I am wearing skirts and about a year ago, I started doing that in public too. These days, it is a bit cold for just skirts on the legs and therefore I got used to the idea of adding leggings or pantyhose. So I am interested in this subject as well now. I was before, abusing pantyhose for self bondage and I also tried some cross-dressing with pantyhose, but this is different.
Funny enough, pantyhose and skirt on a man really add more than 1+1, at least, in my imagination - probably also in reality. In the meantime, I can't really tell, if wearing a skirt is more fun with bare legs or not. In a way it is, because it must be fairly warm, but that is not the point š . I do not primarily wear skirts in public for fetish reasons. I like cross dressing to some point (undoing makeup is a pain anyway), but not in public. When I wear skirts in public, I make sure, I look okay as a man. It is a very comfortable garment and fairly safe in big cities - people often don't notice you or at least pretend not to, and most others are tolerant. However, in combination with pantyhose, I can't always avoid a CD-feeling - and why should I, as long as it is invisible to others (ok, borderline talk here, some people consider any man in skirt with any motives a crossdresser or even a criminal dangerous pervert). And I can't help preferring tighter skirts for their slightly restraining effects.
Sometimes it is a weird situation but I am sure, many fetishists, who like everyday items, have this delicate "trouble". Imagine a rain-coat lover having to wear a raincoat because it rains š . Of course, it makes the "normal" wearing of things a little harder. Sometimes, people seem to be able to see right into your brain when they look at you (and yet, they probably don't, even if they have the same fetish).
There was Mizumo, Speedo and a couple of other brands selling something like swim suits with high zippered back and a rubber-like surface on the outside - mostly for water polo. But apparently, these suits are off the market. Some of us like such suits, so why not collect places where they are still sold at reasonable prices (meaning not ebay auctions for example)?
An imperfect alternative is a suit made from neoprene. Unfortunately, these are basically made for women (the real swimsuits) and the ones I have seen so far would not accomodate men's jewels properly - and neoprene is not exactly elastic either. Of course there are wet suits and dry suits in various thicknesses and designs, but that is a totally different garment.
This was not planned to be a full session; with only a very short time alone I was only planning to take a few shots of my new bodysuits, but one thing led to anotherā¦.
I had an hour of guaranteed āalone timeā, not enough for a proper selfbondage session but long enough to take some photos of my latest purchases for the forumā¦ or so I thought! š
The 70denier suit went on first, after Iād ensured there would be no accidental spillages by rolling a condom over my cock. This suit is similar to another I own with a cock sheath and long sleeves, but it has one significant difference ā it is closed crotch. As posted elsewhere the open crotch on my old suit can be very useful (changing butt-plugs mid-session springs to mind) but also means I must wear at least one other pair of pantyhose to achieve the encasement I love so much. This new suit solves that problem and also feels much more erotic, there is an added element that whatever I start off with, be it ball bondage (more of that some other time) butt plug or dildo, that will have to stay until Iām finished or Iāll have to strip naked and start again.
I shall apologise in advance for the rather awful poses, simply put Iām no model and was rushing things. I was also using the timer on my camera, which gave me around 5 seconds to get into position after pressing the button (try this with multiple layers of nylon over your fingers and then covering 3-4m of floor to get into shot!). also, and I know Ra has views on this, I donāt shave my legs ā in some ways I wish I could as I know it would feel sooooo sexy, but my GF loves my legs as they are and I love her too much to shave without her agreement.
Today was not intended to be a session, so no plugs or bondage was added as I dressed in the suit. With the camera set up I pulled two knee-highs over my head and a further two over each hand and arm, achieving near 100% encasement.
This shot makes it look like Iām 100% encased, but there is a small gap around my neck, between the knee-highs and the neck of the suit. Itās still very pleasant though!
Happy that Iād got the first suit on film I elected to pull the second full suit over the top of the first ā again I was trying to get as much done as possible in the small window I had available.
Onto my full suit now; the knee-highs came off and I pulled on the second suit. For speed and also because of the sheer nature of the second suitās nylon I chose to wear it over the first suit. I am still amazed as how strong the āelasticityā of this suit is compared to the heavier denier of the first. It clings so tightly to your body and there is an incredibly sexy feeling as it slowly encases my body from my toes upwards. My cock was now triple encased in a condom sheath and two nylon ones, Iām sure that with the addition of a butt-plug I would have been more, maybe even painfully, erect.
After my first attempts and struggles to get the zipper closed on this suit I tried a different approach and found it much easier to pull my hands and arms into the arms, with fingers in their appropriate sheaths and then reach behind me to carefully zip myself inside the nylon cocoon. The zipper itself is very small and discreet, so unlike my zentai suit I canāt attach a cord to help with this process, but with my new approach it isnāt a big problem. Again I wasnāt planning anything more that taking a few quick photos at this point, I did however add my high heeled boots, almost as an afterthought, because they just felt right.
Horrible pose, but you can hopefully see how the encasement is wonderfully complete
As I walked back to my bag of goodies, intending to disrobe and tidy things away, I happened to glance at my ropes, lying in an inviting pile to one side of the bag. It had been such a long time since I last played and with the winter sun surprisingly warm through the curtained window I felt the urge to play come over me. I played with the rope for a few moments considering the options and wondering if I dare ā in the end lust won out and I quickly worked out a simply selfbondage scene.
I wanted to get some more shots of this, so ruled out the idea of bound ankles or legs ā I reckoned that I couldnāt possible cover the distance between camera and the āin-pictureā location with hops before the camera took itās single shot.
The bondage I settled on was simple but effective; a noose in the rope went over my encased cock and balls, pulling tight to enhance my growing erection. The rope then looped up and around my neck, then once more around the base of my cock before passing between my legs. I then pulled it tightly up my back, passing it several times around my open mouth to for a simple gag. The final step was to secure the rope behind my head with a length hanging down my back with a long loop tied in it. My wrists went into a pre-prepared coil of rope, which I use frequently and is cut to the perfect length to form 4 coils/loops that I can squeeze my hands through and then twist to form a snug and secure binding. The twist I added was to form a sliding loop within the loop of rope down my back, then pass half the wrist rope through it. I could now slide my wrists into the wrist rope, from opposite directions, twist them to align them downwards and then pull further downwards to tighten the loop down my back as a sort of ācinchā over the wrist coils.
selfbondage from the side
selfbondage from the back, showing wrists
As I said, the bondage was simpleā¦ but oh soooo sexy as I struggled in and out of it to get a few shots. Moving my wrists either pulled the gag deeper, tugged at my cock or bothā¦ NICE!š
All too soon I had to call time, quickly undressing and packing my toys away ā though not after achieving a very satisfactory āfinaleā to the session.š
What went well?
The two new suits are simply fabulous ā making my personal desire for full encasement so easy to achieve. I particularly like the gloved hands in the full suit; they allow me to be fully encased but still able to manipulate ropes and such.
What could be improved?
More time to play ā I desperately want to have some proper long duration sessions without time pressure on me. I especially want to try a night encased in the full bodysuit, even the thought of it I arousing me ā and thatās without any form of bondage.
Itās got to be the addition of a butt-plug and more (much more) rope, plus a real session where escape is impossible until a release has been triggered. Iām getting so desperate for a proper session that it hurtsā¦
I hope you enjoy my first adventure of 2012 as much as I did...
I just finished a very enjoyable selfbondage session and just wanted to share it with all you. The setup was very simple: tied hands and feet to the opposite sides of a couch. These pictures show how my hands and feet were restrained...
In the last picture you can see the keys that were hanging from a string. Then the keys were planned to fall (using ice-in-stocking release method) right to my tied hands so I could reach them. In addition, I used a ball-gag (obviously for the mouth) and a plastic cinch so I could keep my "excitement" to last during the whole session...
Having everything in place, I proceeded to restrain myself...
Note that just before restraining my legs, I decided to loose the bra Then, I proceeded...
At this point I'm rather excited. That's when I "cinched myself" so I could keep the excitement for later š
Now I've reached the moment to bound myself and remain hopeful that, in about a couple of hours, the ice melt and releases the keys...
At this point I'm defenceless and just waiting for the release of the keys. However, I managed to remove the gag (my mistake of not adjusting it as tied as it should've been allowed me to -eventually- spit it out). Nevertheless, I'm still bounded and hoping for the keys to fall.
Later on, I noticed that with some effort and with patient I could untie my feet given that the restraints were kind of loose given my thin ankles. Then I dedicated my time to untie my feet. After some struggle, I succeeded...
Having freed my feet, I was able to move and reach the key with my mouth by standing in my tiptoes...
The whole session lasted around 20 min. Yet, I would've wish it had lasted longer. I need to find a way to secure my feet in a better way and to adjust the ball-gag tighter. Having done those two things, I would had no remedy but to wait for the keys to fall... Maybe I'll try it again with those adjustments next weekend. Stay tuned. I look forward for your comments.
The stuff is not exactly cheap, but it looks nice and there are a few nice images. I am tempted to buy the high-collared leotard, but will look around for similar ones at lower price first.
If you look at the items, make sure to click on the images, there are more hidden!
I bought a leather straight jacket a couple of years ago and it must be one of the coolest items for self-bondage. After reading and experimenting a bit thought Iād have a go at an illustrated how to guide.
1) First put on something slippery, Lycra is good in summer but you may need something warmer in winter. The last thing you want is the jacket to bind on your skin/body, this will make it impossible to remove later and it can make the session painful quite quickly. You need to be able to wiggle freely in the jacket in order to position limbs and joints so they donāt pull on tendons ā this is cause the pain that is often written about in relation to straight jackets.
The buckle of the clinch strap needs a rubber band around it so that it will close without help; this only needs to be about half way up. Best to experiment first.
2) Do up the jacket zip and straps except for the neck area. Put the jacket on over the head and pull up the zip and fasten the collar about the neck with your free hands, this area is very hard to reach and feel once your arms and hands are in the sleeves.
3) Then slid your arms up into the sleeves and pull the jacket down.
4) Do up the crotch straps. These are difficult to feel through the sleeves but you can still see the buckles, which does help a lot. Once this is done the jacket is firmly attached to you and isnāt going anywhere without being undone first.
5) Now for the arm or clinch strap. The arm with the long strap needs to thread under the front strap and around the body under all the loopsā¦ to do this you will need to roll around a little on the bed till you work it back round the other side and through the last loop ā¦
The other arm is then put under the front strap and you grab the buckle and work it over the strap. Once itās started and down a few notches from the strap end, push it back through the side loop.
6) Push the end you have through the buckle into the door jam and close the door so it grabs the strap. Move forward and twist and your all tightened up, this will also give you enough slack to open the door. At the point you close the door your actually trapped as you canāt open it again without clinching your arm strap. Donāt over tighten the strapā¦ itās so very tempting but it can make it harder to escape and induce pain in your elbows or wrists.
So now youāre trappedā¦ heart pounding you can fight and wriggle excitedly to check that you are hopelessly bound and then err do whatever followed by maybe a little sleep ā¦
So when your finally ready for release you will need to pull the clinch strap tight then on an angle .. this will stop the buckles pin from slipping back in the hole (this is why you use a loose rubber band). If you want more reliability you can tie a string to the rubber band so you can pull it back and guarantee release. I prefer the not knowing if I can get out but there is always someone to let me out (eventually) if I get stuck.
Alternatively you can wriggle the clinch buckle around till you can reach it and just undo it (aka the standard straight jacket escape method) however this involves a LOT of effort. The first time that I managed to get out like this it took me about 45 minutes. So have a drink of water ready, as itās to late to get some once youāre strapped in š
Remember to play safe; straight jackets are designed to be an āindustrial strengthā restraint. I would have to say that the first time I had one put on me it was definitely the most intimidating restraint I had ever tried, the shear weight and strength of it impressed that it wasnāt designed to be removed by the wearer. Having said that Iām very used to sleeping in it nowā¦ itās just cuddly warm and gives me a big hug all night long ā¦.
Oh yeah ā A big thank you to my wife for operating the camera.
Then, I proceeded...
