As a new member, I guess I should introduce myself. I'm a male from Singapore and like many people here, I have a fetish for hosiery (anything above the knee, nothing too lacy, preferably tights/pantyhose). I love it when women (especially friends and relatives) wear them. I love how they turn legs from a piece of flesh and bone to an item worthy of admiration. And I love how they feel in the few times I've worn them.
Yet, every time I fix my eyes on a woman's silken legs, or surf the net looking for photos, drawings or videos of women (bound) in pantyhose, I would always feel a sense of envy, emptiness and even guilt. The thoughts of "Why can't I be a girl so that I can put on a pair of nude tights and show the world that I've got Leggs?" or "Why can't I be a damsel in distress, bound and gagged (or better, encased) in pantyhose?" or "Why am I thinking about these things?!" or even "Why must the weather here be so bloody hot and humid that I can't wear tights under my pants?!" would be present in my mind on an almost daily basis.
Looking at pictures, watching videos, reading and writing fiction can only do so much. And I guess my situation doesn't help things much. On one hand, Singapore, apart from being one of the worst places to wear hosiery apart from ankle socks, is one that is really conservative. Our government often stinks of "family values", and until recently, anal and oral sex was banned (apparently). I don't think many of my compatriots would approve of a gay couple, let alone a guy in tights.
On the other hand, making my fetish known to my friends and family would simply wreak havoc on my social life. Considering the teasing I've received from my closest friends (done in jest of course) after I've admitted my preferences for bondage in a game of "Truth or Dare", I think I would be seen as a complete weirdo and a social parish if they saw me in a pair of wolfords. And don't get me started on my family, they would be devastated, especially when I'm the only son (the most treasured item in any Chinese family).
And I guess I have to take into account my own self. While I would love to be bound with my waxed (or better, lased) legs sheathed in nylon, I also have a masculine side to my personality. I want to amaze girls with a lean and fit body, especially in uniform since I am going for my national service in a few months, and I'm not sure where pantyhose would fit into the image of me as a human war machine (maybe underneath my fatigues?).
With these three factors taken into consideration, I guess I'm not a very happy man. I've tried to eradicate my fetish. And embracing it is not going to be an easy, if not impossible road to take. For now, I guess my inner self is bound, gagged and encased under tight layers of want, dissatisfaction, despair and even anguish. This is one form of bondage I really want to get out of.
I wonder if there are people like me out there on this forum? I'm not sure how that will help, but I guess it beats being alone in my predicament. And while this post is not aimed at garnering any sympathy for me (I'm not comfortable with being a "pity-whore"), but I guess any cry for help would result in this one way or another.
To anyone reading this, I thank you for taking out the time to read a complete stranger's ramblings 😊
I'm bored, so I thought I would make trouble for someone else :p
The little check box beside the login section at the top of the forum has "undefined" written beside it. I guess this is where the option/check box description for "remember me" would be, but it's not showing as such.
Again, minimal on impact and barely worth mentioning, but aside from being bored, it occurred to me that you are never logged out, Like Ra, so may never get a chance to see it. 😉
Anyway, I'm now off to dig up Leonardo da Vinci to point out a couple of niggles with the Mona Lisa...
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Hi, all guys
I have a question that has been confusing me for a long time, i need your creative or funny thoughts to explain the phenomenon.
Why do almost all of superheroes wear zentai costume?
Such as sipderman, batman, superman, Power Ranger so on, that's just so interesting!
For me, i knew "zentai" was because of spiderman, he is one of my favorite character!
Listen, this is my opinion: wearing tight clothes can make their look hot or sexy, zentai is totally different from other clothes. Maybe special clothe also can show your special status!
I finally had time to do another recorded session (actually 2, so another video is about to follow!). Another frog tie, it has become my favourite 😎
There is room for improvement, as always. I like the rope ratchet better than the system with a belt but it is less compact. In this case I could not reach the release but it was close. Next time I'll need to switch back so it will end up safely out of reach or,more likely, I'll add a rope around my upper arms to limit where my hands can go.
As you can see it was not difficult to get to the release so I'll need to figure something out that makes me try harder to escape the ropes. Now I can get to the release whenever I feel like it. Something timed, or in another room.
My other vids are linked here on the forum or in my myvideo account (where I get low ratings because I'm a man, discrimination!).
I seem to have less and less occasions where I can have a self bondage session, this also means I try to make the most of them, including videotaping them but that makes the preparation and cleaning up take even more time. Videotaping however means I get to enjoy it afterwards to bridge the gap between sessions. If I'm videotaping I might as well share so I need to reorganise the room and stuff to make it look acceptable. That also takes time. Then I think "one extra camera then, since I'm busy already", it does not take a lot of time but it adds up. These took me one day start to finish, excluding editing the video, and it's not even half an hour in bondage.
For this video I have set up 6 cameras: one old dv cam, one cheap digital photo camera that can record some video and 4 laptops with webcams. I think you can all see from the crap quality that I do not own any expensive or state of the art video equipment. One is to bright, one is to dark and one even failed to record anything. The only reason it turns out as it does is because I added lots of extra lights, it almost hurt my eyes just being in the room. The easiest one to work with was a cheap Nikon Coolpix photo camera on a cheap little tripod. It was the fastest to install and it had the best video quality (even better than the dv cam, go figure). Now how to explain to my girlfriend I need another five of them...
@Ra: sorry about the full text links but insert hyperlink button is not working and I don't remember the bb-code.
One can think of many stupid fantasies when one gets horny. I had my fair share.
I had this fantasy of being permanently encased in pantyhose/zentai, with no way out. Locking the zip is one way but one can easily tear the fabric to get out.
I thought of gluing every inch of fabric to my skin so I couldn't rip my way out without ripping my skin altogether. Very kinky fantasy I must say, but fantasy != reality. My brain got confused between the boundaries and did something stupid; to try out my fantasy.
Before going ahead to glue my entire body, I figured I should try with a small test fabric and see how it goes. I took a pantyhose leg and cut out the length approximately the width of my palm as a test fabric.
I pulled the fabric over and onto my thigh. I then used 'Elmer's Spray Adhesive' and sprayed all over my thigh. I read the instructions for the spray before that:
'For temporary bonds: Spray a light coat and allow to dry for 3-5 minutes before joining. To remove, work a corner loose and peel back.
For permanent bonds: Join surfaces within 15 seconds while adhesive is still tacky. Allow to set at least 1 hour.'
As I was thinking from my dick, I went for the 'permanent bond' option. After finished spraying, I quickly pulled the pantyhose fabric over before it lose its adhesion. The adhesive is quite tacky and strong, a bit like rubber cement but dries much faster.
I continued to enjoy the sheer pantyhose over my leg, glued directly on my skin, it's the true 'second skin' feeling. I couldn't feel my skin anymore, the pantyhose took over.
No idea how strong the adhesive can get after it sets, I began to panic. After just 15 minutes of applying it, I tried to peel it off. It was almost impossible to pinch the fabric out of my skin to peel it. The more I tried, the more it hurt. Hurting the pantyhose was like hurting my own skin. I have achieved what I wanted but it's not cool anymore.
Luckily I have a loose corner which wasn't glued as much. I slowly peeled it off from there. As the adhesive was set for only 15 minutes, it wasn't too strong to become impossible to peel. The strength was something like 2-3x that of waxing. It was painful but still manageable.
I couldn't imagine what it'll be like if I let it set for a full hour. Although the idea of encasing oneself permanently sounds very enticing, I have no idea what the adhesive would do to the skin for a long period.
Now even when the pantyhose is off, the layer of adhesive is still stuck to my skin. It is very hard to come off as it stuck to most of my thigh hair. It is like waxing but without anything to tug it out. The layer is so thin and fine I almost couldn't bear to peel it off.
I do some peeling and rubbing from time to time but I figured I'll take days to get rid of it completely. Occasionally rubbing my adhesive-bound skin feels like some ultra-thin pantyhose over it.
I found a heavy parasol stand in the basement, which could be a nice stand for a roll of clingwrap. It is a simple stone plate with a vertical pipe to accomodate the rod of the parasol. The pipe is wide enough to accomodate the metal pipe of my vacuum cleaner. Put together, I got a vertical pole that is 1.10 m high, this is my stand for the clingwrap-roll. I used locking pliers as a stopper, to keep the roll at the top of this pole.
My idea: Wrap yourself directly from the roll. Alternatively, you can wrap the pole, and then walk around the pole while wrapping yourself.
There are four flaws:
It doesn't require enough force to pull the clingwrap from the roll, the wrap on the body isn't tight. I need to create friction between the roll and the pole, or a "break", that holds the roll so you can pull tight. That break must be very simple, since you can't use your hands.
The position of the roll on the tube is fixed. In order to wrap your legs, you have to move away from the pole and do some absurd movements to get the wrap there.
Once finished, you have to find a way to cut the wrap from the roll.
Can't be used in summer, if the stand is used on your balcony.
The good points:
Simple design, the components look perfectly harmless and unsuspicious.
The stand (my stand) is heavy enough to withstand quite some pulling without falling over.
Can be used with cloth or adhesive tape as well.
I also tried a single-glove wrap. The pole has a good height for this. Doing this off the roll isn't tight enough to keep the elbows together but I achieved a nice package. With wraps around the shoulders, there would have been quite a challenge to get out.
I think, wrapping the pole first is better than wrapping off the roll, because you can control the height of the film. And as long as there is enough film on the pole, you can pull tighter easily. Of course, you have to walk around the pole quite often, the circumference of the pole is less than 30 cm. Not easy once you have started mummifying your legs.
As long as the legs are free, you can step over the line of film between your body and the pole. This lets you create neater wraps around the shoulders or between arms and back (armbinder style).
Another technique when wrapping palettes is to let the film run through your fingers, creating long straps which are stronger than the flat film. Might be useful to tie your wrists or ankles. Of course, you would need a replacement for the fingers, once they aren't available anymore.
I just completed a self-bondage session. (No pictures, sorry.)
What I dressed with:
- medical pantyhose, tight, with a hole in front to pass-through the male parts eBay: Medical support pantyhose
- man's thong, over the pantyhose
- women's swimsuit, high back, not tight
- women's underbust corset, with shoulder straps, back laces replaced with 2mm synthetic rope for extra tightening force 😊 eBay: shaper underbust corset
- back posture corrector, to keep my shoulders back and corset laces out of reach
- women's leotard, size M (my size is large), long sleeves (not that long for me), turtle-neck, back zipper. Search eBay UK: long sleeved zipped leotards UK Store: LegWearUK
- high heeled boots, tight around the ankles, 11cm, no platform, 2 sizes smaller but not very unconfortable.
Bondage:
- 1 pair of leather dog collars with extra buckle holes, wrapped around my wrists, padlocked
- a leather beld around my (now very small) waist, with extra holes in the back
- rope around my legs, creating a hobble so I could make aprox. 15cm steps
- a chain tied with one end to the door hinge (high)
Release:
- ice and keys hanging from a hook screwed in the top door frame
- a combination padlock (3 digits) and another set of keys far away on the floor so I could not get them before unlocking the combination padlock
To entertain myself I stared a slideshow on my computer showing fetish pictures.
I tied my hands behind my back and connected them to the middle of the belt using padlocks. Belt buckle was in front. I took the end of the chain and connected it to one of the hand padlocks using the combination lock.
I was bondaged and I could not get free until 1) keys dropped or 2) I guessed the padlock combination.
I watched the slideshow for some time, then I noticed that the ice would take too long to melt. I decided to get free using the backup release and not wait for the ice to melt. I grabbed the combination padlock and tried to unlock it.
Usually I can open that padlock in 5 minutes without knowing the combination or seeing what I'm doing. I only have to keep pulling the padlock while turning the digits and I can feel when the correct position of each digit wheel is reached. This time it didn't work that way.
Somehow the padlock was in a position that I could not pull. The digit wheels turned smoothly and I could not feel anything while turning them. Because it was difficult to reach, I could not even feel if the digit wheels were "set" on a digit or in between two digits.
So, my backup release failed! I could not open the combination padlock, could not reach the keys above my head, could not walk away to get the spare keys because the chain kept me near the door, and I could not even sit down on the floor because the chain was too short (intentional, to keep me on high heels). I felt panic for a moment. I am sure now that panic is NOT the feeling that I'm looking for in self-bondage. Panic while wearing a tight corset is a very intense sensation!
After a twisted and turned for while not knowing what to do, I struggled and somehow I reached the belt buckle in front of me and I untied my hands from my waist. They were still behind my back and because they were still connected to the chain, I could not sit down and bring them in front of me, nor reach the second set of keys. I only had some extra mobility behind my back.
This time I could grab the combination padlock better and after a while I got it open. I walked hobbled across the room and unlocked my hands with the spare keys.
Results of this session: fear, a moment of panic, clothes full of sweat, ache in my legs and corset marks on my body.
I'm thinking that if the keys got stuck when the ice melted, I could not get free by myself. I had a cord to pull them down, but there was a chance that the ring could get stuck.
While writing this, I just noticed that I forgot the apartment door unlocked. I tied myself directly in front of the apartment door. I could cry for help in the morning (after 5 hours of standing on high heels) and someone neighbor would come in to free me, but imagine the embarrasement. If the door would have been locked, the only other possibility was to ask him to break the door, as I could not reach the door lock.
I do SB once a month on average. I did it for more than 20 years, so I consider myself "experienced". SB today was scary. I'm thinking to quit doing SB before something very bad happens.
What do you think?
