Call them 'TENS units', 'estim' or 'E-stim'; whatever they are, they have long held a deep fascination for me as an addition to my self-bondage scenarios.
I must be clear on one point - I am NOT seeking some form of torture, quite the reverse in fact. I'm seeking a way to tease myself whilst helpless and hopefully bring a planned session to a satisfying conclusion 😁
My experiments in this area have so far been limited to the use of a mains powered vibrator/massager on a timer - which is very enjoyable but is also bulky and limiting in what I can create for my sessions.
So my thoughts have turned to the smaller devices like tens units and estims that appear to offer a viable alternative.
Does anyone have experience with these devices?
What differences are there between the 'TENS' and 'Estim'? I can quickly spot that cost is a major factor, but what about ease/pleasure of use?
Ok, I’m getting desperate – this was a very short (for me) session and though great fun I was left feeling…. …disappointed… …desperate… …frustrated!
Another point worth making is that I'm so busy with 'real world' stuff (work, health, friends and family) that it has taken me over a month to post this session.... I need a break 😟
Equipment:
70den open crotch nylon bodysuit
20den sheer pantyhose
High-heeled ankle boots
8 knee-highs
Condom
Rope
Chair
Short spreader bar
2 shackles
Soft ball
Ring gag
3 collars with d-rings
Leather hood
Black lycra body
The session:
In theory I could have had a good few hours of ‘alone time’ but the reality of life meant that by the time I had finished all those little tasks that needed to be done and showered to remove the accumulated grime associated with them, I was both physically tired and also very short of playtime; but I was determined to try something… anything in fact! With time in short supply I didn’t set up the camera; it takes too long to get into the correct position and then the process of downloading, converting and capturing screen shots also requires a surprising amount of time and effort.
I quickly decided that simple would be best and that a chair-tie was a good option to go for. My condom cover cock was soon nestling in the nylon sheath of my bodysuit, but not before I’d bound both cack and balls in 1m of thin nylon cord – this is something I occasionally do in short sessions (it can become uncomfortable in a longer ones, because I like it nice and TIGHT!) and it did encourage my cock to stiffen even more.
Over the bodysuit went a pair of super shiny pantyhose, these are another recent purchase and came with an unintended bonus of a defect hole in the crotch which perfectly aligns with my cock - so guess what I did? Then I pulled on my trusty lycra body, which is looking very worn out now and due for replacement soon if I can find a suitably sexy one to purchase. I finished off my dressing by adding high-heeled boots, for that ‘super sexy’ look and feel.
I positioned the chair back against the bed, with all my ropes, gag, etc in easy reach. The spreader bar went across the chair seat close to the chair back so that when I was seated it couldn’t move forwards. I wrapped a collar around each booted ankle and attached a shackle to each of the d-rings; by sitting back in the chair I could (just about!) pull each booted ankle up to the corresponding eye at either end of the spreader bar and clip the shackle to the eye. This resulted in my legs being bent at the knee, backwards towards the bed and lifted from the floor to hang slightly spread away from my body. My next step was to use rope to bind my body tightly to the chair seat and back, this was a simple case of wrapping the rope around and across my torso and thighs with the occasional cinch to tighten everything up. I did add a small change to the bondage by introducing a second rope under my crotch with a looped ‘noose’ in the end through which I fed the coiled rope I would use to bind my wrists. I positioned this rope so that it was as tight as possible to my crotch and the chair seat.
As I was planning a short session without a forced delay to my release I wanted to add an element that, to be honest, is too intense for a longer session – the leather hood! This is a lace up style hood, without any eye, mouth or nose holes; which make it very erotic but at the same time quite scary to wear. I’ve never had a real scare with it, but fear that in a true self-bondage session where I can’t escape it might be too much for me to handle – breathing is restricted and the heat build-up noticeable. But this wasn’t a concern today and I was determined to ‘go for it!’
Firstly two knee-highs went over my head, and then I pushed a large soft ball into my mouth through the nylon, securing it in place by using my ring gag. A further two knee-highs followed over that to ensure there was no way the ball could be ejected form my mouth and finally the hood itself; I used the laces to tighten it as much as I could (disappointingly loose for something supposed to be ‘one size fits all’ and me having a big head!) and then added a collar around my neck and the hood to fix it even more securely in place. I was now blind and working by touch alone.
Groping behind me I located the final 4 knee-highs and rapidly pulled 2 over each hand and arm (up past my elbows) to complete my total encasement. All that was left was to find the wrist coils of rope between by spread thighs and push my encased hands through the loops – then a final tug upwards an I was bound.
After such a long time without any real play even this lightweight bondage (well, it was by my standards) felt wonderful. Trying to lift my bound wrists upwards was near impossible and pulled the rope under my ass nicely tight. I couldn’t see anything or make any sound other than muffled grunts. I tugged and tested at my bindings and revelled in the feelings I enjoy so much.
Eventually I succumbed to the temptation that lay so close to my bound hands and brought my short session to an appropriately climatic conclusion.😁
What went well?
Keeping my bondage simple and easy to escape from allowed me to indulge myself in other areas;
The hood was superb – with its closeness and constricting effect over my head and breathing, plus the isolation it created was very intense.
Being in a position with my feet lifted from the floor is always an incredible sensation, making me feel more helpless than the bondage alone.
Binding my balls and cock is an occasional treat I allow myself and a very big turn-on for me. This session was perfect for my limits as I can only take it for short sessions (no longer than 30mins) before it becomes more painful than erotic. Any tips?
What could be improved?
Silly, silly, me – I didn’t add a plug…again! It’s one of those things that when I start the session I think ‘no, not today’ and then when it’s too late I’m desperate for that feeling in my ass.
After experiencing the feeling of helplessness that having my feet lifted from the ground gave me I’ve got to get back into trying to solve the suspension problem – I need a safe and realistic solution that will allow me to have a much longer session with suspension involved. I still dream of a fully inverted self-bondage tie, but can I ever really do it safely?
And once more – I must get the camera out again!
Today I did something I haven't tried before. Layering 😁
It started slowly and carefully, adding a few pairs of pantyhose and trying how it feels.
The order of the layers seems to matter. I did not keep track, but having different materials of hosiery in different relative positions made a difference between just having a general "tight" feeling versus feeling actual caressing/moving sensations when shifting one's position or when laying down on something.
But you know how these things go.
In the end, after several hours, including various pantyhose straitjacket techniques with and without arms bound, and regrettably ripping another pair trying the pantyhose mummysack (with arms inside the same sleeve as the head, rather satisfyingly, after a long, long struggle), I count that I had eight or nine pairs of pantyhose on, four pairs of S-size seamless ladies' briefs, three pairs of compression shorts (jolinesse seamless control briefs), one pair of leggings, and underneath it all, a small but very stretchy sports T-shirt I bought several years ago from somewhere. The hosiery were of various sizes. Since I am a man, most of them were smaller than my size.
It. was. tight.
The multiple pairs of compression shorts & small briefs also created a nice pressure on the waist that I usually use a sturdy leather belt for.
In the end, I had to remove all of these before going sleeping, because despite trying three times to avoid it, all these pantyhose still continuously creeped upwards, always eventually inflicting a serious pressure on the big toes of both feet. With multiple layers on, it was difficult to pull them to relieve the pressure, and it would still eventually creep back. Because such condition can actually be damaging for the toe bones, I had to undo it.
One particular classic technique during these experiments was that I had the stretchy T-shirt on, and tightly tucked underneath the several layers of hosiery and compression shorts. The bottom end of the shirt definitely could not be pulled out from the underneath. Then, I pulled the neck opening of the T-shirt above my head, twisted it like a bread bag, and closed it with a tiny cable tie, leaving my head underneath the shirt. Then I took a small belt and tied it loosely around my neck, not tight enough to create any significant pressure, but still enough to not slip off the head. It functions to compress the shirt a little. Then I pulled my arms inside the shirt, taking care to avoid ripping any seams while stretching the shirt was necessary to pull the arms in, and slowly pushed the arms behind my back (which was also very difficult). With another pair of pantyhose compressing my legs together, preventing me from sitting or standing up, I knew from experience that getting out from this situation would be very difficult. Thank God for sweat 😊 It lubricated my back and arms enough to get out without having to cut anything.
Another technique involved a bicycle inner tire. I have a spare tire for these purposes, that I have cut so that it is not a loop. I tie slip knots in both ends of the tire, and wrap the tire in various ways around my body, with the hands in the loops. For example, wrap it once or twice around the waist, tighten, pull the ends to the behind through the crotch, and insert hands in the loops and tighten. The cutting position of the tire was right next to the valve. This way, one of the slip knots becomes slightly less likely to unravel than the other.
This was my intensive sports/gymnastic exercise. Practically ever muscle and tendon in my body is now somewhat sore. 😊
My mistress wants me to find an anal plug with hair for a tail but one that also has a handle to further my humiliation. It is not that the insertable part can be used as a handle, but a handle in addition to the plug & tail. Has anyone ever heard of such a plug & where can I go to at least see a pic of it & possibly purchase it
Does anyone know if self-bondage photos of Soloist that were posted on the web 10-15 years ago are still available? I haven't been able to find him for a long time, and i don't think that he would be the Soloist who wrote on Gromets. His creativity and use of spreaders encouraged me to be adventurous in my private times.
Here are some bondage pics of me wearing my favourite type of clothing material: spandex. Sharing my pictures with you gives me a little bit of exhibitionistic pleasure and I hope you like them 😊
If you typically buy a size smaller than recommended, do not do that with these. They are wonderfully tight...one pair of these is about as tight as 3-4 pairs of control top pantyhose. I love these tights...I do not know how long they are going to be on sale. It looks like a clearance sale, so you might want to stock up...I bought 4 pair and will probably buy about 10 more!
When you download the program you will find inside the zip a folder called Question Pack, the .exe of the program and a very detailed pdf with the instructions manual:
The program works like that:
1) You'll see a slideshow of images at fullscreen
·Images are inside the Question Pack folder, and thery are showed randomly
·There is the posibility of do not repeat images from one session to another
·Users can add new images
·You can setup up to 10 images to be showed (and asked for later)
·You can setup how long the images will stay in screen letting you memorize them
(Example of a real image from the program)
2) A cards memory game will start
·You'll have to turn 30 pairs of cards.
·You can setup teasing on errors
·Possible to run a countdown: if you do not turn cards at time you'll be teased
·Possible to setup a safe number of atemps before being teased.
·On fails time will be added to the final countdown.
·Random Teasing mode avaible
·Cards are displayed randomly.
·Possible to have a Panic Button on screen, press it and you'll be free.
(Cards game with almost all the cards turned)
3) You'll be asked about the images you saw at the beggining of the session
·You'll have to answer a question about every image that you saw at the beggining.
·If you answer correctly all the questions you'll be free
·Questions are stored in a folder inside the Question Pack
·It has been created a little program to allow users build their how question fast and easely
·During the questions you'll get on screen a second image hidding the elements that you are asked about.
When you answer you'll get a third image showing the correct answer.
·If you fail answering you'll be tied the amount of time that you bet plus the time added during the cards game
(Real image from the program)
In this release there have been inclluded 300 images and questions.
In the PDF you'll find a very detailed guide of how you can create your own questions, and when released to the main fourm I want to create a thread where people can upload their own questions packs.
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