions and photos to share before too much longer
MJ
Ps. Just realised how much I've written here - worrying signs of self-bondage frustration 😉
I'm sure I've posted Akiho Licia's pics before although I can't find them. He's a Japanese crossplayer who's costumes almost all involve leotards and tights. Here's his website http://park19.wakwak.com/~licia/COSPLAY.htm
Apart from that page he posts on another cosplay site ('Cure') that's particularly difficult to access if you don't understand Japanese. I seem to have found a way in so here are some updates of him as Morrigan and Lilith...
This pic is amusing, I think he's being a little more open about his feelings for his companion and/or his/her costume than he intends to be...
At the following link, you can find an armbinder that is close to the bolero armbinder that I am playing with. In fact, this model seems to be better except for the ability to be used in self bondage:
Click the large image and you get a gallery view with eight images.
It comes close to what I would like to make for myself, except that I still have no clue how to close it in front. And it comes in several sizes, which is very good. The price looks okay though a bit beyond my current budget.
The neosteel she-male chastity belt, pics from misschastity1 on flickr.
A dream come true...
...add a couple of pairs of toast danskin dance tights, some black fishnets...
and a leotard and you have what you might be think is the perfect underwear for a maid:
However, with a few carefully placed holes you can have this. I think in (for example) a fetish club this would be even cooler, especially if there was the tail end of a butt plug bulging through the anal opening under the tights...
Hi. I hope it's okay to be a noob and start a thread.
I just wanted to say hello and tell a little about myself. I have recently come to a major turning point in my life by realising that I am a transgendered person. For many years I put on the act of being totally male but it was not me. My core personality is very much female. This has been liberating. I have not come out to those closest to me, but it feels great being able to accept myself as Nicki after all these years. I've been wearing womens clothing all my life, mostly in secret, and I have always been completely addicted to tights and pantyhose. Just recently I stumbled across this site as part of a Google search, having been bondage curious for a few years now. What can I say other than that self bondage is extremely addictive. The rush of wiggling my remaining free arm into a pantyhose one glove is amazing. Not knowing how long it's going to be before I can get myself free. Or maybe I won't be able to get out at all. Last night I got totally stuck and it took me a very long time to finally rip myself out. The feeling of the endorphins is hard wired into my brain permanently.
Release of the new version of Selfbondage CD Tray Opener.
This is a program to use in selfbondage sessions, to use it you must put a key on the CD Tray of your computer like that:
As the first released version, the program has an input where we must type how long we want to wait for the key releasing:
For safety reasons Selfbondage CD Tray Opener doesn't accept time inputs longuer than 360 minutes (t6 hours!).
This is because I don't believe that many laptops has a battery that last much more longuer than 6 hours.
When a longuer time is inputted, when we press START, the program responds:
It doesn't need to be installed to run (works perfectly from an USB, for example) and has been tested hundred of times in WinXP and Vista.
Yet to be tested on Windows 7 (if anyone have one valid license to give it will be welcomed)
Yet to be tested on Win2K/NT (not sure if it will works)
And it will not work on WIN9X/Me
In this version you have to choose what CD Tray d'you want to be opened in the session:
Clicking the Test button you can open the tray to check that the program recognizes it (and also to see if the key drops as you desired)
Please, before start a session make as many proves as you can!!
If we input a valid time and press START button we will get a screen with the countdown:
After some feedback, this time the screen is not always on the top of everything, you can put another windows over it.
We can exit that screen and open the CDTray just pressing Esc on the keyboard.
During the countdown the program plays a "beep" every second, it can be turned off unchecking this checkbox:
Selfbondage CD Tray Opener 2.5 also has a "Random" option.
To use it you will have to input the maximun time that you want to play and check:
In random mode, the countdown screen will look like this:
The program does not only runs a countdown, it also can get sound from a microphone and respond moving a vibrator (Ohmibod or similar vibrator required)
I call this Teasing Mode and to activate you just have to check this box:
To play with this mode you are going to need a microphone (anyone that works on windows) and a vibrator that can be activated with a minijack audio conector (ohmibod or similar). When you check the box the program starts to "listen" to the microphone input (the level of sound that you produce is shower in the progress bar):
You can also make it more accurate adjusting the microphone level on windows.
Then we have to adjust the threshold of sound that will activate the vibrator. To adjust this level we have to slide the slider to the desired position:
During this setup the program will play a sound every time we make a noise louder than the level of the hreshold (and if we have a vibrator activated by sound... volià!!).
Use this setup wisely to adjust the level of noise admited before the progams moves the vibrator. When you press START it will can not be changed.
If you try to enter this mode without any microphone connected to the computer you will always get a noise level of 100%.
Finally I added a random mode for the vibrator too, to activate it just check this:
It will make the vibrator play randomly during the session (once again we need a Ohmibod or similar vibrator or we will just get a sound from the computer).
All the modes can be combined, but please remember that it will reduce the duration of the battery.
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HOW TO CONVERT A WIRED VIBRATOR ONTO A OHMIBOD:
On my particular case Ohmibod is very tiny, so I managed to convert my butplug (that works with batteries connected with two wires) onto a Ohmibod kind vibrator.
I have a inflatable buttplug like this:
I've cutted of the wires that connect the batterys and the plugg and get this:
(wires 1 and 2)
and this:
wires 4 and 5.
If we have a Ohmibod and look at the base it will look like this:
(this is the base of Ohmibod), we have 3 possiblities of connection, the spring in the middle is where we must conect the wires with the negative pole of the batteries and the two metal pieces at the bottom are where we must conect the other wires.
If I get some cash I will buy another Ohmibod and I'will open it to make better instructions, but remember that you can use the ohmibod directly without any modifications.
(of course it has to be connected to the computer with an audio jack and the batteries must be turned on while playing)
Next version will open the cd tray when computer tries to reboot, shutdown or when the batteries goes under 10%, but I'm going to need some help with the testing (I don't have any computer with Win7 and it seems that Vista/7 treates the battery issues diferent as 2K/Xp does)
Feedback will be much apreciatted.
Here are packed all the images and the sounds that the program uses.
The way to compile it is just copy all to the same folder where the source code is and compile using the full version of SciTE with F7 http://www.mediafire.com/?fve2aof72dsh954
This is what I bought two days ago at Mr.B in Amsterdam:
High-waisted shorts with penis and balls sheath and silicone Oxballs cocksling.
Strange feeling - the sheath pushes the balls forward, so the cock looks very small, and there's good 2" of unused space. If I pull the balls in place with my hand - the cock properly fills all the space and looks "as it should".
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